I'm eavesdropping on a conversation between her and my mom, and hearing bits and pieces. She's a fundie with eight kids who doesn't believe in birth control, so it would make sense. Problem is she and her deadbeat always unemployed husband can't afford even one. They're on EBT and medicaid as it is.
Fundies use birth control.
R1 - actually, a lot of them do not.
Christ, R1, haven't you ever heard of the Duggars? Idiot.
This is the one where Mr. Roper overhears Janet talking to Mrs. Roper and mistakenly thinks Helen is pregnant.
The bigger issue, OP, is why you, your sister and your mom are all home together on a weekday morning.
Get a life, loser.
Is she a Fundie who is against "government interference" or whatever those Right Wingnut Teabag religious freaks call it? Yet she gladly accepts Medicaid, EBT and other 'freebies"?
A close friend's neighbor is one of these assholes, he makes $65,000 a year working off the books, is getting Medicaid, foods stamps and his "Obama phone", he hates Democrats and Liberals, yet gladly takes all the government has to offer. He has a co-op in Manhattan, a house upstate NY and another house in Florida!
Talk about welfare fraud! He is not the only person getting away with this.
This is now going on because getting Medicaid is now longer based on assests, it's now based solely on income. The government has no way of figuring out what kind of income you really have if you are working off the books. Most of these cheats simple get a signed fake note from their 'boss' starting they make the amount alloted for Medicaid etc.
I remember when an elderly uncle was being supported by my parents, aunts and uncles because, even though he was poor, he was not eligible for any sort of subsidies, yet people like your sister are allowed to keep pumping out babies as their welfare checks get larger with each passing year and people like my uncle, who worked his whole life, weren't allowed even food stamps.
There truly needs to be a limit re how babies poor women can have before the freebies stop!
I confronted my mom at lunch about the conversation I overheard. I told that I know that my sister is pregnant yet again. My tone was kinda critical, and she scolded me for being so judgmental and hypocritical, reminding me how I warned my family against judging others when I came outta the closet. That's fair. She then went on to say how she thinks my sister is an angel sent down god to have babies for the earth.
My Mom got pregnant last year by accident, right after she turned 50. This is her second marriage and her husband is younger and never had kids, so she kept the kid. The baby was born perfectly fine and healthy. He's a cute little bugger. My Mom and her husband do very well financially, I'm not sure how you sister is going to handle it.
Plug it up! Plug it up! Plug it up!
Abort! Abort! Abort! Bring me... a knitting needle!
They have absolutely no money. Her husband's unemployment is about to run out my mid-summer. They're essentially living on public assistance. They can't even afford to buy the kids clothes, so my mom usually picks up the tab. My oldest niece needed a new pair of shoes for her 8th grade commencement/graduation last fall, and they couldn't afford it, so my mom sent them money. Mom also had to co-sign on the house they bought two years ago cuz of their credit issues. Even when my brother in law was working, he wasn't bringing home much. From my sister's point of view, another child is meant to be and god doesn't give us more hardship than we can handle.
Graduation/commencement in the fall?
My sister got pregnant at 45 and didn't want to be a mother again. So she had an abortion. Then her only son committed suicide. Now she has no children, no grandchildren.
R11, one of the joys of being an adult is that hall monitors like you have no power.
r19, I meant spring.
[quote]My sister got pregnant at 45 and didn't want to be a mother again. So she had an abortion. Then her only son committed suicide. Now she has no children, no grandchildren.
How does any of that change the fact that she made an informed decision? Would it have been less boo hoo for you if she'd died or suffered serious health issues for the rest of her life due to motherhood at a late age?
Seriously, what is your point, r20? Are you some fundie freak who thinks god made your nephew commit suicide to punish your sister for having a an abortion? Do you think your sister should have had a baby she wasn't interested in parenting, just to have a "spare" kid around? Or what?
R24 you need to up your meds. How in the world did you draw that conclusion from R20's post?
I didn't draw any definitive conclusion from r20's post, r 24. That's why I *asked* what his point was.
R26 - actually if you wanted to know you would have stopped after the first question. The follow on questions were nothing but rude conjecture on your part designed to stir shit. If that is how you ask questions in real life, and I am oh so sure it isn't, you must spend a lot of time alone.
How do you know I'm a male? Anyway...
I was just reporting. Her son had been a handful all his life, so she didn't "want to go through that again". I don't even know if it was that much about her age.
I really don't think she ever really wanted to be a mother. She and her husband divorced while the kid was still a baby, and she moved to the other coast to be with a guy in the U.S. Navy. Looking back, I wonder if the boy would have been better off if she'd just given him up for adoption. If she had felt that that was an option...
I hope the OPs sister and husband are prepared to look after his mother in her old age, because it sounds like they're spending her retirement funds now.