Why Are Straight Men So Turned On By Doing Anal With With A Woman
by the mere mention of gay sex disgusts them?
Let's do it now!
It's pretend, Mary, like playing dress-up. Or they wanna' say, "Fuckin' 'mos, what do they see in this???"
Why do you care? They don't want you.
Could it be that lil' something extra you've got between your legs?
A tight fit. A mild form of Dom/Submissive role play. Not that deep:)
[quote]Could it be that lil' something extra you've got between your legs?
They're not considering the dick. They're considering a cock up a guy's ass.
Try a slight reframing of the question and it makes sense to me:
"Why are GAY men so turned on by anal sex with another MAN, yet
the idea of sex with a WOMAN disgusts them?"
Most people don't much care about the sex others are having -- until they have to picture themselves as a participant in it.
The same as some straight guys cannot understand how men can be attracted to each other and have sex, I cannot see how anyone would ever be sexually attracted to a woman. Seriously. Not trying to be obnoxious or prejudiced but I am on the "other side" of the fence on that one. I seriously think "It's not natural." To each his own, of course (and thank heavens we DO have straight men because otherwise the species might die out! LOL) but women are so "soft" (even the muscular ones) and have a "gash" down there, a slit, like a piece of their anatomy is MISSING! There is nothing sexually appealing about a woman. Nothing. Nada. Zip. Women can be quite wonderful in many ways but never sexually. And, of course, straight men feel that way about gay men? I just wonder how in hell straight men can get "turned on" by a woman? How could a woman ever get their dicks hard? What would make them ever look at a woman and go "I gotta get me some of THAT?" So, just as strongly as some men might say all of this about gay men, I say it about straights. We all must live together on the planet. To me, vaginas are repulsive. To straight men, anal sex between men is repulsive. If not "repulsive," it just doesn't "do it" for them. Genetics or environment, it doesn't matter. Straight men chase the "poon," which is absolutely disgusting to me.
Both men and women have asses.
You might as well ask why so many men who are so into eating and or fucking and or touching male asses are so disgusted by straight sex.
This is a perfect example of the many alarming questions about sex one finds on DL, perhaps just from a handful of people, posted by those who seem to exhibit absolutely no understanding of the anatomy, psychology or sex.
Because it's "taboo". Most straight women don't like and won't do it so a guy feels he has power over her if she submits to him and does it.
It's all about their egos and how they see themselves as "real men".
Sex with a straight guy is RARELY about getting off - it's usually more about how HE feels about HIMSELF.
That's why I figure most straight-identifiying guys are so repulsed at the thought of fucking another guy. It has nothing to do with the gay guy but everything to do with how the straight guy sees and feels about HIMSELF.
If that made any sense.
It's all about the "Ego".
It's not that they're actually disgusted OP. They're merely saying what's expected of a macho man. In reality, any hot hole will be okay for them.
[quote]It's not that they're actually disgusted OP. They're merely saying what's expected of a macho man. In reality, any hot hole will be okay for them.
In the abstract, I'm well and good with straight sex; but the thought of my actually engaging in it disgusts me. Horny and slutty as I've been, I've never been the least tempted to stick my cock in any hot hole; it's not that big a stretch to extend the same line of thinking to a straight man.
Not all straight men are gay men waiting waiting to happen, no more than the reverse is true.
Short answer: homophobia.
Slightly less short answer: homophobia + misogyny.
First, a Venn diagram of men disgusted by male homosexuality and men who like anal sex with women would hardly be a perfect overlap. Far from it; many of the men disgusted by male homosexuality are fairly disgusted by all sexuality that isn't vaginal, marital and procreative in nature, while plenty of men who love anal sex with women are evolved enough to not care about male homosexuality or find it threatening. By now I'd go so far as to say that most of the men into anal sex with women are not particularly offended by gay sex.
But I'm sure guys like this exist, and here's my theory: they're disgusted that any man would submit to another man sexually, because they view it as a loss of masculinity and an embracement of femininity, which is anathema to them. They view men who penetrate men as sexually deviant for preferring a male orifice to a female one, and for rejecting an opportunity to lay claim to a woman sexually, which they see as every male's natural birthright and even an obligation.
Men are obliged to use women for sex and to use sex to subjugate and control them. Passing up this obligation in order to penetrate a male sexually offends them on multiple levels, but mostly these two: they are avoiding their right and obligation to sexually control women (misogyny), while participating in and enabling the de-masculinization of another man, by which he is also de-masculinization by association (homophobia).
For fuck's sake, save it for your New Paradigms in Gender Studies seminar, R14.
[quote]Not all straight men are gay men waiting waiting to happen,
That's the absolute truth. They have no loving or caring feelings for a gay man while they're getting a blowjob in a booth at the ABS, so they're NOT GAY. Any hot hole will do.
Straight guys like screwing women, but many straight guys have easier relationships with other men than women.
Fuck off, R15. It's not my fault you're too stupid to read anything over 120 characters in length.
OK, so R15 *was* rude with that response...but funny as hell too! :-)
"Why are GAY men so turned on by anal sex with another MAN, yet the idea of sex with a WOMAN disgusts them?"
Because I'm not attracted to just the idea of anal sex. I'm attracted to guys, not women. Men have two holes my dick can go in and I want to put it in both of them.
Why have this same discussion time and time again? At least the "Swiss White Trash" thread offers something different.
:"Why are GAY men so turned on by anal sex with another MAN, yet the idea of sex with a WOMAN disgusts them?"
Because I'm not attracted to just the idea of anal sex. I'm attracted to guys, not women. Men have two holes my dick can go in and I want to put it in both of them."
And straight men are not attracted to just he idea of anal sex. They are attracted to women, not guys. Women have three holes a straight man's dick can go in and they, like you, might want to put it into all three of them.
In other words, you've just proved the point you appear to be railing against.
I'm a gay man who had anal sex with a woman a couple of weeks ago. I like it with men and women.
(and let's not quibble that I'm really "bi". I don't live a "bi-life"..I'm gay).
OP, I asked my man that same question for you. He said that he likes seeing tits, a pussy, and a rounded, firm ass, not another man's dick. Anal for straights is a little bit about dominance, something different or kinky to discuss with other men, and if the man does it correctly, he can take pride in getting his lady off.
Only selfish men don't care if their partners enjoy the experience as well.