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Prepare for the annual insulting infantizing of gay adults by straight people who ask "are you going home for the holidays?"

IM 52 YEARS OLD, ASS HOLE. My home is where my things are. Just because I chose not to breed and focus my life on spawn, doesnt mean I dont have a home - and just because my family may look different than yours, dont patronize me. It is an insult to assume that a single gay person is lonely or somehow still a child who has to go to mommie and daddy over the holidays or be sad and lonely. We do just fine. So, instead of asking "are you going home?" just ask if we have plans... or what our plans are - if you have no boundaries and/ or are just too fucking nosy. Or better yet, fuck off entirely and go to Toys R Us. We will likely be at the Met or a great dinner party with interesting people with interesting careers who travel and see interesting things.

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