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Boundaries/houseguests

What do you do when a friend just announces he's coming to your city in a month and he's gonna stay at your house and work from there, too? He got all pissed when I gently put a few parameters down -- like suggesting which days he could stay. (I'll just be getting back from a trip and need a day or so to get the house re-stocked, do laundry, etc.). He assumes we're much closer than we are. I don't mind having him here briefly; but with this thing, he's presuming waaa-aaay too much. The whole thing started out wrong when he simply announced he was coming here ... and staying here... and working from here... without really asking me if I'd be OK with it, or if I had anything else going on.


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