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I need some advice on this guy I'm dating

I've been dating a guy 16 years older than me. On paper, he's great - distinguished, great body, cooks me excellent dinners, has a great job, lots of money, good conversationalist, traveled, very good sex (not great because his beard leaves my face shredded), kind, flies to visit me when I'm on business trips, etc. However, after 4 months of dating and spending time together, he's not given me a single compliment or acknowledgement of any feelings on his side. He says he likes spending time with me - that's it. I'm falling in love with this guy and I know he's not seeing anyone else, but I don't know if I can deal with emotional distance. I'm 40 and he's 56. What do you think? Am I being used for sex? Do you think it will go anywhere?

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