I don't know what the guy's problem is, but whenever we talk to each other, he always sort of leans on me or have one arm around me. And sometimes we'd bro hug and he'd pat my bum in the process.
And just now while we were talking, he casually places his hands on my chest. That touch felt VERY sexual. And he's never said he was gay or even hints he's gay; he even has a girlfriend.
And I'm not attracted to him, he homely. And I feel so violated after each encounter with him, but I can't bring myself to speak up because it may ruin the peace between us and I just want a good home environment to study but at times it really bugs me.
And I can't figure whether he's doing it on purpose or he's just a really touchy-feely guy, whose movements I misinterpreted.
What should I do?
Have sex with him.
Gently remove his hand from your body when he's talking to you?
Why are gay men are such delicate hothouse flowers?
Have you not stated your boundaries?
I'm trying to imagine John Wayne posting this complaint , and it's just not working.
So, OP, if I'm interpreting your post correctly, the problem is that you don't find him attractive, right?
Maybe he's blind OP. Check to make sure he isn't disabled before you go all Anita Hill on his ass.
You might also try having three beers to see if he looks better. If not, you're a shallow cunt but tell him to keep his hands to himself.
It's only sexual harassment if you aren't sexually attracted to the other person. True facts.
Are you the other side of the My Roommate is a Prude that Won't Let Me Fuck Him thread?
just go ahead and cut off your cock and nuts and take estrogen shots. you sound like you're already a fish in terms of your gender identity.
Just tell him that you're weird and don't like friends touching you. Or something. Unless you love touching other people.
Surprise anal will put an end to it.
Tell him you'd like to eat a salted nut roll out of his ass, if he's not game ask him if hell eat one out of your ass..
How could you not see he has a crush on you ? Guys don't do this unless they mean they want you. You gotta tell him you're not interested or he's going to think you don't mind & try harder.
[quote] What should I do?
You should shut the fuck up and enjoy it. He's not hurting anyone.
Stop being such a whiny pussy... seriously.
Just how old are you, OP? Because if you're over 20 you really just need to tell him to stop that or move out. And stop being a whiny little bitch.
Perhaps you accidentally presented OP?
Smells are very important. Don't bathe for a week or heavily apply horrible cologne. That will keep him away.
Get a new roommate.
Just think how hot this story would be if the roommate were attractive. Of course, then no one would believe it.
Next time he places his hands on your chest hands on your chest, just pull out your cock.
Kick him out, if he continues to harass you. I had a best friend who did the same thing, which ended our friendship. I don't miss him, because his harassing me outweighed our friendship.
R23 has had fibromyalgia ever since. Imagine, being touched a homely person! The indignity! The horror!
I'm glad I've never suffered such things
R23 used to be attractive. But after being touched by a homely person he caught ugly and that's been the story of his life ever since.