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Finance/relationship advice needed....

My wife and I got married last year, after dating for seven years. We have shared expenses over the years. She opened up her own business about five years ago, and I paid the majority of the bills for a while (I am a nurse and picked up extra shifts to help out ). She also borrowed money from a couple of her friends at this time, which she has still not paid back. She told me that the total that she owed them was about 4k. I found out today that my father gave her 6k around this time, after she called him crying about how bad business was. He looks at her like a daughter, and gave it to her, promising not to say anything to me about it. My father told my brother, who decided to tell me today, after I complained about his wife's family freeloading off of my father. I am embarrassed, and livid. When I confronted her about it, she apologized, and confessed that the amount owed to friends is closer to 9k. My father is in poor health, and I stand to inherit about 800k. I do not want her to get a dime of it, and am now paranoid about her using me for money. The trust is gone. Do I ask her to sign something stating that she won't get any interest in my fathers estate? I love her, but I cannot stand feeling this way. She doesn't lie about anything other than money, as far as I know.

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