Gay men who fetishize bodybuilders usually (not always, but usually want them to be tops because we fantasize about having great power and mastery with their muscles. Yet most BBs I've met always want to fling their legs up into the air when you get them into bed.
They need their prostates massaged, after so much exercise.
Sometimes you just want to be taken! Made to feel as if you're nothing more than a slut to be used. Raped! Everyone has a submissive side to them.
Fucking is too much energy when you can barely waddle.
r2, wanting to be fucked doesn't equate for most of us with wanting to be used, demeaned or even submissive. It certainly doesn't mean that for women who liked to be fucked and it also doesn't mean that for men who liked to be fucked. It just means that it feels fucking great.
It feels good.
Because they have tiny roid penises.
Something about big authoritative guys being big pussies, not sure what it is though. Can't tell you how many big tough cops, firefighters, EMTs, military and similar types I have had that ended up begging to be bound or spanked or humiliated or something. The two definitely go together. I live in the DC area, and the freakiest ones are the Secret Service. Over the top need to be dominated. I've briefly dated three of them. All were still very closeted. The only bigger freak I dated was a Virginia State Trooper that wanted to be punched hard in the stomach and kicked in the balls. I drew the line at that. Also, that bastard ran my plates when we first met to verify my name and age, which pissed me off when he told me.
R& - are you talking about your fantasy life or your real life?
I think the bodybuilding can be a way of compensating for internalized homophobia. They can't reconcile their masculinity with being a natural bottom (though as R4 said, it doesn't have to equal submissiveness, but many can't separate the two).
R8, my real one. Don't care if you believe me or not. Go meet some people, get out into the real world, try going on a few dates - meet some of these guys we're talking about and find out for yourself.
[quote] Can't tell you how many big tough cops, firefighters, EMTs, military and similar types I have had that ended up begging to be bound or spanked or humiliated or something.
R7 I apologize. I just re-read your comment.
I assume you mean by "Can't tell..." you really mean it. You can't tell because there are none.
"The bigger the muscles, the bigger the bottom."
Bodybuilders have massive insecurity issues they think their bigger muscles will fix.
Ever notice how so many of them are short?
I like 'em because even if the hole is loose they can grip my dick with their muscular glutes.
Typical datalounge thread:
OP asks a question. First couple comments are snarky insults at OP. Some people give OP honest responses. Some trolls post a bunch of bullshit. Then commenters leave snarky comments about how they don't believe any of the comments from people who have any kind of life. If it's a thread about troubles and someone complains about their life and says they think of suicide, the commenters tell them that they are right and that they should do it. No one believes anyone. Nothing is accomplished. A few people are mildly entertained and helped with wasting another night in front of the computer. End of thread. Rinse and repeat.
If you work on making your gluts and legs hard and muscled, then shave them, you need to have them licked and fucked.
R16 You make these threads sound so trivial and depressing. That is not part of the standard DL thread template.
r16, you forgot to include:
Then some know-it-all posts a snarky summary of the whole thread as metacommentary, trying to show how he's above it all.
That only happens once in awhile R19. I did leave out though the obligatory male celebrity mentions and the folks saying that he's gay, has a beard, their roommate stuffed a gerbil up his ass, etc.
`Yikes" R7. That`s a reason I would avoid dating law enforcement officers. Rememeber what ahppened to matt on that old `Melrose Place
No, but it probably happened to me too and I'm a better man now because of it
@R4, many women have the submission, dominate, rape fantasies too.
[quote]They need their prostates massaged, after so much exercise.
That's actually true.
Anal sex is dirty and dangerous! Bottoms are effimante
Bodybuilders are passive in relation to the weights that they lift. If you think about it, your avg. bodybuilder is search of a 'weight', a power that they can't overcome. They seek to be dominated no matter how much they may like the body adoration/body worship.
Oh c'mon, if you can't talk shit about Muscle Mary gays at DL, we might as well turn off the Intermess - it's over.
The phrase, "Man of Steel, Heels of Helium" didn't magically appear from The Isle of Lezbo. They're not that creative, and Muscle Queens have a lot in common with Labiarians.
They love a good shag
Would love to screw one now. Guess I will join a gym soon!
Maybe it's the area where you live? I've only met ones who were tops...
Tiny dicks and steroid shrinkage.
I've been into bodybuilding for over ten years. Just love to be dominated by a cute skinny guy with a massive cock.
I would so pay to see that R33. Hot!
how about bi bodybuilders?
Speak for yourself r2.
My own experience supports OP's view, they tend to be bottoms and for obvious reasons (insecurity/shame/etc). Also, muscular guys know how to use their butt muscles to squeeze on your dick, I love it.