Why are gay bodybuilders so often bottoms?

They need their prostates massaged, after so much exercise.

Sometimes you just want to be taken! Made to feel as if you're nothing more than a slut to be used. Raped! Everyone has a submissive side to them.

Fucking is too much energy when you can barely waddle.

r2, wanting to be fucked doesn't equate for most of us with wanting to be used, demeaned or even submissive. It certainly doesn't mean that for women who liked to be fucked and it also doesn't mean that for men who liked to be fucked. It just means that it feels fucking great.

It feels good.

Because they have tiny roid penises.

Something about big authoritative guys being big pussies, not sure what it is though. Can't tell you how many big tough cops, firefighters, EMTs, military and similar types I have had that ended up begging to be bound or spanked or humiliated or something. The two definitely go together. I live in the DC area, and the freakiest ones are the Secret Service. Over the top need to be dominated. I've briefly dated three of them. All were still very closeted. The only bigger freak I dated was a Virginia State Trooper that wanted to be punched hard in the stomach and kicked in the balls. I drew the line at that. Also, that bastard ran my plates when we first met to verify my name and age, which pissed me off when he told me.

R& - are you talking about your fantasy life or your real life?

I think the bodybuilding can be a way of compensating for internalized homophobia. They can't reconcile their masculinity with being a natural bottom (though as R4 said, it doesn't have to equal submissiveness, but many can't separate the two).

R8, my real one. Don't care if you believe me or not. Go meet some people, get out into the real world, try going on a few dates - meet some of these guys we're talking about and find out for yourself.

R7, fascinating!

[quote] Can't tell you how many big tough cops, firefighters, EMTs, military and similar types I have had that ended up begging to be bound or spanked or humiliated or something.

R7 I apologize. I just re-read your comment.

I assume you mean by "Can't tell..." you really mean it. You can't tell because there are none.

"The bigger the muscles, the bigger the bottom."

Bodybuilders have massive insecurity issues they think their bigger muscles will fix.

They don't

Ever notice how so many of them are short?

I like 'em because even if the hole is loose they can grip my dick with their muscular glutes.

Typical datalounge thread:

OP asks a question. First couple comments are snarky insults at OP. Some people give OP honest responses. Some trolls post a bunch of bullshit. Then commenters leave snarky comments about how they don't believe any of the comments from people who have any kind of life. If it's a thread about troubles and someone complains about their life and says they think of suicide, the commenters tell them that they are right and that they should do it. No one believes anyone. Nothing is accomplished. A few people are mildly entertained and helped with wasting another night in front of the computer. End of thread. Rinse and repeat.

If you work on making your gluts and legs hard and muscled, then shave them, you need to have them licked and fucked.

R16 You make these threads sound so trivial and depressing. That is not part of the standard DL thread template.

r16, you forgot to include:

Then some know-it-all posts a snarky summary of the whole thread as metacommentary, trying to show how he's above it all.

That only happens once in awhile R19. I did leave out though the obligatory male celebrity mentions and the folks saying that he's gay, has a beard, their roommate stuffed a gerbil up his ass, etc.

`Yikes" R7. That`s a reason I would avoid dating law enforcement officers. Rememeber what ahppened to matt on that old `Melrose Place

No, but it probably happened to me too and I'm a better man now because of it

@R4, many women have the submission, dominate, rape fantasies too.

[quote]They need their prostates massaged, after so much exercise.

That's actually true.

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Bodybuilders are passive in relation to the weights that they lift. If you think about it, your avg. bodybuilder is search of a 'weight', a power that they can't overcome. They seek to be dominated no matter how much they may like the body adoration/body worship.

Oh c'mon, if you can't talk shit about Muscle Mary gays at DL, we might as well turn off the Intermess - it's over.

The phrase, "Man of Steel, Heels of Helium" didn't magically appear from The Isle of Lezbo. They're not that creative, and Muscle Queens have a lot in common with Labiarians.

They love a good shag

Really R24?

Would love to screw one now. Guess I will join a gym soon!

Maybe it's the area where you live? I've only met ones who were tops...

Tiny dicks and steroid shrinkage.

I've been into bodybuilding for over ten years. Just love to be dominated by a cute skinny guy with a massive cock.

I would so pay to see that R33. Hot!

how about bi bodybuilders?

Speak for yourself r2.

My own experience supports OP's view, they tend to be bottoms and for obvious reasons (insecurity/shame/etc). Also, muscular guys know how to use their butt muscles to squeeze on your dick, I love it.

The Ass needs to be fucked. And if its your best asset pardon the pun or buns use it.

I don't want to go off on a tangent, but this happens to EVERY gay sub-group... There are just more bottoms than tops in the world... If OP replaced the word "bodybuilders" for "bears" or "twinks", that would also hold true...

Because it feels good.

Don't know why you bumped this thread to say that R39, but is definitely true.

The majority of men prefer to bottom. That exclusive bottom boys complain that they want more men to be tops doesn't change the simple fact that a majority of guys out there prefer to bottom.

...And the sheer nastiness of some bottoms to other bottoms is risible... There's a female cattiness to it... If you look on Grindr or hook-up websites, you'll see bottoms going "if you're a bottom, don't waste my time"... "No bottoms please"... Answer should be "if you're also a bottom, why should people let you waste THEIR time"...

Tops can be a bit protective of their ass, as if the other top wanted to rape them, but it is all a lot more civil !

The anthropology of being gay, alas...

Guys who don't bottom are wimps.

Best way to exercise the gluts

Bodybuilder threads always seem to attract a mental midget like R6 claiming that steroids shrink cocks.

Some hot bodybuilder leaked a nude jerk off video. He has a nice piece.

Steroids don't shrink cock, but going off them do if you abuse steroids your body starts to over produce estrogen. If go off them your body is producing almost no male hormones and a huge amount of estrogen. You get bitch tits and your dick and balls shrink.

I love bi bodybuilders, bro

Because they're gay. More gay men are bottoms than tops.

[quote]You get bitch tits and your dick and balls shrink.

No. You can get btich tits and your balls can shrink.

Are there any gay pro bodybuilders?

[quote]They need their prostates massaged, after so much exercise.

That sounds like a reasonable request.

Aren't the words gay and bodybuilding a synonym. Seriously my gym is filled with these kids, and they are the weirdest most blatantly gay human beings that have ever gayed. Theyre also pretty awful people tbh.

Marines own this thread!

Asians own this thread!

Even the straight bodybuilders are bottoms!

r53... Maybe it's time to stop going to David Barton?

Bottoms, much like women, spend way too much time on their appearance.

Tops, much like straight guys, don't give a shit.

On the old muscleservice station board many years ago, any time pics of hot muscular porn stars spreading their cheeks were posted, some posters would term them "muscle cunts".

I personally don't believe "gay for pay" is a real thing, but I do believe that the following is QUITE common.

"Started camming in my teens. The money was intoxicating and i never looked back. The straight guys who cant deal with it simply dont escort. A lot of guys say they are straight but really are somewhat Bi. Like 90% straight 10% gay. In comparison im 100% gay, cant even look at a vagina. You;d be surprised what these 'straight' guys do. First time i worked with another escort was this jacked beyond belief straight dude. Masculine as f*ck, gorgeous, hung like a bull. This guy got fucked so hard by the client and was LOVING it. I was so surprised i almost forgot to do my job. For those that are somewhat bothered by it, get over pretty quickly when they see the cash."

a bottom bodybuilder? WHERE?

Kkk

How about bi bodybuilders?

[60] who is that quote from?

but still hard to find them - real "bodybuilder bottoms" ;)

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i once had this discussion with a guy who was all of 5'10 and 175 but had a relationship with a bodybuilder who was 6'3 or so and 250 plus pounds and he was 9 out of 10 times the top to this much bigger guy...

it was his personal thought (he never asked his lover why he was a big musclebound bottom) that such men have a NEED a desperate craving NEED to be approved of and desired and to make the OTHER PERSON (i.e. the top) happy. they felt this way over their own happiness and sexual pleasure happiness. therefore by "surrendering" their bigger body and sexuality and making the OTHER guy, their lover happy made them happy! perhaps a relationship with their father also in that they grew up wanting to please their father and this spilled over to their sex life..

"WOW"! i read all the comments, and most I found very judgmental,and kinda bordering on bigotry "Really", coming from a culture whose finally getting a glimpse of acceptance from mainstream society. I think just like the rest of us, the bodybuilder's outer appearance does not determine what goes on inside. I do know that not all G BB like to bottom, but I am personally grateful to the ones that do. Bottom line, G BB's are no more often bottoms than any other group, and just like the rest of us the motivations vary.Its always about any ones esteem or penis size.

[quote]You get bitch tits and your dick and balls shrink.

Only two of the above are correct.

for a guy to work hard on making his butt and legs look like that and then shave it down smooth means only one thing - TOTAL INSATIABLE BOTTOM!

Bodybuilders are not only usually bottoms, but really nasty, sleazy, greasy bottoms, too. I once cruised this tatted, 250 lbs cholo fuckmachine, with a tiny needle dick, minuscule balls, but a muscled bubble butt with an incredibly deep crack and a hole so well used it sorta hung open. I was really getting into it, pounding away with my pulsing throbmeat. I blasted a phat load.

The bottom then started jacking his clit. That pissed me off. I don't like seeing a bottom's cocklet and I fucking hate it when the bottom gets hard or touches his clit. So I pissed on him and that got him fucking stoked. I went down to his bed and squeezed out a pretty full, heavy, greasy log onto the sheets.

His eyes were like bulging out of their fucking sockets, he was so hard. I just dropped the load and he dived down onto it and snarfed it down, chewing and grunting like a pig. The room smelled like shit. Fucking hot tho.

R71 Fuck that's so hot. Nothing like a bottom taking a load of cum, followed by a load of piss and a load of shit. You only know you've owned a bottom when he eats your shit. I'm a pretty heavy, beefy bear in my late fifties with pig tits. There's nothing better than pulling out my scat seat after I've had Mexican or Indian and a six-pack, get a nasty bottom, and just drop shit into his h0m0 mouth while I puff away on my cigar and drink Jamieson straight from the fucking bottle.

The bigger the muscles, the bigger the MARY!

R71 Not into scat, but that sounds hot, brah.

I came across an interesting article published yesterday on a bodybuilding website about bodybuilding and its homophobia.

Basically, it encourages bodybuilders and bodubuilding fans to stop their homophobia because times have changed and because bodybuilding is the most homoerotic activity we know today.

It seems to be some people in the bodybuilding world are trying to embrace the new times.

bodybuilders work on their butts, and shave them so that they can be fucked

It's simple. Gay bodybuilders are mostly just common or garden bottoms that wanted a muscular top and worked out until they were muscular enough to attract one, little realising that those muscle men they kept seeing in clubs were also bottoms doing the same thing.

R75 - on T-Nation, no less! Duchane must be rollin' in his grave!! Lol

Who seriously desires a bodybuilder to be a bottom? They have so much muscle mass on their butt that your cock will never reach the prostate... haha.

R79 types small.

R80 Rephrase.

I been working out most of my adult (I'm 32) life and I honestly prefer bottoming. I love the feeling of my man enjoy my every inch of my body. I've gotten into dating younger (18-24) twinkish tops too. They tend to really get into my body. Plus I like turning them from timid shy boys into aggressive assertive men through my submission to them

OP, they don't work on their butts so that they expose them, and then Shave them unless they want to have them licked and FUCKED

After you fuck them make sure you shoo them out of your place before they have to take a shit. All those supplements smell.

they love pain

They become bodybuilders to attract bodybuilders.

Life is full of anomalies.

As I said the last time we discussed Vin Diesel, muscle bottoms are hot.

It looks like many men want and love to dominate bodybuilders.

Hmmmm

Muscle bottoms are the best, it's true

Built to climb. Made for drilling.

Wow bro

I wish I had a dollar for every time I see the word "dominate" used when the writer means "dominant", but isn't aware that it exists as a word, and that if you want to express it, you just sort of mispronounce the word "dominate" and you're all set!

The idea that tops are not submissive to bottom is quite naive. There is nothing dominating about being a "top". Tops have perfomance anxieties that no bottom has becuase they know they will be rated based on tbeir sizemeat and his performance. A top who fails to please a bottom, and this includes straight men will definitely have their ego broken. Straight guys are far more submissive than gay top becuase not only they have to be submissive enough to service the demanding passive girls but they even have to enjoy body parts that are not even like his own ones. the straight guy has to surrender his body parts and exchange them for femenine ones, that most straight females find unpleasant even to look at. This is a masochistic tendency.

[quote]A top who fails to please a bottom, and this includes straight men will definitely have their ego broken.

More than a broken ego. The word will definitely be "put out" on the street! If you can't perform, it's best that you stay home. YOU HAVE COME TO WORK!!!

In my case, I have experience with top bodybuilders. But I'm also thin and with twinky-ish appearance so no one would approach me to top :P

Always been the "top" because of sports I played and my bodybuilding. Not too many bottom bodybuilders that are 6'2" and 270 lbs that I know. Could be some bodybuilders being g4P to fund their bodybuilding and might bottom if the price is right.