My definition of a loser is someone who rides on the coat tails of others efforts and hard work.
Kind of like the closet cases who come here and proclaim they detest the word gay, yet here they are, on a gay site, created by and for gay people all the while enjoying the freedom to suck dick without getting their heads bashed in because of the work done by people who don't mind being labeled gay.
A loser is someone who is mean, dishonest, a cheat, vain, selfish, narcisstic, insensitive and un-kind.
With hard work and time, anyone can get a decent job, a nice house, a nice car, many friends, and have success. So, I don't judge success on material things. Those come and go and are not important in the end.
Treating people with kindness, respect and honesty is the most important thing to do in this World. I've met many financially successful people in this World, and they are dead on the inside. At the same time, I've met many people who struggle financially, and they are the happiest people that I know.
A person who thinks Helen Lawson threads are funny.
Living with your parents past the age of 22.
r2 reeks of loser. Bitter nasty loser.
A Jesus Freak
A loser is someone who hasn't been able to get anything they want out of life.
It may be because of factors outside of their control, such as a low IQ, or maybe they've just wasted their lives and potential.
Anyone who disagrees with me.
Someone lacking passion and who was therfore never motivated to take a risk. So, while it may not make sense to most people, in my opinion, a loser is someone who has never really lost or failed because they could never be bothered to even try.
Someone who mouths the talking points of the day and considers him or her self oh so clever for not deviating from the hive-mind.
It's someone who believes meaningless insults like "loser" are meaningful.
Someone whose existence depends on feeling superior to others.
R7 = lazy, fucking cunt.
Strike too close to home?
Yep, r2/r17 is definitely bitter.
Gay men who claim to fuck str8 men are losers. why the need to live this down low lifestyle if you are an out and proud gay man? I have no respect for gay men who are obsessed with fucking str8 married men. The threads here are this subject are tedious.
News flash: 'Str8 men' who fuck gay men ARE NOT STRAIGHT! I guess I am one of the few gay men who does not believe gay men can be bisexual.
Prissy types like r19 who deeply resent their betters.
Loser: R20 AKA closet case on the down low.
R5 = Neely O'Hara, still blaming her career woes on everyone but herself.
Somebody who thinks they are better than everyone else because they prospered due to their upper middle class advantage.
Someone who, when they don't achieve what they want, becomes arrogant to hide and supress their low self esteem, basically someone who can't accept failure with dignity and becomes a bitter jerk because of it.
Someone who tries hard and fails but still remains a good person, is not a loser. They fail, like we all do, but they don't lose their dignity and don't take out their bitterness over their failures on other people.
Tamerlan Tsarnaev is a good example of a loser. He wanted glory and respect and for people to stroke his ego by competing in the Olympics, but when he couldn't make that work and got stuck in an ordinary life without glory, jobless, had a baby, supported by his wife, he took out his bitterness and his self hate and lack of glory on other people instead.
r21 does sound like an upset priss.
The guy who keeps posting threads about Heath Ledger's suicide.
Avoid the impoverished puny putz who defines people so simply.
Picture the person pronouncing the judgment: you can see a soul equivalent to the aesthetic value of strip lighting.
R14 is right. Anyone who thinks "loser" is a kind of person is the real loser, because we are all pretty much the same underneath. But the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune treat us all differently. Someone who dies of cancer at age 15 is a "loser" by any definition, but it would be ridiculous and cruel to call someone that.
On the other hand, someone who was elected president twice but still refuses to act like he's in charge of Wall St. and the Pentagon, and still kisses ass to rich families (Kennedys, Pritzkers) like he's a fucking doorman....well, one wonders what other appellation one could have for such a person.
Barack Obama is hardy a loser, R32. There are many, many words to describe him, such as republican, two-faced liar (oh wait, that's redundant), a politician, and many others that we don't use in polite company.
Anyone with a roommate after the age of 30.
Anyone who lives in Kansas City.
Someone who has no initiative and therefore does nothing -- and then whines loudly and incessantly about 'having no one,' 'going nowhere,' etc. -- or worse, sits on the sidelines and criticizes or bitches about people who are out there trying to make something of themselves.
Oh, and Jodi Arias = loser.
[quote] Anyone with a roommate after the age of 30.
People who put on airs but have nothing to show for their OWN efforts. People who speak of "gentile poverty" and name drop and who try to impress by their cultured background, experiences or breeding but who have no money because they are lazy.
People who spell loser as looser.
aka 90% of internet posters. You know who you are...
Money means everything to R35 and R37. Why? Because they are retarded children of psychopathic parents who botched their toilet training.
90% of female posters. The O key sticks because they overuse it for online sex.
I'd just call 'em Republicans, r40. But yeah, essentially the same thing.
r41, the Heath Ledger troll, and the dude in here who thinks men who sleep with closet cases are somebody's "betters." Also, anyone prissy enough to use the term "betters."
Don't forget the Daley family. They wouldn't give Obama the time of day until he proved he was one of them by getting his primary opponent thrown off the ballot. Since then he's had a brainless corrupt investment banker William Daley, proved incompetent in the 2000 election brouhaha, in the seat of power, apparently so Obama can wipe his investment banking ass.
According to this thread, I would guess many people are losers in one aspect or another, either socially, professionally, ethically, personally. I don't know anyone who is a loser in every respect.
One year we can become a "loser" and the next a "winner" and then back again.
Most people gauge this by material means. "Are you able to support yourself and your family?" "Are you in a decent career with possibility of advancement?" "Are you dating/married to someone hot?" "Are you social and popular?"
These are all fleeting things. They can come or go as quickly as the wind. Determination is the only measure that really counts. One's ability to pick themselves back up eventually is the key.
PPSM! 'nuff said!
Men who wear squared-toed shoes for business.
A loser is someone that would visit the DL pages.
so r47, it's determined by whether you chose to (or are able to) conform to what your culture/society has arbitrarily determined to be proper?
Welcome to the club, R51.
And it's who, not that.
Anyone into reality tv or religion.
6 nominations, no wins
it is the opposite of "tighter"
I agree, R49.
He has a mean streak, which he indulges & then boasts about it, as if that were some kind of accomplishment, like tutoring kids to win spelling bees.
He says that he enjoys pissing people off, as if that were something to be gratified by, like giving cancer patient rides to treatment.
He gloats about breaking rules, as if that were something to be proud of, like fighting city hall to keep community centers open & helping kids avoid gangs.
He seems to do nothing for anyone other than himself & is a useless member of society, i.e.: LOSER.
r57, that all sounds like an insecure person trying to appear otherwise. I just think "loser" is a meaninless insult.
Arrogance; lack of empathy; cruelty; selfishness; narcissism; prejudicial; bigoted; materialistic
R60 who takes her life skills from childhood rhymes.
Somebody like Lindsay Lohan who had a shot at being something big but pissed it away... how many people would've killed to be her circa Mean Girls.
Someone who has always owned a pair of shoes who claims to be a victim..
Someone who doesn't know the difference between "loser" and "looser."