Gay men who fetishize bodybuilders usually (not always, but usually want them to be tops because we fantasize about having great power and mastery with their muscles. Yet most BBs I've met always want to fling their legs up into the air when you get them into bed.
Why are gay bodybuilders so often bottoms?
by Anonymous | reply 98 | October 7, 2019 10:20 PM |
They need their prostates massaged, after so much exercise.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | September 23, 2013 5:59 PM |
Sometimes you just want to be taken! Made to feel as if you're nothing more than a slut to be used. Raped! Everyone has a submissive side to them.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | September 23, 2013 6:04 PM |
Fucking is too much energy when you can barely waddle.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | September 23, 2013 9:39 PM |
r2, wanting to be fucked doesn't equate for most of us with wanting to be used, demeaned or even submissive. It certainly doesn't mean that for women who liked to be fucked and it also doesn't mean that for men who liked to be fucked. It just means that it feels fucking great.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | September 23, 2013 9:45 PM |
It feels good.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | September 23, 2013 9:52 PM |
Because they have tiny roid penises.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | September 23, 2013 11:58 PM |
Something about big authoritative guys being big pussies, not sure what it is though. Can't tell you how many big tough cops, firefighters, EMTs, military and similar types I have had that ended up begging to be bound or spanked or humiliated or something. The two definitely go together. I live in the DC area, and the freakiest ones are the Secret Service. Over the top need to be dominated. I've briefly dated three of them. All were still very closeted. The only bigger freak I dated was a Virginia State Trooper that wanted to be punched hard in the stomach and kicked in the balls. I drew the line at that. Also, that bastard ran my plates when we first met to verify my name and age, which pissed me off when he told me.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | September 24, 2013 12:08 AM |
R& - are you talking about your fantasy life or your real life?
by Anonymous | reply 8 | September 24, 2013 12:16 AM |
I think the bodybuilding can be a way of compensating for internalized homophobia. They can't reconcile their masculinity with being a natural bottom (though as R4 said, it doesn't have to equal submissiveness, but many can't separate the two).
by Anonymous | reply 9 | September 24, 2013 12:19 AM |
R8, my real one. Don't care if you believe me or not. Go meet some people, get out into the real world, try going on a few dates - meet some of these guys we're talking about and find out for yourself.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | September 24, 2013 12:24 AM |
R7, fascinating!
by Anonymous | reply 11 | September 24, 2013 12:32 AM |
[quote] Can't tell you how many big tough cops, firefighters, EMTs, military and similar types I have had that ended up begging to be bound or spanked or humiliated or something.
R7 I apologize. I just re-read your comment.
I assume you mean by "Can't tell..." you really mean it. You can't tell because there are none.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | September 24, 2013 12:39 AM |
"The bigger the muscles, the bigger the bottom."
by Anonymous | reply 13 | September 24, 2013 12:40 AM |
Bodybuilders have massive insecurity issues they think their bigger muscles will fix.
They don't
Ever notice how so many of them are short?
by Anonymous | reply 14 | September 24, 2013 12:41 AM |
I like 'em because even if the hole is loose they can grip my dick with their muscular glutes.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | September 24, 2013 12:45 AM |
Typical datalounge thread:
OP asks a question. First couple comments are snarky insults at OP. Some people give OP honest responses. Some trolls post a bunch of bullshit. Then commenters leave snarky comments about how they don't believe any of the comments from people who have any kind of life. If it's a thread about troubles and someone complains about their life and says they think of suicide, the commenters tell them that they are right and that they should do it. No one believes anyone. Nothing is accomplished. A few people are mildly entertained and helped with wasting another night in front of the computer. End of thread. Rinse and repeat.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | September 24, 2013 12:47 AM |
If you work on making your gluts and legs hard and muscled, then shave them, you need to have them licked and fucked.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | September 24, 2013 12:48 AM |
R16 You make these threads sound so trivial and depressing. That is not part of the standard DL thread template.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | September 24, 2013 12:52 AM |
r16, you forgot to include:
Then some know-it-all posts a snarky summary of the whole thread as metacommentary, trying to show how he's above it all.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | September 24, 2013 1:01 AM |
That only happens once in awhile R19. I did leave out though the obligatory male celebrity mentions and the folks saying that he's gay, has a beard, their roommate stuffed a gerbil up his ass, etc.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | September 24, 2013 1:06 AM |
`Yikes" R7. That`s a reason I would avoid dating law enforcement officers. Rememeber what ahppened to matt on that old `Melrose Place
by Anonymous | reply 21 | September 24, 2013 1:16 AM |
No, but it probably happened to me too and I'm a better man now because of it
by Anonymous | reply 22 | September 24, 2013 3:18 AM |
@R4, many women have the submission, dominate, rape fantasies too.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | September 24, 2013 3:16 PM |
[quote]They need their prostates massaged, after so much exercise.
That's actually true.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | September 24, 2013 3:21 PM |
[all posts by flame bait troll #11 removed (violent racist homophobic right-wing misogynist), ISP notified with full text of all posts.]
by Anonymous | reply 25 | September 24, 2013 4:23 PM |
Bodybuilders are passive in relation to the weights that they lift. If you think about it, your avg. bodybuilder is search of a 'weight', a power that they can't overcome. They seek to be dominated no matter how much they may like the body adoration/body worship.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | September 24, 2013 8:46 PM |
Oh c'mon, if you can't talk shit about Muscle Mary gays at DL, we might as well turn off the Intermess - it's over.
The phrase, "Man of Steel, Heels of Helium" didn't magically appear from The Isle of Lezbo. They're not that creative, and Muscle Queens have a lot in common with Labiarians.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | September 24, 2013 8:55 PM |
They love a good shag
by Anonymous | reply 28 | September 25, 2013 3:20 AM |
Really R24?
by Anonymous | reply 29 | September 29, 2013 3:58 PM |
Would love to screw one now. Guess I will join a gym soon!
by Anonymous | reply 30 | September 29, 2013 5:45 PM |
Maybe it's the area where you live? I've only met ones who were tops...
by Anonymous | reply 31 | September 29, 2013 6:03 PM |
Tiny dicks and steroid shrinkage.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | September 29, 2013 7:30 PM |
I've been into bodybuilding for over ten years. Just love to be dominated by a cute skinny guy with a massive cock.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | December 10, 2013 3:24 AM |
I would so pay to see that R33. Hot!
by Anonymous | reply 34 | December 10, 2013 3:49 AM |
how about bi bodybuilders?
by Anonymous | reply 35 | December 10, 2013 3:41 PM |
Speak for yourself r2.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | December 10, 2013 3:56 PM |
My own experience supports OP's view, they tend to be bottoms and for obvious reasons (insecurity/shame/etc). Also, muscular guys know how to use their butt muscles to squeeze on your dick, I love it.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | December 10, 2013 5:44 PM |
The Ass needs to be fucked. And if its your best asset pardon the pun or buns use it.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | January 4, 2014 7:05 PM |
I don't want to go off on a tangent, but this happens to EVERY gay sub-group... There are just more bottoms than tops in the world... If OP replaced the word "bodybuilders" for "bears" or "twinks", that would also hold true...
by Anonymous | reply 39 | September 20, 2014 4:35 PM |
Because it feels good.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | September 20, 2014 4:45 PM |
Don't know why you bumped this thread to say that R39, but is definitely true.
The majority of men prefer to bottom. That exclusive bottom boys complain that they want more men to be tops doesn't change the simple fact that a majority of guys out there prefer to bottom.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | September 20, 2014 4:47 PM |
...And the sheer nastiness of some bottoms to other bottoms is risible... There's a female cattiness to it... If you look on Grindr or hook-up websites, you'll see bottoms going "if you're a bottom, don't waste my time"... "No bottoms please"... Answer should be "if you're also a bottom, why should people let you waste THEIR time"...
Tops can be a bit protective of their ass, as if the other top wanted to rape them, but it is all a lot more civil !
The anthropology of being gay, alas...
by Anonymous | reply 42 | September 20, 2014 4:55 PM |
Guys who don't bottom are wimps.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | September 20, 2014 7:13 PM |
Best way to exercise the gluts
by Anonymous | reply 44 | September 20, 2014 7:40 PM |
Bodybuilder threads always seem to attract a mental midget like R6 claiming that steroids shrink cocks.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | September 20, 2014 8:10 PM |
Some hot bodybuilder leaked a nude jerk off video. He has a nice piece.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | September 27, 2014 1:53 PM |
Steroids don't shrink cock, but going off them do if you abuse steroids your body starts to over produce estrogen. If go off them your body is producing almost no male hormones and a huge amount of estrogen. You get bitch tits and your dick and balls shrink.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | September 27, 2014 2:03 PM |
I love bi bodybuilders, bro
by Anonymous | reply 48 | September 27, 2014 2:33 PM |
Because they're gay. More gay men are bottoms than tops.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | September 27, 2014 2:38 PM |
[quote]You get bitch tits and your dick and balls shrink.
No. You can get btich tits and your balls can shrink.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | September 27, 2014 2:42 PM |
Are there any gay pro bodybuilders?
by Anonymous | reply 51 | September 27, 2014 2:49 PM |
[quote]They need their prostates massaged, after so much exercise.
That sounds like a reasonable request.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | September 28, 2014 3:35 AM |
Aren't the words gay and bodybuilding a synonym. Seriously my gym is filled with these kids, and they are the weirdest most blatantly gay human beings that have ever gayed. Theyre also pretty awful people tbh.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | September 28, 2014 6:05 AM |
Marines own this thread!
Asians own this thread!
by Anonymous | reply 54 | September 28, 2014 3:55 PM |
Even the straight bodybuilders are bottoms!
by Anonymous | reply 55 | September 28, 2014 4:19 PM |
r53... Maybe it's time to stop going to David Barton?
by Anonymous | reply 56 | September 28, 2014 6:49 PM |
Bottoms, much like women, spend way too much time on their appearance.
Tops, much like straight guys, don't give a shit.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | September 30, 2014 9:16 PM |
On the old muscleservice station board many years ago, any time pics of hot muscular porn stars spreading their cheeks were posted, some posters would term them "muscle cunts".
by Anonymous | reply 58 | September 30, 2014 9:23 PM |
I personally don't believe "gay for pay" is a real thing, but I do believe that the following is QUITE common.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | September 30, 2014 9:31 PM |
"Started camming in my teens. The money was intoxicating and i never looked back. The straight guys who cant deal with it simply dont escort. A lot of guys say they are straight but really are somewhat Bi. Like 90% straight 10% gay. In comparison im 100% gay, cant even look at a vagina. You;d be surprised what these 'straight' guys do. First time i worked with another escort was this jacked beyond belief straight dude. Masculine as f*ck, gorgeous, hung like a bull. This guy got fucked so hard by the client and was LOVING it. I was so surprised i almost forgot to do my job. For those that are somewhat bothered by it, get over pretty quickly when they see the cash."
by Anonymous | reply 60 | October 1, 2014 1:32 AM |
a bottom bodybuilder? WHERE?
by Anonymous | reply 61 | October 31, 2014 12:32 AM |
Kkk
by Anonymous | reply 62 | October 31, 2014 11:58 AM |
How about bi bodybuilders?
by Anonymous | reply 63 | December 29, 2014 2:09 PM |
[60] who is that quote from?
by Anonymous | reply 64 | December 29, 2014 8:44 PM |
but still hard to find them - real "bodybuilder bottoms" ;)
by Anonymous | reply 65 | December 30, 2014 3:11 PM |
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by Anonymous | reply 66 | March 7, 2015 6:53 PM |
i once had this discussion with a guy who was all of 5'10 and 175 but had a relationship with a bodybuilder who was 6'3 or so and 250 plus pounds and he was 9 out of 10 times the top to this much bigger guy...
it was his personal thought (he never asked his lover why he was a big musclebound bottom) that such men have a NEED a desperate craving NEED to be approved of and desired and to make the OTHER PERSON (i.e. the top) happy. they felt this way over their own happiness and sexual pleasure happiness. therefore by "surrendering" their bigger body and sexuality and making the OTHER guy, their lover happy made them happy! perhaps a relationship with their father also in that they grew up wanting to please their father and this spilled over to their sex life..
by Anonymous | reply 67 | March 8, 2015 3:02 AM |
"WOW"! i read all the comments, and most I found very judgmental,and kinda bordering on bigotry "Really", coming from a culture whose finally getting a glimpse of acceptance from mainstream society. I think just like the rest of us, the bodybuilder's outer appearance does not determine what goes on inside. I do know that not all G BB like to bottom, but I am personally grateful to the ones that do. Bottom line, G BB's are no more often bottoms than any other group, and just like the rest of us the motivations vary.Its always about any ones esteem or penis size.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | May 1, 2015 2:03 AM |
[quote]You get bitch tits and your dick and balls shrink.
Only two of the above are correct.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | May 3, 2015 2:47 PM |
for a guy to work hard on making his butt and legs look like that and then shave it down smooth means only one thing - TOTAL INSATIABLE BOTTOM!
by Anonymous | reply 70 | May 3, 2015 2:53 PM |
Bodybuilders are not only usually bottoms, but really nasty, sleazy, greasy bottoms, too. I once cruised this tatted, 250 lbs cholo fuckmachine, with a tiny needle dick, minuscule balls, but a muscled bubble butt with an incredibly deep crack and a hole so well used it sorta hung open. I was really getting into it, pounding away with my pulsing throbmeat. I blasted a phat load.
The bottom then started jacking his clit. That pissed me off. I don't like seeing a bottom's cocklet and I fucking hate it when the bottom gets hard or touches his clit. So I pissed on him and that got him fucking stoked. I went down to his bed and squeezed out a pretty full, heavy, greasy log onto the sheets.
His eyes were like bulging out of their fucking sockets, he was so hard. I just dropped the load and he dived down onto it and snarfed it down, chewing and grunting like a pig. The room smelled like shit. Fucking hot tho.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | May 3, 2015 4:22 PM |
R71 Fuck that's so hot. Nothing like a bottom taking a load of cum, followed by a load of piss and a load of shit. You only know you've owned a bottom when he eats your shit. I'm a pretty heavy, beefy bear in my late fifties with pig tits. There's nothing better than pulling out my scat seat after I've had Mexican or Indian and a six-pack, get a nasty bottom, and just drop shit into his h0m0 mouth while I puff away on my cigar and drink Jamieson straight from the fucking bottle.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | May 3, 2015 4:27 PM |
The bigger the muscles, the bigger the MARY!
by Anonymous | reply 73 | May 3, 2015 4:30 PM |
R71 Not into scat, but that sounds hot, brah.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | May 3, 2015 4:38 PM |
I came across an interesting article published yesterday on a bodybuilding website about bodybuilding and its homophobia.
Basically, it encourages bodybuilders and bodubuilding fans to stop their homophobia because times have changed and because bodybuilding is the most homoerotic activity we know today.
It seems to be some people in the bodybuilding world are trying to embrace the new times.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | July 3, 2015 11:40 PM |
bodybuilders work on their butts, and shave them so that they can be fucked
by Anonymous | reply 76 | October 11, 2015 3:19 AM |
It's simple. Gay bodybuilders are mostly just common or garden bottoms that wanted a muscular top and worked out until they were muscular enough to attract one, little realising that those muscle men they kept seeing in clubs were also bottoms doing the same thing.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | October 11, 2015 3:33 AM |
R75 - on T-Nation, no less! Duchane must be rollin' in his grave!! Lol
by Anonymous | reply 78 | October 11, 2015 3:57 AM |
Who seriously desires a bodybuilder to be a bottom? They have so much muscle mass on their butt that your cock will never reach the prostate... haha.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | October 11, 2015 4:30 AM |
R79 types small.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | October 11, 2015 4:44 AM |
R80 Rephrase.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | October 11, 2015 6:18 AM |
I been working out most of my adult (I'm 32) life and I honestly prefer bottoming. I love the feeling of my man enjoy my every inch of my body. I've gotten into dating younger (18-24) twinkish tops too. They tend to really get into my body. Plus I like turning them from timid shy boys into aggressive assertive men through my submission to them
by Anonymous | reply 82 | August 13, 2016 2:41 AM |
OP, they don't work on their butts so that they expose them, and then Shave them unless they want to have them licked and FUCKED
by Anonymous | reply 83 | August 13, 2016 2:56 AM |
After you fuck them make sure you shoo them out of your place before they have to take a shit. All those supplements smell.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | August 13, 2016 3:13 AM |
they love pain
by Anonymous | reply 85 | August 13, 2016 3:14 AM |
They become bodybuilders to attract bodybuilders.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | August 13, 2016 3:15 AM |
Life is full of anomalies.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | August 13, 2016 3:20 AM |
As I said the last time we discussed Vin Diesel, muscle bottoms are hot.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | August 13, 2016 3:30 AM |
It looks like many men want and love to dominate bodybuilders.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | August 13, 2016 3:42 AM |
Hmmmm
by Anonymous | reply 90 | October 28, 2016 1:13 PM |
Muscle bottoms are the best, it's true
by Anonymous | reply 91 | October 28, 2016 1:38 PM |
Wow bro
by Anonymous | reply 93 | October 28, 2016 2:09 PM |
I wish I had a dollar for every time I see the word "dominate" used when the writer means "dominant", but isn't aware that it exists as a word, and that if you want to express it, you just sort of mispronounce the word "dominate" and you're all set!
by Anonymous | reply 94 | October 28, 2016 2:51 PM |
The idea that tops are not submissive to bottom is quite naive. There is nothing dominating about being a "top". Tops have perfomance anxieties that no bottom has becuase they know they will be rated based on tbeir sizemeat and his performance. A top who fails to please a bottom, and this includes straight men will definitely have their ego broken. Straight guys are far more submissive than gay top becuase not only they have to be submissive enough to service the demanding passive girls but they even have to enjoy body parts that are not even like his own ones. the straight guy has to surrender his body parts and exchange them for femenine ones, that most straight females find unpleasant even to look at. This is a masochistic tendency.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | October 28, 2016 4:19 PM |
[quote]A top who fails to please a bottom, and this includes straight men will definitely have their ego broken.
More than a broken ego. The word will definitely be "put out" on the street! If you can't perform, it's best that you stay home. YOU HAVE COME TO WORK!!!
by Anonymous | reply 96 | October 28, 2016 4:30 PM |
In my case, I have experience with top bodybuilders. But I'm also thin and with twinky-ish appearance so no one would approach me to top :P
by Anonymous | reply 97 | November 15, 2016 3:04 PM |
Always been the "top" because of sports I played and my bodybuilding. Not too many bottom bodybuilders that are 6'2" and 270 lbs that I know. Could be some bodybuilders being g4P to fund their bodybuilding and might bottom if the price is right.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | October 7, 2019 10:20 PM |