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How many gays here in LTRs have absolutely NO desire to get married?

I am very, very happy for my friends who want to be married. Congratulations. This is the right thing. But I do not want this for me. I have no desire to get married to my partner. Our lives are too damned complicated and there are too many issues. We've spoken about this when we first go together. But lately, I feel the like pressure to OMG GET MARRIED has been amped up beyond belief. Now we're fighting over it. I think we're about to separate over the issue. Ironically marriage may be the issue that finally cuts the chord. I'm a little bit angry that people assume that every gay wants this— just because it's available to some. Please don't go around asking all your partnered friends "When" they're getting married. Please don't lump us all together.

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