Just got home after a night of insanely amazing sex.
Slept about an hour, but am so totally wired at the moment. Met this couple at an HK bar. Went back to their place, where I was the party favor for a couple of hours. After that they called couple they know who also plays to come over and join us. They arrived with a couple of friends. For the next four hours, the seven of us (at least I think there were seven...I was so out of it by this point) went at it. I have no idea how many of these guys were in my mouth and ass, or how many times I came...it's all so hazy. I should probably hate myself, but all I feel is amazingly exhilirated with the mindset that I can conquer the world.
better get tested.
Hope your nasty ass practiced safe sex. Perv.
The first time I went to the tubs, I had a 15-way. Of course, that was in 1977.
When I left, I remember stepping on some used condoms, so yes, we used protection. :)
OP, you sound fat.
OP, you're feeling desired and attractive right now. And very daring. Face it. You took a risk and it went well. OTOH, you could have ended up chopped in pieces and packed in several trash bags, and carefully distributed in anonymous trash receptacles spanning a ten mile radius.
You're looking forward to a next time. Take care.
Terrific! I miss those days!
Was double penetration involved?
Oh Cheyenne... stop spreading your warts.
[quote]all I feel is amazingly exhilirated with the mindset that I can conquer the world.
Sounds like you still haven't come down from the cocaine. Tomorrow you'll want to kill yourself.
You're a whore, darlin'
Meth is involved no doubt
This can't be for real, can it?
OP, sounds like fun. Good for you!
[quote]This can't be for real, can it?
I'm sorry, Mrs. OP, but your son's a whore.
May I speak at your memorial service?
I went to bed early. And alone. Yet, for some strange reason, I don't envy you.
You're high on adrenaline or cortisol. Don't do this too often or you'll burn out - maybe permanently.
Hope you used protection OP
Dirty sloppy-assed whore.
This thread is useless without a live cam feed.
OP sounds old and the guys in this orgy are probably trolls who are about as attractive as the POZ creeps in a Treasure Island Media video. Next.
We'll see who's envious when OP posts in several weeks, asking which HIV drugs are the most effective. Most of us have a healthy appreciation for sex without having to resort to being full-on whores.
OP is your name tina?
hope OP went to confessional today.
As I wrote above, there were a ton of condoms on the floor as I left the apartment, so I'm guessing they used protection on me. The first guys, the ones I picked up at the bar, 100% used protection. The second round of guys who showed up later, 95% sure they bagged it before taking me. Not concerned about HIV from it.
As for drugs, I don't PnP....consider myself pretty responsible when it comes to drugs. The guys I picked up used something, not sure about the second set of guys. Like I said, that part of the early morning is very hazy. :) Still haven't slept...have this blissful exhiliration that I everyone should feel at least once.
Pretty responsible or responsible? That haze you are describing is not normal for a sober person to be experiencing and may be indicative of a mental illness. Do you have often have bouts of mania followed by selective retrograde amnesia? We might also want to work on those self esteem issues.
I hope you saved one of those condoms for your scrapbook.
r31, I spent the better part of six hours getting fucked by more than a handful of guys, and I slept less than an hour. What I'm feeling is a mix of bliss and adernaline. I'm sure I'll crash eventually, but am savoring the sensation for now.
OP= Jane Fonda in “The Morning After”.
[quote]Still haven't slept...have this blissful exhiliration that I everyone should feel at least once.
I know, eh?
No walls. And you GUESS they used protection?
Admitting you have a problem is your first step. Here you go.
Graduating from Oxford gives you the mindset that you can conquer the world. Getting a steady job gives you the mindset that you can conquer the world. Finding a good companion does it too. Being a cumbucket to a bunch of strangers should make you feel low and abused. If it doesn't you need help.
Look chump, I just let the condom police think I was wearing one. Ya see, I don't like em and fucked you raw.
Spiritual aspect of group emphatic interchange.
Technical explanation of exhilaration, current pleasurable feelings.
Just there. No valuation, moral or psychological.
Does anybody know how they'll get those six guys out of there?
Damn, is this datalounge.com or puritannicalfundie.com? What's with all the sex-negativity? Lighten up, guys. It was just sex.
Most people are gonna snark on you about it.
And six guys at once is skeevy, whether some of the kids are doing it or not.
If you don't have any self respect why are you whining?
R42 Yes, this is Datalounge. But this DL in 2013, not 1977. Unprotected sex can kill and the stereotype gay fuck machine with no feelings is a thing of the past. Only losers who are trying to prove something, or hide something, do what you did.
If it's that unimportant, OP, why the need to bore us with it?
[quote] the stereotype gay fuck machine with no feelings is a thing of the past.
OP, I'd like to say it was fraus judging you, but I guarantee it's other gays.
As long as you were safe and it was mutual, have fun.
The voice of sanity at r47. Thanks bro.
Because clearly those voicing their concerns about you having anonymous sex with seven guys which may or may not have been protected (you are not sure) are the insane ones. Did you use another IP address to post that comment at R47, OP?
What is your age, OP?
Looking forward to next weeks thread detailing OP's meltdown when he bumps into last night's seed spreaders and they pretend to not know him and he doesn't get invited back for another pass around.
Oh god, I did not catch any STD. Please unclench. Shouldn't some of you be in your Siennas picking up the kids from soccer practice at General Lee Memorial Park or something?
R49, I'm R47 (not the OP).
Life isn't some rom-com where it's all cutesy and they wait until they're in love to "make love." People WILL have sex with people they've only just met.
As I said, as long as it's safe and mutual, WTF do you care what other people do?
OP and his friends are who we have to thank for drug-resistant strains of STDs.
OP/R53 how do you know. You just said in your opening post you don't remember much of the night.
You do realize you can catch STI from sucking and crabs from body to body contact,
[quote]As I said, as long as it's safe and mutual, WTF do you care what other people do?
OP invited opinion.
Sorry if it doesn't fit your narrative or his.
"As I wrote above, there were a ton of condoms on the floor as I left the apartment, so I'm guessing they used protection on me. The first guys, the ones I picked up at the bar, 100% used protection. The second round of guys who showed up later, 95% sure they bagged it before taking me. Not concerned about HIV from it."
So, OP was a cum receptacle who "I'm guessing they used protection. "
I've had one night stands, and I've hooked up with guys I was attracted to that I barely knew. I'm not a frau or a virgin. But I'm finding your adventure just a little repulsive, OP.
Think about it. You talk about "the first group" and "the second group" and you even confirm that there was drug use, although not by you, and you say "things were hazy."
So, I'm concerned for you, OP. I'm not impressed. If you wanted to impress with your story, maybe you need to go to some porn forum or something.
I had a friend who was so careful. One night he hooked up with a guy. And he made a mistake. He though the guy was putting on a condom, but in reality he was lubing up his cock, minus a condom.
He is now poz.
OP you don't know if every single person used a condom.
I figured about half of the posts would be from actual homosexual men and the rest from whatever the fuck priss creatures pass for gay these days. It was more 20-80.
"so I'm guessing they used protection on me. "
Oh God!! Meth is evil
OP says in his own post "I should probably hate myself".
He came here looking for validation and didn't get it. You shouldn't hate yourself, OP, but if you really have questions about what you did last night, you should at least have a think about some stuff. And an STD panel.
OP if you don't have a problem being bred with hiv, then you have nothing to apologize for.
To each his own.
OP you have no way of knowing if you caught an STI or not, you should get regular tests if you are sexually active with more than one person. I do.
Closing in on 10-90.
These types of gay men make me sick
Maybe OP wasn't high. He could just be lightheaded from blood loss from his ripped up shitter.
The new DL:
Did the apartment have an open floor plan? What was the thread count on the bed linens? Did you ask the first and last name of these gentleman callers? Did you get their addresses so you can follow up with thank you notes? Do you plan to at least marry one of your beaux within a week? Heavens to Betsy, OP!
Fuck all y'all neutered, domesticated cats. OP, have fun. Be safe. Ignore everyone who spouts a bunch of ignorant crap. They have little to no knowledge of epidemiology or psychology. Go on with your bad self, son.
r68 = Diseased Whore
You could even fuck R68, OP, if you don't mind them that old.
OK, so I was a whore last night. You do realize that HIV is very tough to get. Factor that in with the almost 100% certainty that all the guys bagged it, and me turning up poz is more remote than Sarah Palin winning a two-term presidency with Sean Hannity as her VP. So please, even though I appreciate your (unfounded) concern, I will be fine.
I am amending my post. R68 may not be old. Old school, for sure, but I don't know how old he is.
Ok, i go out and get high and drunk and have a "great" time..... Poppers... luv 'um.....
but I don't get fucked...... JUST.DON'T. GET. FUCKED... not interested.
What should i think?...... been doing this 30 years. I'm 52 and "they're fabulous."
Period (full stop)inside the quotation marks.
Screw this 'was a whore' business, OP.
You are a whore.
That care free attitude about being safe and getting tested is why HIV is still a serious epidemic among gay men.
And yes, it is, with rates of infection are in a slight increase among young guys right now.
I'm 40, r72. I'm not "old school" -- I'm just not interested in passing judgment on another man's sex life. As long as it's "safe" and consensual (there's my self-serving caveat), why should my worldview enter into the equation?
We each have to choose somewhere on the continuum between hedonistic pleasure and self-preservation.
Bottom line, everybody gradually gets old and dies anyway, best case scenario.
It's probably a mistake to take anything and everything up your ass raw, and become HIV+ and a half dozen other diseases by age 19.
It's probably also a mistake to go through life never having sex at all, or never having good sex. And I'd define sucking carefully on a condom-wrapped penis, the chemical taste of latex in your mouth, as NOT good sex.
It's interesting that a post like this prompts so much screeching from other posters.
You do realize that HIV is very tough to get.
R68 is a monument to not passing judgement.
[quote] and me turning up poz is more remote than Sarah Palin winning a two-term presidency with Sean Hannity as her VP.
OP read R59
I don't believe your friend's story.
r68 NAILED it! So much piousness here! Is someone having sex a reflection on personal character??!! Oh, dear!!!
Did you fall in love?
This sounds just like the night you were conceived!
R83, not so much a reflection of character. More likely mental or emotional health or even just maturity.
Most people don't pass themselves around like a pinata or have to rely on pretty sure to measure any health related consequences.
It's actually pretty easy to use the right word. Piety isn't it.
OK, so you went to an orgy, OP. But you clearly either wanted to rile up the anti-sex posters or felt ambivalent about the experience, because you called yourself a noun ('party favor') and described yourself as being used, not as having had sex. Frankly, although you sound defensive, you don't sound as exhilarated as you think you do.
And for a bottom, HIV is not difficult to get. For a bottom who gets fucked by multiple strangers in one night, one might even call it easy to get (the more fucking, the more chance of anal tearing, and any positive guy infecting you). The haze and the blackout ('I barely remember the second set of guys') is all the more upsetting to anyone with a functioning brain, because 'stepping on condoms' doesn't ensure that every single guy used one. You must be smart enough to know that.
Certainly you're increasing your odds in the wrong direction, or so we were taught to tell you, in completely neutral, non-judgmental phraseology, on the AIDS hotline I manned in 1987.
R87 nailed it.
Also, OP is changing his narrative from being probably sure to being almost 100% sure that the guys were using condoms. How a gay man this day and age can't be sure that he used condoms and has to use the condom wrappers on the floor as "evidence" that he played safe, is beyond troubling.
Also, R68 and R83 are idiots. OP brought this discussion on himself by posting on a public forum. He was expecting "high fives" and got a dose of reality. Given the poor judgment he described in his little story, it should come as no surprise that he misjudged the responses of the people in this forum. He clearly is not the sharpest knife in the drawer. If he didn't want to be "judged," he should have kept his "blissful" experience as a "party favor" between himself and the trolls who "used" him.
R87 and R88 pretty much said all that needs to be said.
Nothing has been nailed except the OP.
I have just begun to judge!
What did you honestly expect coming here with this story, OP? A bunch of people responding 'that sounds amazing' and 'you go girl"!
You WANT us all to call you a whore and slut shame you. You want to feel like you did something edgy and out there. The attention whoring here is more offensive than the actual whoring. Yawn. You're a dime a dozen, honey.
I have to agree that if OP was barely conscious for parts of the group sex and was being "passed around and used" as everybody's fuck hole, there is no way OP can know the day afterward whether or not he got barebacked. Even if it looks like several condoms were used by some of the tops, at some points in the events.
Just to clarify...as I mention, the first round used condoms. I can say that with 100% confidence. Given that the floor was littered with condoms as I was leaving, I can say with 95% confidence that I was fucked with condoms. So, overall, I have nearly 100% confidence that everyone who got me in the ass bagged it.
I'm constantly amazed at the attitudes to sex that other people have...
'fraid I'm a bit of a whore too - pushing fifty now - have been pretty promiscuous for the last twenty-five years or so - i'm a top when it comes to fucking - but love sucking dick - and really love threeways, gangbangs & group scenes -
Used to only like men in their thirties, firties & fifties - but as I've gotten older I must give off a bt of a daddy vibe and am increasingly hit on by twinks and twenty-somethings - bless 'em!
Anyway OP - your evening sounds great - and I only wish I coulda joined the party - my kind of night!
Ignore the negative prisses on here - sure most of 'em fantasize and jerk off to porn scenes like you describe - or much more extreme! - but just dont't get the opportunity to do it in real life...so they'll never know what they're missing out on (and sure - getting an sti isn't fun - but other than the crabs a few times over a couple of decades - that's all i've caught - touch wood! sure - you could be unlucky - but having a random hookup occasionally really doesn't guarantee you'll end up infected with something).
meant to write "...leaving, I can say with 95% confidence that I was fucked with condoms by the second round..."
This never happened.
But for any tweaked twinks who see this scenario as ideal - if you can't remember whether you got fucked with a condom or not, just go to the ER and get PEP and don't troll the Datalounge.
I know the feeling. I had it hundreds of times, staggering out of the baths as the sun came up.
No regrets. None.
It's a wonderful life. ;-))
I have no problem with someone having an adventurous sex life. I want all participants to be safe from any harm from the activity.
Appreciate that, r99, but I'm confident that I didn't pick up an STI. This isn't my first time at the rodeo. At 36, I've done numeorus multiples since becomong sexually active. Nothing THIS adventurous, but close, and I have yet to get anything, even crabs. Sure, there might've been a remote risk of me picking up HIV from the encounter, but it's highly unlikely. It's also possible that I could walk down to the deli and get hit and killed by a cab, but that's highly unlikely.
Gay men loathe themselves
Speak for yourself, r101.
Not all of us, r101, but OP certainly does!
quote]all I feel is amazingly exhilirated with the mindset that I can conquer the world
I do hope "the world" includes the Free Clinic.
"Met this couple at an HK bar."
Over 100 posts and NOT ONE OF YOU are curious about gay life in Communist China? Well I want to know what is gay life in Hong Kong really like?
I'll tell you why I have such a strong negative reaction to OP's tale. It strikes a raw nerve with me. If a person's been bullied, and abused, and passed around, or if a person has a fear of being bullied, sexually abused, and passed around, basically being misused as a cum receptacle, then OP's post will tie your stomach in knots.
He describes a situation where he allowed himself to be used, and then embraces it, says he feels exhilarated, and he had a great time. I have to believe there's something perverse in that whole situation. Many of you will say that as long as it's consensual who cares if a person cuts loose and participates in an orgy.
But this didn't sound like an orgy for OP. He talks about how many people had him. He doesn't describe himself as an equal participant. I am not a prude, or old fashioned. But I do have a healthy sense of self worth, and it took me a long time to get there, so no, I can't celebrate with OP.
You got picked up in a bar and used as a sex toy for people who even called their friends over to dump on you. it's pretty sad. Get help, OP.
Reminds me of some 15 yr. old who goes to a house party and gets gang raped and then tells people what a great time she had being fucked by six different guys in every orifice she had available. She tries to make it sound like she's flattered.
Sex is dirty!
OP's self-loathing is deserved.
R105 I think most of us assumed that HK=Hell's Kitchen.
pquote] No, I'm not from NYC.
Really? It doesn't show.
OP had a great night. Happy for you. It's good when it works out.
Wish you many more OP. Enjoy.
You guys aim so high.
The gangbang and this post are proof positive that OP spends his every waking hour looking for validation. Pathetic.
And too his enablers: Sex is natural, sex is good, not everybody does it, but everybody should...we get it. However, there are certain sexual behaviors that clearly aren't healthy...and people are being Puritanical or sex negative by pointing out that FACT. So why don't you just get off the damn cross?
[quote]For the next four hours, the seven of us (at least I think there were seven...I was so out of it by this point) went at it. I have no idea how many of these guys were in my mouth and ass, or how many times I came...it's all so hazy.
I love how the OP kicks off with this tale of sloppy and semi-conscious "taking all comers" buttsex, as quoted above, and then he backpedals after reading critical replies and says "oh but i am SURE it was condoms all the way!" Hilarious and sad at the same time.
You should probably hate yourself, OP?
Why exactly other than internalizing anti-sex Victorian idiocy, should you hate yourself for being human, sexual and having a great time?
Now that another day has gone by OP, how do you feel about your night of sex? I certainly hope you were not infected. HIV may no longer be instant death sentence, but it is a chronic condition that you would have to live with and manage for the rest of your life if you end up infected.
Another concern I have, given that you said you were out of it for awhile--do you know at any time one of the guys got their phone out and recorded the orgy? YOu might be on a video on xtube right now.
[quote]YOu might be on a video on xtube right now.
Sounds fun OP, I hop in my time machine/transporter regularly and attend orgies at the Continental and St. Marks baths in New York in the '70s I've even seen Bette and Barry there a few times. BTW Barry is a pass around party bottom.
what do you mean, R101?
Anybody who would believe the OP's shit ("Happy for you" "Wish you many more" "Have fun") is an incredible fucking idiot.
Hey, OP. How did you get home if you were so out of it? Did you spend the night? Did they give you breakfast? You should've at least got paid.
With Anderson away on assignment, Ben must be having the time of his life. For Anderson's sake, I just hope that Ben shows some discretion in his behivior.
Read R100, it is clear that OP is trolling. Nobody is that stupid at 36.
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