Was at a loft up in Harlem. Took three cocks--two in my mouth and one, ahem, elsewhere. The "elsewhere" one entailed a condom. The guys were hot and were there to play safe. Totally safe, hot and fun experience. My first time, and I think I'd do it again.
Yuk. No way for me. Not in this lifetime. To each his own, though.
Ok, that sounds safer, but not totally safe. It does sound hot though.
Welcome to the world of HPV and antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea. There's no such thing as "SAFE SEX". There is "safer sex" but you can still catch a variety of nasties.
You've never had safe sex before? How idiotic!
Good for you. Live your life! Make every effort to protect yourself. Be kind along the way. Ignore the old ladies here.
You're a fucking whore OP.
You attended a semi safe sex party
I can feel your oral warts growing, OP, all the way down your throat.
At least you weren't taking anon cock in a video store that seems to be all the rage on this site.
Harlem???? Sounds dangerous.
How 1990 of you.
How'd you hear about it?
"Took three cocks--two in my mouth"
Remember to moisturize well afterwards...stuffing that volume of dick into your mouth can really lead to very deep,unsightly stretch marks and pronounced nasolabial grooves.
The only way an orgy or sex party works is if all the participants are attracted to one another.
If not then the whole concept falls apart, and then you have groups here and there.
I need some advice. I'm a bottom and love to have my hole pounded.
I don't make the guys wear a condom, but insist they pull out before shooting.
My question is the guys like to shoot their loads between my cheeks & on my ass, not in me. Is it possible like you see in the movies that the sperm could possibly swim up between my as cheeks into my hole?
I like to bareback but don't want to get sick.
Was there a doctor with flu like symptoms in attendance?
You're a WHORE, darlin'!
Did you end up in Harlem with your end up in Harlem?
How come there is such a high percentage of homosexuals practicing whorish behaviour in New York?
In a place filled with so many diseases you would think folks would be more careful.
Do you like it when they shave their assholes, dear?
R19, you're a fool.
R19, if sperm has HIV and it hits the air, the HIV dies. So even if it leaks into your hole, you'll be okay. HIV is a very fragile virus. From everything that I've read, you really need the 'perfect storm' of conditions to occur in order to get HIV (drugs, weakened immune system, a poz top, and a tear inside your butt hole, and the top to cum inside of you), but I would recommend that you talk to your doctor about Truvada.
I never hear the Truvada shriekers getting all "your safe sex isn't so safe" now, do I?
Safe sex denying and nagging is only used against those really trying to play safe and not get AIDS. Of course the ONLY experts on HIV are those who've needlessly managed to catch it. Just ask them!
R19. You are not being safe at all. If a guy sticks his dick in your ass, he MUST wear a condom. It's good that you insist that he pull out before he cums; however, if his semen is HIV-poz, then that means his pre-cum is HIV-poz.
And if his pre-cum is HIV-positive, then that means HIV is leaking into your ass as he fucks you.
STOP fucking without a condom no matter how much you like bareback!! Stop it now!!
Who wouldn't want to dribble and dunk the Harlem MicrobeTrotters?
I'm envious OP.
I went to a few such parties in my 30s, and always had a fun time.
Never caught anything.
Made one life-long friend, even.
I miss those days.
R32 Do you have any stories to share? Its one of those things, like skydiving or bungee jumping that I want to do at least once.
[quote]Took three cocks--two in my mouth and one, ahem, elsewhere.
I never understand why someone posts something like this. Except for giving people a platform to judge, why would any one care?
Its sad how ignorant gay men can be about ATIs. Do NOT listen to r27, as the other poster mentioned precum is a bodily fluid and is more than capable of transmitting HIV in anal sex. As a bottom letting a guy fuck without a condom is begging to get a disease no matter where he comes.
I'd rather get a handjob from a Craigslist masseur. It's far safer.
R35 looks like your average weeknight in Palm Springs.
R19 makes me sad.
Remember when everyone knew about safe sex and "barebacking" wasn't even an option? What happened?
R45 makes me sad. Remember when there was no such thing as safe sex, and "barebacking" was referred to by its real name, fucking?
[quote]From everything that I've read, you really need the 'perfect storm' of conditions to occur in order to get HIV (drugs, weakened immune system, a poz top, and a tear inside your butt hole, and the top to cum inside of you)
Blatant misinformation. What is wrong with you, r27?
"Drugs??" You think someone has to be on "drugs" to seroconvert? Drugs have nothing to do with it, except that they can cloud judgement and loosen inhibitions. Many people seroconvert while high, but it's not the drugs that directly caused it. Unbelievable that "drugs" are your first go-to when discussing HIV causes. Many seroconvert without ever touching a drug.
People become HIV positive from having unprotected sex. Full stop.
A "weakened immune system" has nothing to do with it. You can be perfectly healthy and catch HIV--it is caused by your BEHAVIOR, and your immune system won't prevent it, anyway.
Most anal sex results in internal anal tearing. If your didn't learn that from "everything [you've] read," I question what you,read, how much you read, your reading comprehension and your sources.
Pre-ejaculate also contains HIV, so you do not need a top to "come inside you." More completely false information.
As for a "poz top," no shit, Sherlock. Except, how do you know he's not poz? Because he doesn't look it? Because he told you? Because you asked him how often he's tested and considered the 6-month incubation period that even a negative result can't guarantee against?
Or do you actually believe every poz top is identifiable? Many don't even know they're poz or care--about themselves or you.
Your whole post is one flaming misrepresentation after another. There is no "perfect storm" needed to become HIV positive. You just need one incident of exposure. There have been over 70 million reported cases of HIV since the epidemic began--are you telling us your imagined "perfect storm" happened 70 million times?
Are those the kind of odds you want to risk?
You are an idiot. I hope you wise up and educate yourself soon. At the very least, please stop spreading your misinformation and poorly informed "observations."
I just had my first group sex experience this week as well. There were 5 tops and one other bottom besides me when I arrived. Everyone was getting down to business and so I stripped down. There was a really good-looking guy who I started giving a blowjob to. Then a latecomer knocks on the hotel room door and the host lets in ONE OF MY CO-WORKERS! We both looked at each other and everyone could tell that we already knew each other. "If it's cool with you, it's cool with me," he said. As soon as he was naked I went over and started blowing him and it was really hot - took his dick all the way to the base and he was loving it. We were both kind of smiling like, "Is this really happening right now?" I just stuck with him the rest of the time - blowing him, making out. Then he fucked me in front of everyone. It was really hot and I'm very glad that I got over my nerves and ended up attending.
What's R46's damage? Big chaser? HIV denier? Reckless top who can't stand condoms?
What causes this fuckery?
Does Hallmark make an appropriate thank you card to send to your hosts?
No, R51, because you pay to get into most sex parties. They should be thanking YOU.
Are all the attendees old and fat? Everybody makes them sound hot but all I visualize is lemon party.
You're a whore, darlin'. And that new zit on your lip ain't just a pimple.
There's no such thing as totally safe anonymous sex. Hiv is not the only disease to worry about. Are some people so incapable of human interaction that they would willingly allow someone in their ass, whom they know literally nothing about? If you take the time to consider it, that's a sign of some mental illness or self esteem issues.
I am not against casual sex but casual sex is a far leap from anonymous sex parties. I mean shit.