Do you think that gym management are aware of the sexual activity that goes on in their gyms? (part 2)
As requested here is a new gym sex thread...
I've never had sex in a gym.
Did the old one fill up?
Yes they are aware. Members complain constantly about the trolls jerking off in the sauna window at NYSC 80th street.
Vultures on Viagra no longer content to sit and hope for a partner have become exhibitionists who stand and jerk off to cute guys drying off.
Management does NOTHING
I'm having sex at a gym as I type this
Yes, the old thread reached 600.
[quote] If women were like men, then men and women would be having illicit sex together in the bushes all the time, too.
A lot more common than you might think. 'Dogging' is the straight version of cruising.
Doesn't seem to be much sexual activity at Crunch gyms in NYC. Lots of cute gay guys, but everyone seems to behave themselves.
R6 you must be ugly. I get action all the time at Crunch..Lafayette and 54th.
[quote]Lafayette and 54th.
OK, that address doesn't exist. Are you referring to two separate gyms?
What was the gym in So Cal that had all the action?
r597 i love u man... can we meet? tell me which location and time. r586 .. which location is that ? if not addr hint please. reason guys come fully dressed into sauna is tob check out whos there. if they find u attr they will strip and enter or wont bother. some dudes come in a half dozen times during their workout. they give u half glances for 30 milliseconds and decide. if anything ur ego becomes tougher from all these beatings.
Yes...one location is Lafayette, the other is 54th.
I still mourn for the Bally at 20th/6th that closed last year. There was no sauna/steam, but the showers were made for cruising and jerking off. Probably had some of my most fulfilling JO's there. I was friendly with one of the trainers there, and he used to jerk off in the back stall all the time.
Hmm, here's some questions: 1. On NYSC, for each location, what's the best time to go to get in on/see some action? 2. For DB, what location is best to see action and when? 3. Anyone hear of any action happening after SoulCycle classes?
Glad this thread made it to part two.
Thanks for posting the second part to this.
[quote]reason guys come fully dressed into sauna is tob check out whos there. if they find u attr they will strip and enter or wont bother. some dudes come in a half dozen times during their workout.
Not necessarily. The majority of guys that do this are just idiots who are clueless to how gross and stupid it is.
While we're on the subject, something else I can't stand, people who shave in the steam room. People who do that should lose their memberships.
I hate guys who sit in the steam room and read a fucking newspaper.
You can actually smell the ink in the air - nasty.
r12, you have the morals of a sewer pig, dude.
R16, why did you open the thread if you weren't curious about this behavior. You are lower than sewer pig, dude.
Curious to know those who frequent these gyms if you have any stories of trainers or employees taking part in the action.
I know the first time I saw anything at my gym, it was the locker room attendant jacking someone off in a shower stall. That kid is always horny and has been there for years.
The spin instructor used to like to stroke in the steam room as well. He would always say, please don't tell, I don't want to lose my job. I haven't seen him in a while so I wonder what happened.
Before they remodeled the bathrooms, there used to be a slight opening between the shower wall that separated one stall from the next. I remember peering around and seeing the straight yoga instructor with a raging hardon while he showered. He wasn't showing off for anybody, but I guess he was enjoying himself. That was super hot.
At the NYSC I used to go to regularly, one of the trainers would later become a manager used to play. He's married with kids and extremely masculine, so when one of my friends told good old naive me about him, I was shocked. The spin instructor also fooled around in the sauna. The towel guy was a virulent homophobe who would do surveillance of the area, and he was friendly with these two players. I joke with my friends that some gyms are the equivalent of bad theater.
Sex and steam rooms- at 11!
They are aware when I suck them off
R21...my favorite response.
Was at the NYSC on 41/7 yesterday afternoon. There was a ton of action in the sauna and steam room. Quite funny how whenever a new person walked in, everyone tidied up until some sort of indication (ball rubbing, etc.) of the new guy being cool with what was going on. Only saw two direct blowjobs. Kind of interesting to see two decent looking guys jerking each other off next to a pretty ugly dude watching and jerking in the corner.
Amazing how long the guys can stay in there. Just the rotation--steam room, sauna, shower; steam room, sauna, shower.
Two cocks out in the sauna today at 12th street in Philly today
I currently have a membership to Snap Fitness. It's a pretty basic gym and does not have real locker rooms. It has two bathrooms. One has a shower. I noticed on the counters in each restroom is a basket. In the basket is a box of kleenex, a bottle of lotion, and room deodorizer. Is the kleenex and lotion what I think it's for?
[quote]steam room, sauna, shower, steam room, sauna, shower
It's like your regular episode of the Flintstones.
NYSC at 41st and 7th always has something going on. I think it's from all the theater types stuck in midtown between auditions. Go to Equinox if you prefer actors that are actually working.
Wall Street if you prefer business types.
NYSC is amazingly diverse.
I belong to NYSC and have never seen any of this action. Thankfully!
I fool around in the showers at my gym with a couple of guys on occasion. I think I've been busted though.
Another member walked in just as me and a buddy were groping each other's cocks the other day. And then today the same guy walked in as I had a hard on, admiring another guy with a hard on. No touching today though.
If he complains to management and I'm confronted or questioned I'll deny it and say he was mistaken. His word against mine.
All the same I'm going to go at a different time so I can avoid this guy now.
What luck you have, R31! Do you belong to just the one location, or do you have the "passport" membership?
You haven't been busted. Always keep a lookout. Proceed with caution. Shoot that load!
Sauna and steam are so bad for the skin.
[quote]Do you belong to just the one location, or do you have the "passport" membership?
It's a college campus gym (where I work). I have a dual membership to both major fitness facilities on campus.
I guess it's not getting busted unless security or gym management actually catch me in the act. That hasn't happened. But I will be more cautious from now on.
Another time this younger guy wanted me to fuck him in the showers. He kept backing into me, so I played with his ass for a bit. He grabbed my cock and tried to guide it into his hole, but someone walked in (Didn't see anything though). I would have stopped it anyway since I refuse to bareback.
I sound quite slutty, don't I.
Oh, my mistake, R31. I thought you were talking about NYSC in NYC. You know how we New Yorkers are (center of the universe, blah blah).
[quote]I sound quite slutty, don't I.
No, not really
How does spending large amount of time in the sauna/steam room affect the eyes. I have started suffering from dry eyes and mild pain. I have tried drops and they provide some relief. I have been to a doc and he says everything is ok. Off course i did not tell him i slut around in the saunas, but i have severely curtailed my "activities". Any one has any similar effects ? Any doctors in here ?
From keeping your eyes wet and then presumably drying them off either with a towel or your hands, you're drying out the skin on your eyes, making them itchy, causing you to rub them. Am I right?
I hope you're also letting yourself get dehydrated. You sweat A LOT in the sauna and steam, more than you realize. You should be drinking at least 100 oz. of water a day.
R38, i don't wipe with towels.Actually i never touch the eyes at all. The cornea dries out because of the heat radiation. You are right about drinking water.
My old health club in L.A. men's locker room was like a bathhouse. Activity in steam room like a pron movie, grab ass in locker rooms etc.
The makeover de-gayed the club. Now all items made co-ed and showers are separate stalls.
Wonder where the action moved to?
The action always moves...you renovate one club to stop it and it moves elsewhere and you lose members.
That is why NYSC tends to turn a blind eye, they don't want to lose a single member, even a gross old troll.
I lost out
are therre any clubs in LA where there's action? Never seen or participated in any gym action here
I'm not going to name names, but I was heavily cruised twice by one of the husbands from the Real Housewives show at the gym. He is from either the NY or NJ show. Care to guess???
[quote]Care to guess???
Why would anyone bother as you've already said you're not going to name names.
But I'll name names. I've jerked off with a drunk from the NY franchise's husband. Both the Joe's from NJ are notorious Sauna/Steam whores and I've jerked off with one of them that was on display.
R31, you must be hot to get so much action. Enjoy.
My gym is very boring, so I have all my fun at home.
[quote]My old health club in L.A. men's locker room was like a bathhouse. Activity in steam room like a pron movie, grab ass in locker rooms etc.
R40 Was this the 24 Hour Fitness in West Hollywood? I know that used to basically be a sex club before it was remodeled. Everyone was pissed when they made it coed, but there's still action to be had there late at night.
It's hard to find much activity in LA since very few gyms in the area have wet areas that aren't coed.
The club next to it was even more notorious. It was empty for years and just recently torn down, adjacent to The Palms dance club.
So i was seated alone in the sauna last night.. in comes a horny looking guy. I was not really looking to play, but he gets really aggressive. So i let go and we start j/o. Get interrupted by another guy who is two grades hotter. Guy 1 immediately moves in his direction and gets him involved. I watch them for some time and since i am beyond the point of no return, i go over to and try to join them. Guy 1 now gives me a glaring look that implies that i am being a pest. He actually drags guy 3 to another corner. I left and finished off in the shower.
My experiences are that more often than not, guys are very mean and hurtful in the sauna situations. If you can put up with that, you can have a good time.
[quote]guys are very mean and hurtful in the sauna situations
Don't feel bad, R51. Sounds like the guy is just a scumbag. You didn't miss out on anything.
OMG - I can just picture Guy 1 hissing at r51.
Back off bitch, he's MINE, all MINE!
Would these shower gym areas ever have concealed security cams? Just a thought
I doubt they would ever put cams in locker room for security as there would be huge liability issue for the establishment.
That would be illegal, R58.
I jerked off with a Catalyst from my gym the other day. He is not really my type at all. He is tall, blond, fake tan, late 40s to early 50s and he is the type to walk around in shorts where you can basically see his junk. I was totally shocked once when I saw him walking from the shower stall to reveal what looked like ass implants. Now grant it, besides his face, he has a really nice body - worked out, in proportion to his 6'3" frame, tanned, really impressive and sexy for a guy his age.
Anyway, I was minding my own business in the steam room and he sat down right next to me. It was just the two of us and he sat so close I knew what he was up to - he is pretty aggressive. He just sits there with his cock out. I was a bit bored and no one else was coming in, so I reached over to feel it. Dammit if that thing wasn't as thick as a cucumber. I was mesmerized. He had one of the thickest, cocks I have ever felt at the base. It was about 7.5 inches long and a healthy 7 around for real. It was a pretty cock on an older dude he loved showing it off. I squeezed it at the base and milked the head which he seemed to love. Some younger guy came in and sat down on his other side. He started stroking his cock his cock and the younger guy came.
The only thing with doing something with a Catalyst is that they expect it every time they see you in the steam room and take it personally when you don't play. Steam room is always about the new, the strange. I am not looking for a Steamlationship.
Truer words never spoken, re: your last paragraph, R61.
That said, where was this gym? If it was at a NYSC, I need to know the location. You did say 7" AROUND, right? That wasn't a typo, was it?
David Barton. It was thick as hell and delicious looking r62.
Unfortunately, this comic pretty much sums up my experience with gyms.
Fitness LA in San Francisco is permanently closing their steamrooms because there were too many complaints of sex. So they are aware and finally did something about it.
I'm not sure why gay men were so disturbed by this. Society is getting more prude each day.
Sorry, I meant Fitness SF in San Francisco
Nothing more to report
So much hot married alpha dick on the prowl in the Wall Street NYSC at lunchtime today. I was almost overcome with the vapors from the aroma of testosterone. My smelling salts.
Did you suck them?
Sucked off one. Nice cock. Had a wedding ring. His wife is one lucky bitch,
Married dick is everywhere at lunchtime looking to get off. Far more heteroflexibles than most think.
The Wall Street location is crawling with married guys at lunchtime looking for action. Much of the time it's JO action, but some will suck or get sucked. They don't do anal, in my experience, at least not in the gym. I suppose they deserve whatever they can get...their dumb trophy wives are probably home in their Greenwich or Westchester mcmansions fucking the gardener or their personal trainer. My speciality is married guys, so I'm happy to accommodate.
Time to prelube
What is a "Catalyst?"
Was in the steam room yesterday. There was a black guy in his underwear sauna/steam hopping. No one could tell if he was game to play because he had on his underwear (think someone already posted about how this kills all action)and kept giving people dirty looks.
There were about 4 of us wanting to jerk off but kept getting interrupted by this guy.
A little later a Latino guy comes in, also in his underwear, not very attractive, kind of heavy set, and he's also killing the action. Now, Ive seen this guy play before but he didn't seem to be having it whenever someone would try to start something up.
There's a ton of in/out, and guys getting frustrated because these two are killing the action. If you went to the Sauna, one of them would be in there, and the other would be in the steam room. Goes on for about 30 minutes.
Finally, everyone hits the showers and then back to the steam room where apparently we've interrupted the Black Guy and the Latino guy. They get pissed off and take off.
They kept checking the Steam Room every two minutes to see if it was clear and kept giving everyone dirty looks because it was preventing them from playing.
I thought it was a little funny that they were blocking everyone else and getting pissed off at everyone for doing the same to them.
Apparently, the Black guy only likes to mess around with Latino guys and the Latino guy only likes Black guys.
R78, a Catalyst is a regular who can be counted on to get things started.
I had a great experience today at the gym. On one had it was completely innocent, but on the other, it was one of my hottest encounters to date.
There is this one sexy blond guy who I've seen working out at my gym. He looks about early thirties, seriously attractive in a Patrick Wilson / Kevin McKiddish kind of way. He's taken my spin class before where he wears those tank tops with low cut sides that hang just enough to reveal side rib and nipple when you lean forward. He has a great toned yoga body that kind of drives me crazy. I always pictured him as way out of my league. But I definitely follow him as he walks around the gym.
I've noticed him in the locker room before and even in the steam room. He's played around before, so I know he was into the idea. He is also kind of a complete exhibitionist and I'm a complete voyeur. He likes to slow dress or stand with his ass hanging out of his pants while on his phone. He is sexy as hell and I love it. I just enjoyed it from afar figuring he was waiting for someone on his level to play with.
Today I am sitting on the bench changing into my gym clothes and he comes from the shower with a towel on sitting across from me with his towel open revealing his dick as he fiddles with his lock. He notices me looking - I mean he is like four feet from me cock out. Once he notices me looking, he starts getting hard. He just sits there legs spread while his cock his getting rock hard, turned on by me watching.
I couldn't believe it. I naturally get hard watching him so I joined in by pulling up the side of my workout shorts to show him my hard dick. It looked like he was about to lean in to touch it just when someone walked by and I got up and left - steam room's one thing, hard in locker room is another.
But I must say I thought about him and his dick all day. He was a pretty 6.5 incher I'd say, very nice on him.
The sun come out tomorrow, it's only a day away!
I used to go to Bally's on 32nd & 6th, and just switched to NYSC (mainly go to the one on 34th & Park), and I haven't seen any action going on at any of these places...how am I missing all of this?
There are 2 types of people who make others miserable in the sauna. The hot pretty gay guys who think their pee-pee is too precious for most of us and people who like R61 mentioned are always looking for something new and exciting.
At the Hoboken nysc sauna Tuesday night, there was this hot Russian looking guy who stood inside the sauna near the entrance for 25 minutes. He refused to come and sit near me and another potential just because we were not par with him. I gave up after 25 minutes and left.
My motto is simple. Make love to only a select few but jack off with every man possible.
[Quote]Fitness LA in San Francisco is permanently closing their steamrooms because there were too many complaints of sex. So they are aware and finally did something about it.
The one in the Castro or the one on Brannon?
Both Castro and Brannan.
It will do no good. They will have sex in showers, closets etc. Sex in gyms has happened since the beginning of time...I say just put a jerk off room in the clubs with a separate one for boner killing trolls.
How do you guys get it up in the steamroom? The hot steam instantly kills any boner.
If a guy makes the mouth thing that indicates he wants to suck me off I get hard no matter how hot.
If it is just a jack off thing...I am too bored to respond.
What is this "mouth thing" that you're talking about?
[quote]He refused to come and sit near me and another potential just because we were not par with him. I gave up after 25 minutes and left.
R85 Why did you have to give up after 25 minutes? Why didn't you just JO with the potential next to you? Or were you waiting for the new and exciting thing (ie the hot guy who wouldn't come in)?
The tongue out the sucking motion...the tongue thing that lets me know he wants to suck me.
This one guys stares at my crotch and says 'Yum" and that make me hard as well.
[quote]The tongue out the sucking motion...the tongue thing that lets me know he wants to suck me.
I've never seen anyone do that. Most guys just grab it and go down or ask if it's ok to blow me.
[quote]This one guys stares at my crotch and says 'Yum" and that make me hard as well.
That would be an instant boner killer for me.
Where do you go?
r85, do you go to the Hoboken NYSC Newark Ave location or the one downtown? I'm at the one downtown every evening. I generally just shower and don't use the sauna/steam, but if it's the downtown location, I think I know which Russian looking guy you're talking about.
"or the one downtown"
meant to write "...uptown"
r91.. lol.. i like ur thought process. i am always ready to j/o in a theater full of people but the potential next to me just froze on seeing this russian who wouldnt go away. it takes two to tango ya know...else i can do it home by myself. r95..it was downtown near path station.
r85/96, so this is the location I go to at night. I'm sure we've seen each other there. Regarding the Russian looking guy you're talking about, what does he look like? I'm thinking it could be one of three guys: (1) thick/fleshy powerlifting guy about 5'11", handsome, sometimes sports a goatee, hairy, very straight acting, early 30s, (2) thin but shredded guy, shaved head, smooth, straight for all intents and purposes, late 30s, (3) short stocky guy, dark hair, cruisy, early 50s. Who knows...one of these guys could be you!
Oh, sorry. Didn't realize he was INSIDE the sauna. Thought he was standing outside and wouldn't come in.
r97 damn how many russians are there at this gym ? he fits the description of number 2. walks around with a bottle of protein shake which he keeps sipping while standing at the door. if you know him tell him to let us underlings play while he waits for ian somerhadler to show up in the locker room. and i dont fit any of the three. i show up only once a week...try and rotate locations.
r97, yeah, sounds like number 2 with the protein shake. He seems a bit of a flake. Sometimes he cruises me intently, other times he ignores me. He does have a beautiful cock (a good 5-6 inches flaccid...don't know if he's a shower or a grower), which he likes to show off in the locker room and which he's seen me staring at. I've seen him rush away from the sauna and run straight for the showers, where I've heard him moaning. He's definitely got an attitude and overinflated ego. He's really not all that. Yes, his upper body is pretty amazing and he does have a beautiful cock, but his ass is pretty saggy and the face is nothing to write home about. I've seen him flirting with chicks on the gym floor, so not sure what his story is.
Sorry, I meant to address r99
If everybody telling stories of their hot experiences could name which specific gym it happened at, that would be wonderful!
I've posted several entries in this and the last thread. Mine are usually the long rambling ones like r82 and always occur at David Barton 23rd st.
The steam room was a JO fest today too. Skinny Catalyst mentioned in previous post was jacking off this new latin kid who bent over to suck him off some. The skinny catalyst does have a nice dick, but I've seen it so much, the thrill is kind of gone. All in all there were five guys in on it, but once one guy left, we all left shortly after.
R102 all over NY.
I keep taking advantage of Living Social deals and getting a few months here, and a few months there in order to keep the mouths on my cock fresh.
OK, I am somebody who sometimes checks out the steam/sauna situation at NYSC. I go to several locations. Findings:
Union Sq Irving - way gay, some action sometimes, but often not because there's always that one potentially offended straight guy in there
Union Sq at 5th / 14th - way gay but this dude on staff is a freak about doing patrol on the steam/sauna rooms. He will literally whip the door open every 2 minutes and shove his head in there and stare bug eyed at whoever is in there. Very uncomfortable even if you are just using the sauna for normal purposes.
Mercer - some action good in evenings
Madison/36th - action toned down since they put up that big "we will ban you and arrest you and sever your testicles and kill you" signage
41st St near Grand Central - hit or miss, a lot of straight guys use the sauna/steam so it tamps down things
41st at 7th - lot of action especially around 8-9 pm
51/Lex - mostly straight, suit and tie daytimes but the evenings can get active and good
UWS - a lot of action but a lot of old trolls (and I mean age 65+) at these locations
Borough Hall Remsen Brooklyn - some action evenings, a higher % of black men than in Manhattan
Thanks for sharing that info. I suddenly feel much better now. I am designating you as my datalounge friend. Should we try to meet up at the gym or keep this anon and mysterious ? How about i leave you a chit inside the first locker on the top right James Bond style with some riddles.
Sheesh.. the heat has gotten to my head today.
Anyone ever play around in any of the Equinoxes?
If you happen to use the one at 19th street, be careful. Some angry straight guy (at least he claims to be straight) says he's fed up with all the guys he comes across jerking off and is going to report it each time he comes across it:
"Who am I? I'm the guy that just wants to veg out in the heat until I semi-lose consciousness after I work out. I'm the guy that doesn't give a shit if there are gay guys in the locker room. I'm also the guy that's tired of watching you play out some gym fantasy you've read about. I'm the guy that's tired of paying almost 200 dollars a month to then have to cut the time short because I don't want to be confrontational. I'm the guy that's tired of you turning public space into your own jack-off show. I'm also the guy that's tired of hearing, "yeah, but it's the steam room. I mean, that just happens there."
So, what's to do? I'm going to start reporting you. I'm going to encourage everyone else to report you. Not report "it" in some vague, I'm uncomfortable fashion. No, I'm going to stand at the desk with the manager until you come out and then we're all going to talk about it. I'm also going to start telling you to knock it the fuck off. I'm going to do this over and over and over again."
Thanks for the info R105, do you know if there's any action for the NYSCs on 23rd/Park or 34th/Park?
R108 yes, but it is all a matter of timing.
Basement locker room at Wall Street is a virtual bathhouse.
both 23 and 34 on Park are dead locations. It is Park avenue after all.. a different clientele than the village or downtown. The best are downtown locations Wall st and City hall. Those guys know time is money and don't waste it playing games.
Had an awesome experience a couple months ago. I was back in my hometown which I haven't been to in about 10 years. I was visiting my parents and bored as fuck. I went to one of the nearby gyms got in a workout and went to the locker room.
It was close to closing so there weren't all that many people around. I took a shower and then went into the steam room. When I got in there, there was one other guy sitting in the far corner. The steam was pretty thick so it was hard to see but I could tell he was older, late 40s, in good shape, and married.
I'm looking at him but he doesn't notice at first because he's just staring at the wall. I'm getting hard and I start to rub the tip of my dick through my towel. He finally notices but seems nervous and just looks away.
I kept rubbing it a little and noticed that he must have gotten hard since he had to adjust himself. He does his best to not look at me but I can see he's stealing glances. I figure he's not leaving so I get a little bold and I just take it out and start stroking. It takes him a little while but he eventually starts rubbing his, but only under his towel.
I get up and sit next to him and that's when I get a closer look at his face and realize I know him. This dude is the father of one of my classmates and he also coached football and taught history for a year. I immediately get harder. He doesn't recognize me and I just sit down next to him and jerk off. I reach down and take his cock in my hand and he jumps a little but lets me. He moans a little and then starts to jerk me off.
I cum and then he cums shortly after. He sits there a second like he doesn't know what just happened and then gets up quickly and leaves.
By the time I got out of the steam room he was nowhere to be found. I have to wonder if it was his first time doing that.
r111, how many STD's do you have, man?
r111, what a wild surprise to know who the handsome stranger was. And a Coach to boot.
R112 I know it's hard for someone like you to understand, as someone who probably hasn't gotten any... ever, but I don't have any, thanks. Jerking off is hardly high risk behavior.
Fuck you, R112, that could have been his first time having sex with anyone, ever. He said nowhere in his post that he was a slut.
I AM a slut, however, and I don't have any STDs. (Herpes doesn't count after the initial outbreak, does it? I kid, I kid.)
I've been going to NYSC Irving more than any other gym in the past 3 years and I guarantee you there is more action there than there is not.
14th & 6th (it is demonstrably closer to 6th than 5th) is, I assure you, the biggest waste of time. Looks like a lot of poz guys play there, too. It is the ultimate in "I won't take out my dick until that guy over there leaves because he's too old/fat/Asian/black." As I said in part 1 of this thread, you could die of heatstroke before you shoot a load in that place.
Also been to Wall St because I'd heard those guys don't mess around, but it was slim pickins.
Two guys just jerking off, but the Jackass at R112 sees STD's all over the place. No doubt 112 won't ever get an STD since nobody will get near the creep.
Anyone have any experiences at the NY Health and Ra,quet Club?
Tell us about the hottest man you ever saw in the locker room...
r111, do you really think jerking off furtively in a steam room with a closeted married guy who then takes off in a panic is an "awesome experience"?
Maybe one day you'll enjoy real human sexual contact where you enjoy each other's bodies and then revel in it, without shame and fleeing.
105: where at Mercer do people play?
"Real sexual contact"
Give me a break. Yes, the world has to function based on your definition of something you probably haven't had in years.
If that's how you feel.. why are you even in this thread?
I don't think R119 has ever had real human sexual contact. He doesn't realize that unless someone feels ashamed, it's not real. Maybe one of these days you'll get the chance.
Idiot at R119 one does not preclude the other.
question for the regulars... what is the maximum number of times you made out with the same guy in the sauna/steam. if you did stop how did you break up ...most of these interactions are wordless.. so on the 13 th time did you just slap him and walk out...
Never made out. Just opened my towel and got sucked off. If the head is good like with one guy...probably 100 bj's. I wish our visits were at the same time every day.
Was in the steam room this weekend. It was unbelievable. This hot, young, guy, early 20s, tight little swimmer's body is sitting there naked, on top of his towel. I come in and he starts immediately jerking off. I joined in. Someone else came in and the actions topped.
The other guy leaves and another comes in. Action starts up again only this time, the guy with the swimmer's body, whips out a condom and some lube, throws it on the other guy and they start fucking.
It was insane.
ok r126 which gym and location was that? i have never seen any fucking in the steam room.. and i have been to over 35 locations in 15 cities.
I've seen fucking in the steam room at my gym in Chicago. As far as I know they were barebacking though.
I've never seen guys fucking at the gym, but I'm sure it goes on. I see the occasional oral, but almost all activity I observe is JO. Then again, I confine myself mostly to the sauna, and stay away from the steam, where I'm guessing the fucking is more likely to occur.
[quote]so on the 13 th time did you just slap him and walk out...
What's been your experience with reactions of actual straight guys (yes, they do exist LOL) in the sauna/steam as action takes place? I've found that some are ok with it and just read their paper pretending not to notice, while others (most) just walk out. A few homophobic twats will complain to management, but that's expected.
I've found that a lot of them actually join in. They seemed confused at first that it's going on but then grab their junk and start going at it.
Most of them walk out and head to the sauna, if there's one available.
I was in the steam room a few days ago when a few guys started something up. One guy walked out and I wasn't interested in the guys fooling around and I left too. We both ended up in the Sauna and the other guy started talking to a third guy in there about how he doesn't mind gay guys but he doesn't understand why they hook up at the gym instead of going some place private.
Then these aren't straight guys, R132. Hopefully you still want them to join in next time. I know "straight" is a major turn on. "Gay/bi" is a major turn off.
The manager always squeezes my ass when he sees me in the locker room
I stopped by 94th St for the first time in ages the other night. It seems they promoted the homophobic maintenance guy who used to police the area and report back to management. What a party spoiler he was! The new maintenance guy looks dumb as a box of hair. Have the fun times returned there?
[quote] A few homophobic twats will complain to management, but that's expected.
Is this really an example of homophobia? Perhaps they just don't believe sex should occur in a public place?
You're an idiot. Straight guys can jerk off with other guys. It's only narrow minded people like you that think otherwise.
What a dumb thing to say R133
[quote]Straight guys can jerk off with other guys.
It's pathetic that you even have to explain something like this to R133. Maybe 133 is a frau who can't comprehend that men, straight and gay, enjoy having no strings sexual playtimes.
I've seen two guys fucking in the steam room a couple of times. Mostly see oral though. One time I was in the steam with about 8 other guys and we all got something going on. There was one guy, married, huge dick, that opened up his towel and 5 of the guys lined up and took turns sucking him off.
Last night at 73rd and CPW NYSC this super hot young guy, very muscular with hair started going down on a kind ugly black man. He always seemed cruisy but never made a move but with the black guy he was super aggressive. Once he swallowed that load, his towel went back on and he sat in wait...I guess for the next black man.
[quote]started going down on a kind ugly black man
Maybe he was attracted by the black man's kindness.
This thread keeps making me HORNY.
kind ugly black man = Morgan Freeman
R140, were you one of the five who got in line?
Steam room experience today. Not much action going on at first. There was a good looking guy, muscular/beefy, really nice ass and cock just walking around the locker room completely naked. He'd go from the showers to the stall to the sauna to the steam. He kept trying to show off to me in the showers, but we kept getting interrupted by a troll who would follow us from the showers to the sauna.
He goes into the steam room and I go shower. I end up walking into the steam room and he's jerking off with another guy in there. They don't skip a beat. I sit and jerk off. Shortly after, the troll comes in.
The other two were too far into it now to stop, and the troll gets this disgusting smile on his face (like finally!!!). The guy that was completely naked was getting a hand job and the troll immediately starts grabbing his balls. The troll doesn't stop and I think the guy was just new to this or didn't want to bother and so just gave up trying to stop him.
Then the other guy tries to go down on him and he didn't want it and tried to stop him. He was obviously just looking to JO. The other guy tries again to go down on him, guy stops him again. Third time, the other guy tries to force his head down on the guys cock and the guy got pissed off, pushed him away and left.
so a Troll is someone who just like you is looking for action while doing the shower-steam routine but looks uglier than u and wont leave the minute u find ur guy ...right?
No, a troll is someone who camps out in the locker room for hours at a time and refuses to leave the room, even if it means blocking the action. Some trolls are super aggressive and also grab even after theyve been told not to.
Well I'll contribute to this. NYSC/23rd & 8th is a mess! At least it was when I was a member 2 years ago. I've seen a few porn stars who have worked out there. Everyone pretty much works out very hard but I guess you have to have that relief after a strenuous workout. The trainers are okay looking but do not get much work since most of the boys are buff and know what to do themselves. NYSC/16th & 8th isn't far behind. It's a toss up as to which one is worse except at the 16th St location the locker room staff could care less about what is going on and sort of encourage it. Also, there are all types of hustles going on i.e. locker rentals etc. I understand they had a major shake up at that location because of all of the mess. The trainers are average and not really needed there either because the members could be personal trainers themselves. NYSC/24th & Park has a lot of "straight" nellies who are in fear of being raped by the gay guys. You can't even say "good morning" to them without them jumping into a defense mode. Didn't really see any really notable trainers there either. NYSC/Broadway SoHo was surprisingly quite active and it's probably the cleanest NYSC that I have ever been in--especially the locker room. Hot guys! very diverse and gay & straight all play nice together! Once again, no notable trainers (I have no idea how a trainer makes money at NYSC because you never see them) Finally, management is cracking down. They put up a sign. Crunch/Christopher St is boring. That's probably because of all the gentrification in the area. Hot trainers though!!! I'm now a member of Equinox. Equinox/33rd & Park is diverse but it's more stand and look. I'm sure that there is something going on in the steam and sauna rooms but it's minimal. Equinox/12th & Greenwich will hurt your feelings if you are not good looking and near physical perfection! Think Andrew Christian in various ages and colors. Nothing happens there (to my knowledge anyway) because everyone is too into themselves. I don't mean that in a bad way either. You could probably ask a guy out for coffee or a date but sex in the locker room? I don't think that's happening. WOW! looking trainers! Equinox/21st & 10th has the most GORGEOUS locker room! The clientele and trainers not so much but I have only been to that location once and at an odd hour. So, that's my contribution!
If NYC had some proper sex clubs, you wouldn't need to act like a bunch of closeted Muslims.
This is completely unrelated to gym sex but the same hierarchy applies. Is anyone familiar with the dick dock in PTown? It's this location under a pier where guys gather at night for random sex. Just replace the steam with sand.
I have been going here and there over the years but mobile sites like grindr and scruff have really decimated the talent. I was there last night and it was trollapalooza. PTown has an older crowd to begin with but imagine that older guy's older unattractive friend grabbing for your junk. I am no spring chicken at 38 but I'm not 62 yet. However there were a sprinkling of decent 40 something's to make it worth staying if watching is your thing like it's mine.
Anyway that's the scene when I stumble across this sexy, scruffy, lean 20 something kid blowing this one guy. I was like really? What in the world are you doing here? The guy getting sucked asked to fuck him and the kid had condoms and lube ready to go. So he bent the kid over and stated fucking. The kid sees my dick and starts sucking it. The top guy had an Australian accent and was going on and on about being up inside the kid while he sucks my cock. I must say his mouth was so warm and amazing. And watching him get fucked and feeling the scruff on his face was too much and I pulled out a little and shot this huge load across his face and onto the ground. I thought he was upset at first because he pulls up a bit. But I see my load on his face was just enough to get him off because he starts shooting. We're both done and pull up our pants and he gives me a slight grin with my jizz hanging from his scruffy face. You're gonna go home like that, I was thinking, more power to you.
I know most gay guys find this kind of behavior revolting. But when it's hot, it's so hot. And surprisingly I have found on a rare instance it's a younger pretty guy that loves to be used in these situations. Ultimately you look at someone thinking one thing, but you never ever know what really gets them off - as pointed out above with the hot white who only wanted to blow a homely older black guy.
errr.. excuse me what exactly is ptown?
never mind. i found ptown = provincetown from reading the other thread a bout dickdock. i am from nyc. the only way u will find me in ptown is when asteroid AZ1523 strikes middle earth.
R154 - Honey, if you're waiting that long to go to ptown, you're better off sticking with your crew over in Mordor.
Provincetown is a retirement village for the most part.
NYSC is for married men who want to get off.
None of you have had any steam room hookups this weekend to report? I'm disappointed in you bitches.
Hot horny guys at my gym, why not suck them off
Do you think I could manage to sneak into the women's side and munch some sweet gunt?
This beautifully built man was on the floor today, he was smoking hot. Later when I was showering, he went to the shower across from me and started soaping himself...everywhere...and stroking his huge schlong... a couple other hot guys came out of nowhere....and the hot guy rinsed and went to the steam room...naturally we all followed. It was a great stroke and suck session!
Tomorrow morning will be rocking, Sunday morning is definitely cock worship time at my gym.
r160 this never happened. I go to NYSC and never see anything happening.
R161 you must be a troll for everyone to hide from you like that.
How many of you guys see the same guys in the steam room and how many times do you get something going with the same person/people before you lose interest in them?
Anyone have an encounter with a celebrity in the gym?
R163 - interesting question. I have wondered about it myself.. I meet this one particular guy in my gym sauna many times. I have j/o'ed with him around 9 times so far. But these days i avoid him. Not because i have lost interest in him, but because of the fact that he needs bloody 10 minutes of non-stop non-interrupted yanking before he shoots his load. I need like 30 seconds. This presents a logistical problem at so many levels. There is this another guy who stopped playing with me after the 6th time since on the 7th meeting i had a cold and just wanted to enjoy the sauna and did not play with him. How i wish i had a regular dependable guy. Don't we all ?
r160, is this a gym in NYC, and if so, which gym? I want to go to one with showers where you can see other people!
R165-Thanks for "enjoying" the sauna while you had a cold. I'm sure you got everyone else after you sick since you contaminated the sauna. Shocking that you can't find a dependable guy since you are so considerate to others. It's called a "health club". If youre sick, stay home.
[R160] That's pretty much any gym in NYC now. Most gym showers have changed over to some sort of opaque type glass. This is done in an attempt to prevent guys from jerking off in the shower. I know... some of you folks go "EWWW" but it's all washed down the drain with water anyway. I think these new opaque glasses are somewhat offensive. I don't need for others to see how I wash and what I wash. the glass is opaque but it's not that opaque.
we have transparent curtains in our stalls
Most NYSCs in the city have those transparent curtains, which are a gift from the gay gods because they allow you to gauge the traffic to and fro the sauna/steam. The few Ballys that are left have open stalls, which makes for a very erotic atmosphere. The one in Riverdale is amazing. Thick Dominican meat for days, and they love showing off their amazing bodies and packages. I've had my best JO/suck times there. I fucking love being gay in NYC...I wanna scream it from the rooftops sometimes. Where else can you have this much easy access to cock?
I wish that, instead of shower stalls, NYC gyms would have an open space with an old chevy, hoses and buckets with soap so that after a hard workout guys could pretend to be Jessica Simpson in that car wash video.
There was one independent gym I used to go to years ago in NJ that had communal showers. This was back in the early '90s, and I was late teens. I remember this one incredibly erotic experience I had there. I was showering by myself, when in walked this god. This guy was built like one of the guys from the TV show American Gladiators, which I feverishly used to JO to at that point in time. Even though the communal area was huge, he took the nozzle right next to mine. I was overcome with excitement and frozen at the same time. I quickly glanced down at his dick, and it was huge. He asked me if I could give him his towel. I handed it to him and watched him dry himself within inches of me. I think I spontaneously came. I still JO thinking about that.
I remember the DC MTV Real World cast talking about the Washington Sports Club being the only place that they could masturbate in peace while on the show.
As someone who goes to that gym, I would have loved to walk in on some Mike Manning in the showers there. Would have been nice to lend him a hand.
Or the boy that wore the panda hat. I don't remember his name.
"...Most NYSCs in the city have those transparent curtains, which are a gift from the gay gods because they allow you to gauge the traffic to and fro the sauna/steam. The few Ballys that are left have open stalls, which makes for a very erotic atmosphere..."
Sometimes if you're going to jerk off you want to do so with a bit of privacy. It's the same when you want to just take a long relaxing shower. Transparent curtains? That's offensive.
"...Thick Dominican meat for days, and they love showing off their amazing bodies and packages..."
Personally I would find this annoying. I have seen those guys with the "perfect" bodies who are exhibitionists. Most of the time they have no interest or intent in actually doing anything with you but they are getting off on all of the attention being given to them. Great! They get off while you're left standing there slobbering.
Totally with R175
They waste my time and deprive me of other potentials..
If i want contact with hot bodies, i go to the local strip clubs and see how far my 20 bucks can go..
When I was a in college, there was a sauna behind a row of lockers. Freshman year- I had only ever fooled around with one guy in my life and I was in complete denial that I was gay. Nonetheless, I went into the jam packed sauna. A bunch of old guys. They stare at my erect dick. It's like a dream come true to me. One guy says "Look who got the party started," referring to my dick. Then a guy said "Sorry I'm staring." I said, my heart thumping, "you can touch it if you want." He had some oil and started jerking me off. I was in heaven. Another guy held my leg and everyone was rubbing themselves. And then I freaked out and left. I came back, though, many many many times and jerked off, got jerked off, got blow jobs, more than I can count throughout my whole four years there. When I was home during the summer, I would seek out gyms so that I could fool around with people in the locker room. Sometimes, I found action, sometimes I didn't. Once I moved to NYC, I jerked off in the showers all the time. Sometimes people would just watch. Sometimes they'd jerk off too. Sometimes, we took the action back to their place too. Ah good times. I'm not as cute as I used to be so I don't think anyone's interested anymore.
I was naked in a hot tub with Wentworth Miller in West Hollywood but we didn't do anything. I'm a celebrity myself so there are lots of people out there with a celebrity story to tell.
R178 give a dick description.
I think gym sex is becoming a thing of the past. With all this acceptance and outness younger people just find no reason to sneak. They just take the person home or wherever to have sex. It seems to me that here in NYC people are so hardcore and serious about their workouts that they really have no interest in having sex at the gym whether they be gay or straight.
[quote]I think gym sex is becoming a thing of the past. With all this acceptance and outness younger people just find no reason to sneak. They just take the person home or wherever to have sex. It seems to me that here in NYC people are so hardcore and serious about their workouts that they really have no interest in having sex at the gym whether they be gay or straight.
Counterpoint: Grindr (or Scruff or whatever) is the biggest time-waster and bullshit-vortex there ever was! This is another reason why sauna/steam room sex is still a happening thing at many of the NYSCs. And I can attest that, ohh yeah, it is most indeed happening. In fact I'll be at one of the locations today around 1:15pm.
"Counterpoint: Grindr (or Scruff or whatever) is the biggest time-waster and bullshit-vortex there ever was!"
Well, I will agree with you on that 100%! But, I've seen changes on those apps too. Whereas once Grindr was pretty much for hook-ups the ads are all becoming more... "vanilla" (for lack of a better word.) A lot of men are looking for friends, relationship, and/or chat instead of what was on there before such as; "Me bottom. You top. NOW!" I'm sure random and anonymous sex still goes on (somewhere) but it seems as if the younger gays are interested in more than just that. That is why I don't think locker room sex is as prevalent as it once was. But, then again, I'm no longer a member of NYSC. I'm an Equinox guy and I really see nothing happening there. Maybe I go to the gym at the wrong times?
If somebody just wants to use the gym as like an actual gym(including showers and saunas etc) how do you want me react if I come across this?
I'm hardly sex-negative, but am I allowed to feel mixed about this? Is this really safe and hygienic? Is this really fair to people who aren't there for that purpose?
@ [R183] Shaddup, you gay prude! Just because you're good looking and can probably get whomever you want; think a gym should be used as a gym; a shower used just for that--showering; a sauna used as a sauna, deprive an old withered troll (who walks butt-naked around the locker room, because a towel can't fit around his waist), some fun? It's what guys do! Especially you gay guys who are hypersexual!
R183, come on, anyone's allowed to feel what they want to feel. Don't play the victim card.
It's supposed to work like this: guys who want to play in the sauna, emit little subtle code gestures and eye contact. Rule is, the #1 purpose of the sauna is what Gym Mgmt says it is: the official policy. So, if anyone in there wants to use it as just a sauna (which most/many do), then no playing allowed.
The trouble comes when some trolls are too assertive and in-your-face about it. Shades of borderline-sexual-harrassment ensue. The guy who just wants to sit in the sauna then has to choose between putting up with the sexually forward troll, or leaving, and/or reporting troll to gym mgmt.
I play in the sauna sometimes but I know the code. I would never cause a straight or non-playing guy to feel harassed, much less molested. Unfortunately some guys don't have that sense of rules/social grace/adherence to policy. We had a bad case in my usual gym last month - creepy old guy in his 70s, grabbing his junk and leering at men, blocking the steam room doorway etc. Then one day he was gone, never seen again. I think he finally got reported enough times.
R185 speaks the truth
I've been into steam room fun for a few years now, and I never get aggressive with people. I can read cues very easily if someone is into it or not (or into me or not). I've never been caught.
[quote]Sometimes if you're going to jerk off you want to do so with a bit of privacy. It's the same when you want to just take a long relaxing shower. Transparent curtains? That's offensive.
Actually a friend of mine opened up his own gym and said it's a pretty standard industry practice that the less private you make the showers, the more money you save because someone is less likely to be luxuriating for 20 minutes running up your water bill.
[quote]I think gym sex is becoming a thing of the past. With all this acceptance and outness younger people just find no reason to sneak. They just take the person home or wherever to have sex. It seems to me that here in NYC people are so hardcore and serious about their workouts that they really have no interest in having sex at the gym whether they be gay or straight.
There will ALWAYS be a portion of men who enjoy public sex and are turned on by it. And a gym sauna is about the safest public sex you can have. And the guys that I have seen getting off at my gym are younger than me - mid 20s to early 30s. Guys enjoy jacking off in groups, period.
I guess that's it. Guys enjoy circle jerks, and where else are you going to do that so easily?
My favorite gym conquests are the deeply closeted/down-low ones who are all "bro" this and "bro" that with their straight post-frat buddy cliques in the weight room. When their straight buds hightail it out of there after they finish working out, this is the one guy from the clique who heads right to the sauna/steam, and then lingers in the shower with the see-through curtain for a little too long. There are a few guys in my gym like this. I've gone down on one and JO-ed with another as we viewed each other from opposite shower stalls. There are a couple more who have piqued my interest lately, and I intend to have them.
R180 actual facts prove your 'opinion' wrong.
@ R189. I could be. If so, so be it. I base my opinion solely upon my observations and I'm not witnessing young and/or really "hot" guys having locker room sex. What I do continue to see are the the elder men (50, 60, and possibly 70's) who walk around bare assed naked (I REALLY hate this) who linger in the locker room and some 40-50 year olds, (Some in good shape while others not so much), who might be engaging in this type of activity.
R179- I didn't see Wentworth's dick. We were in a hot tub. I guess I got out first.
R180- gym sex will never be a thing of the past. It's not about sneaking around. It's about anonymous sex in public. There will always be people who ar turned on by that. I am and I'm married.
And at my gym most of the men are young...and great cocksuckers.
I suppose my question here would be is if you were management of NYSC would all of this be a concern or a marketing opportunity?
Have any of you ever started jerking off with someone in the steam room and then just stopped before either of you finished and walked out? Or has this happened to you?
So, a silly question to R185's point...but what are some of the clues that someone is interested? Being new to all of this, how do you get the other guy to know you want to play? I'm a very subtle person, maybe a little too subtle that I possibly blew an opportunity (the only thing I'm blowing these days).
R196 - walk in. sit down. look around. place one hand on your junk. Try to make eye contact. If no eye contact after 10 minutes of trying or no movement towards the crotch from other party, walk out.
Step in the shower for 10 minutes.
R195 - you encounter all kinds of weirdos in there. Its not a place for fragile egos. Can you describe in more details what exactly happened ? Did the guy lose interest midway and walk out ?
It's common protocol that when you shoot, you walk. Do not expect the other guy/guys to be nice enough to help you finish. We fags deserve one another. LOL
People walk out for all kinds of reasons...theatre tickets, dinner plans, back to work, wife waiting or they just got to hot to continue.
Not everyone, including me, wants to cum, in the steam room. Jacking off is one thing. Cumming is another. I like to use what happens in the steam room as JO material for later.
Ive walked out, usually because it got too hot, but I usually say, something like, "getting too hot."
I had an experience where one guy was obviously sitting around the wet area for awhile waiting for action. I saw him in the sauna before my work out sitting alone with his cock exposed and gently tugging. After my work out I went into the steam room and he came in. He started stroking and I joined in. Maybe about two minutes later he just got up and walked out (neither of had gotten off).
I shrugged it off and got out of the steam room a few minutes later and he was back in the sauna just sitting there by himself. No clue what that was about.
I had a pretty hot experience at NYSC this morning. I walked into the sauna to find a Latin guy with a mouthwatering bubble butt downing a huge black cock. I started touching the Latin guy, who was on his knees, and my hands made their way down to his ass. I then got on my knees and started eating that bubble ass. He spontaneously came before he finished sucking off the black guy.
LOL!!! Poor NYSC!
[quote]I shrugged it off and got out of the steam room a few minutes later and he was back in the sauna just sitting there by himself. No clue what that was about.
He was just not that into you. No big whoop.
Also, judging from the amount of time he spends sauna-steam hopping (from the beginning of your workout until the end), I'd say he's a pretty jaded tearoom regular.
R200 boring...we want the cum shot. If we are going to be your living porn make your little spunky before you go home.
Any more celebrities seen having sex or JOing @ gyms?
Agreed, R205. Why wouldn't someone want to shoot a load in the sauna if they've already started working themselves up to it? Masochism? Sheesh. Hate that shit. Although, sometimes, something is better than nothing.
R205, r207 I am a marathon stroker. I like to jack for a long time and cum once. I've jacked off in the shower afterwards. It's funny, I've never thought about it before. But I guess an orgasm is too personal for me just to share with a group of strangers.
Derrick, Frederick's husband from million dollar listing works out at my gym. I'd love t see him sometimes in the steam room.
(r111) That's the hottest story in this thread. Damn...
r140 I like the image of five guys lined up to suck the hung married guy. Nice!
Can people mention their NYSC locations in the future? Thanks.
r152 Even though P'town now has the rep of being 'mature,' I know what you mean about places like that where, ever so rarely, it'll be a hot twentysomething who is getting off by being the new shiny toy that several men are enjoying.
r173 To be in the same steam room as Mike Manning today would be oh-so-nice. To have been in a steam room with MM before the show aired would have been even hotter.
Today there were five of us jacking off in the steam room. The youngest was early 20's and the oldest was around 45. I let the best looking one blow me while everyone watched. He swallowed and it was very hot.
This really cute ginger and I were trying to get something going at the 94th location this evening but we kept getting interrupted by this old troll. If you frequent this location, you probably know which troll I mean...the tall white guy, mid 50s, with slicked back gray hair and a Hitler stache. He is notorious at this location. He is relentless, peeking in showers and cock blocking anyone he can, though no one gives him the time of day.
a certain midtown nysc location has a reputation of having several rentboys working in the afternoon. So i go in to check. Lo and behold there is a harem full of hot guys and i start checking them out wondering who is for available for hire. I got several bemused and annoyed stare backs. I must have made a total ass of myself. none of the guys showed up inside the sauna but may of them made frequent trips to the locker room and eyed the sauna from outside.
Funny. Thought of sharing with you bitches.
I caught the vapors in the steam room
r170 There's a NYSC in Riverdale? Really?
No, the Ballys is in Riverdale.
170's post is hot but never happened.
@ R211, just read through the thread. Locations have been given over and over.
I wonder if there's any steam room drama, like when a guy, in the middle of a jerk off/sucking session, suddenly walks out and the other guy yells: Don't you DARE walk out on me...DON'T YOU DARE!
[R216] which location?
Some nice action at the 125th St location this afternoon. Sucked off a thick black cock to completion in the steam room, as a bunch of guys surrounded us and jerked off while watching us. I exited the locker room right after he did, and I observed him meeting up with his wife/gf. Some of these guys have no shame.
[quote]with slicked back gray hair and a Hitler stache.
C'mon, no one would sport a Hitler mustache in this day and age. You mean he just hadn't shaved or something, right?
R227 the Hitler mustache is a reference to one of the many styles of ridiculous pubic haircuts.
Pardon but I want to rant for a minute. I can't stand the desperate, beady-eyed, moon-faced chubby man who trolls the steam/sauna at my lunchtime location. Tempted to report him just for being consistently repulsive. But that is hypocritical because, truth be told, the #1 reason I want him gone is so that we hotter and more discreet guys can have some fun without being skeeved out. Like we used to, sometimes, before this ever present troll showed up each day.
It's not just this guy's looks (though, frankly, he looks like he hasn't gone near the actual gym equipment since 2005). He is just ALWAYS on the prowl, he goes right for the sauna and steam room every day and spends 1-2 hours in there, on the hunt, from one place to the other and back and forth and back and forth, etc etc etc, staring constantly and creepily at any male who might look back, and exposing or grabbing frantically at his over-excited little peen.
OK, venting over.
r229 why not just ignore him and play with other guys? if you are the types that will not play if a less attractive guy is watching then you are the biggest offender of them all. find something useful for him to do... like keep a watch ...
Sometimes the trolls pleasantly surprise you. There's this one older guy, I'd say in his early/mid-60s, whom I've seen at a few NYSC locations on the UWS. He's not fat, but out of shape. Not particularly good looking either, so I would never give him the time of day. One day we were alone in the steam room, and he takes off his towel, sporting the longest, fattest erection I've ever seen. A good 10 inches and thick. That trumped his other physical shortcomings, and I was on my knees before you could say go. The next day, a Saturday, he came over to my place. I was properly lubed and he plowed me like no tomorrow with his fuck stick.
r226 u are eagerly waiting for the so-called shameless guy to show up today ...aren't u?
"if you are the types that will not play if a less attractive guy is watching then you are the biggest offender of them all."
sorry, I just can't have fun when someone really repulsive and desperate is around. It's fucking annoying as hell.
and i'm not a snob. some of these guys are just gross.
whenever I sense someone is not in to me in the sauna, I leave. It's sort of an unspoken rule as far as I'm concerned. wish some of these trolls would get the same clue.
R230, I think this particular person is a bit off in the head. He seems to lack a normal sense of boundaries or discretion/caution. He'll expose himself to straight guys, or stand fondling himself near the doorway, and stuff like that. And he will just STARE AND STARE AND STARE at you the entire time. Glancing is one thing, but I'm talking about a direct hawk-like stare for a whole long minute. Makes me and, apparently, everyone else very uncomfortable.
I don't mind that he has a belly, like R231 said sometimes the less in shape guys can be hot in their own way (whether attributes or enthusiasm/technique). But this guy has a creep factor about him. I don't want to engage with him at all, and it seems like everyone else gets the same feeling.
I think he's going to get kicked out soon for the above reasons. In the meantime, though, it's a lousy situation.
I had a similar experience with a troll pleasantly surprising me. Not attractive in the least, but revealed a hard uncut donkey dick. It was a true chin dropper. If he was younger and more attractive then I would have gone home with him.
R230 sounds like all the nasty trolls at my gym and is the reason I end up never staying for very long.
If you play in front of the trolls it just encourages them to come back, stay longer, stare more.
I make sure they know that I will abruptly leave if they follow me.
r236 what is nasty about the suggestion to ignore trolls and having fun? if your ass is too precious stay out of the sauna or just be in your castle.
R237 has it right.
If you give a mouse a cookie...
Do not feed the trolls!!!
It is not only NY where this stuff occurs.
I did a drive cross country and went to a lot of local YMCA's and they are sexual hotbeds in places like Kansas. Most of the men may be sporting wedding rings but they can be wild.
One in Witchita sucked me off, asked where I was staying and showed up later that night to get fucked, a quick fuck because his wife had dropped him off (to see an old friend) while she took the kids over to the Walmart.