I think I have anger issues towards my parents for having me circumcised.
The more I think about it, the more anger and resentment I feel towards them for doing that to me. What the fuck were they thinking? And it's not like I can just ask them...that'd be way too awkward. So instead I let it fester inside me. Am I wrong here? Does anyone else ever feel this way?
Your parents were smart and did you a favor. Now shut the fuck up.
They did me a favor by making it nearly impossible to cum when I'm fucking, R1?
You sound like a mental case, OP
I ram my uncut cock down my dad's throat every time I see him, That way I can remind them of their mistake
Have you considered getting a supply of really tiny dickeys?
OP, I'm sure I'm not the first to say it...you are a goddamned idiot.
Okay, now that we've gotten the customary cunty responses out of the way, surely the rational thinkers will be showing up here shortly.
Why do you need rational thinking when the trolls will take over anyway?
OP, if you're not trolling (and the odds always favor the Effervescently Silly Trollery here), please work it out. Is is POSSIBLE for a person to feel or decide to say he feels angry for being circumcised. Sure.
But not to (1) address the issue with the people responsible (Are you 13 years old, you ass? "Way too awkward"? About what? Why?); (2) seek counseling for anger/betrayal/sexual function/mutilation issues; and (3) stop bothering us here reinforces your being a troll or being a mess. And the latter really likely has nothing to do with a flap of skin your parents had removed in a culturally acceptable manner at a time when you were oblivious to it.
As for R2, how ridiculous. Blaming retarded ejaculation on the presence or absence of a foreskin during the entire time of a man's sexual life is naive and petulant. One learns how to enjoy, prolong and culminate sexual pleasure by paying attention, being with responsive partners, and practicing wanted skills. If you can't have an orgasm during active anal sex (God, you're not talking about other "fucking," are you?), maybe you should cut down on the booze and lose some weight.
[quote]Am I wrong here?
Yes. For the most part, American parents over the past 50 years haven't even thought twice about circumcising their male babies. It's not like they actively colluded to mutilate your genitals against your will, and people will think you're batshit crazy if you dare even suggest such a thing.
[quote]They did me a favor by making it nearly impossible to cum when I'm fucking, R1?
I'm assuming R1 = OP. If you find it "nearly impossible" to cum while fucking, you have MANY more problems (meaning psychological, not physical, ones) than merely a circumcised cock.
Seethe with rage until Thanksgiving Gathering and then address your resentment in a letter to be read aloud to the whole family before the meal.
I'd suggest a scroll; work on your calligraphy.
Don't feed the troll.
I have anger issues towards your parents for not having aborted you.
Not a troll, not fat and not a drinker. And how is it not awkward to talk to my parents about my DICK?
You're right, OP. It would be awkward.
OP: "Mom and Dad, I think you should know I am VERY upset that you had me circumcised without my permission. I can't cum when fucking and it's YOUR FAULT!"
Mom and Dad: "We have already paid for 20 sessions with the therapist. We think it's a good time to ask you to move out of the basement. Daddy really needs his man cave now."
I'm angry with mine for not doing it. Their excuse? They paid for it, if it wasn't done it was the doctor's fault.
But you can still get circumcised, R17. My ex did at the age of 18. I, however, don't have that option.
My son is 31, and when he was born, circumcision was falling out of fashion in California.
His pediatrician said there were pros and cons, but suggested we base our decision on what his father was, so that he wouldn't feel deformed either way.
Since his father was born out of the U.S. he was uncircumcised. I have often felt that my son blames all his misery on not being circumcised.
OP, find a shrink and look into the real reasons why you are pissed off at your parents. It's not the foreskin - I promise.
Re: R19's post, is it really that common for boys to see their dad's dick?? I'd be scarred for life! Oh wait...
His Body His Rights.
OP...you should be angry. No one has the right to mutilate the genitals of a child. If he wants to do it to himself, he can do it as an adult. But the overwhelming and vast majority of men whould never choose to cut themselves after growing up with a foreskin because they would know how good the skin feels, and they would know how unnecessary it is to cut off the foreskin.
It's illegal to cut girls. It should be illegal to cut boys.
If you ever want your son to get a blow job, he has to be circumcised. No person in their right mind would go down of foreskin.
THREAD CLOSED. BEND AND SNAP
R24. I'm happily uncircumcised, and I get plenty of blow jobs.
Some of what we find in this thread are textbook reactions of male victims of genital mutilation: displaced anger, denial, trying to shame intact men and men who express unhappiness about the state of their genitals by saying they are dirty, they are stupid, they should just get over it. I see that all the time.
OP has every right to be angry and upset over the betrayal and irreversible, devastating damage that was inflicted upon him.
However, I don't think DL is the right place to share these feelings and expect support.
OP, you are not alone. Start by visiting thewholenetwork.org or nocirc.org. You can find lots of valuable info and links there to help you improve your situation.
OP, sue your fucking parents for mutilating you. It's your fucking body.
I'm circumcised and while I'm curious what a foreskin feels like, there's nothing I can do to change things now so why get worked up?
I wouldn't blame your parents, OP. They were just doing what the medical community had been recommending for decades. Is your dad cut? Talk to him. Maybe he resents it too.
best replay is #23
OP, your parents have anger issues towards you for being such an ungrateful and selfish little brat.
Grow up and get over your dick, everyone else has.
It's people like OP that make me think we should be much more liberal with abortions.
OP, it's fine for you to think it was a bad thing for your parents to have done that, but perhaps you could also consider that your parents, like hundreds of millions of others, probably never for a second considered that it was something that would hurt you.
If you want to get your foreskin restored, do it. But don't hate your parents.
suck lots of uncut cock and you'll be fine
[quote] What the fuck were they thinking?
Mom: "Dear, I went through 18 hours of labor to spawn this unfortunate-looking parasite.
Dad: "Would you feel better if we slit off a piece of his dick?"
Mom: "A little bit."
"it's my mothers fault I can't cum" is really stretching it.
Your parents were doing what they thought was best. Most of the guys I went to school with were cut, they felt sorry for the ones who weren't. Now it's the other way around. A lot of circumcised guys express concern to my brother, who is a doctor, about not circumcising their sons because they thought it was dirty. They just wanted to do the right thing by their sons, they weren't trying to harm them. When my brother explained that circumcision is no longer necessary and there's nothing "dirty" about being uncut most were fine with it.
No one chops off their kids foreskin for shits and giggles, your parents thought they were doing the right thing. Go get professional help, blaming your parents for your inability to cum is insanity.
I wish mine had. No explanation why it wasn't done. Plus, both my parents were reluctant to the extreme to discuss anything related to sex. My father's "big talk" with me when I was about 13/14 consisted of literally 5 words... "Don't get anyone in trouble".
Their embarrassment, lack of skills, whatever...lead to no one ever explaining to me the whole process of retracting the foreskin. Eventually, it wouldn't. By the time I realized this was an issue I also knew there was no way in hell to discuss it with them. Eventually, in my adult years I went to a physician to see what could be done. But, I had no insurance and could not afford it.( The procedure as an adult was about $4,000). Then, when I did have insurance they refused to cover it, saying it was cosmetic.
Now, I am at the point the idea of the procedure scares me because I have been told how much more is involved because of the inability to retract. They can't guarantee that I won't end up mangled to some degree... which could effect not just ejaculation but, urination. So, choice is living as is or is or face possibly worse.
Thanks, Ma & Pa.
Circumcision is not OPs problem. He's an emotional mess dwelling on something he knows can't be changed. Typical case of getting "Mileage Out of Being Miserable."
It's a miracle that cultures which circumcise male children haven't disappeared.
Considering the devastating impact it has on self-esteem and sexual pleasure - it's a miracle they're still breeding.
OP, you don't seem to have enough activity to keep yourself occupied. I suggest you quit staring in your underpants and take up golf. The exercise will do you good and you'll be with other empty headed souls swinging at balls.
R36. You are rather rare that you still cannot retract your foreskin as an adult. Most people do not have this inability. Foreskin naturally retracts over time as a child, and by a young age, there is no problem. And that's why there is no reason to circumcise the foreskin. It's not extra skin; the foreskin is functioning skin that slides back and forth in which hygiene is not a problem and sexual pleasure is enhanced.
However, for those rare cases who still can't retract as a grown man, there is a prescription cream called betamethasome that helps to stretch the skin. Don't cut. There are alternatives to explore for the rare cases like you.