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Hanging out with co workers

Anybody else here wary of this? This one woman at my job is always running around trying to invite me to hang out with her and a few other former co-workers after work. The problem is that I can't stand two of the former co-workers who always attend her get togethers. I tried being nice to them when we worked together. But they were rude, nasty and thought their shit didn't stink. And the one made a big production out of not inviting me to her farewell party when she left the job. And to be honest, this woman used to talk shit about me with them when they were all there. She's mellowed out a lot in the last few months, but I still don't want to go out of my way to do anything with her. And yes, I still view her with the side eye. I keep hoping she would gently get the hint (Shit knows I would have by now) and stop asking. But she literally cornered me a few weeks back and asked if I wanted to go out to a bar with everyone this weekend. I said I would see. She kept harping on it for two weeks and today I said I would try to make it, whereas she got the biggest attitude I've ever seen, and acted like she was deeply hurt. Am I wrong for not wanting to be bothered? I could be a real shithead and tell her the real reason, but the job is closing up in a couple of weeks, and I just want to ride it out without conflict. But I think she's going to make it as difficult as possible.

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