Seriously I'd like to know?
Some gay men are so self-centered, they float through life and expect the entire world to revolve around them.
Blame their mothers
Thank God there are no self-centered straight people!
Some gay men are so self-centered because they learned it from self-centered straight people who do it so well because they aren't as self-loathing as some gay folks.
That's equality babe.
Some gay men are selfless.
Go find them, OP. Go find the well rounded people.
HINT: They won't be at the bar at 2 am, or the club, or at Hollister.
[quote] They won't be at the bar at 2 am, or the club, or at Hollister.
There's no way to stop it! You can't stop it, even if you try.
Or Datalounge, R5.
Trust me, I am surrounded all the time by self centered people of all ilks. It seems everyone is self centered these days. But to the extent that gays tend towards this, it might be because they are not generally forced by circumstances to think of others; spouse, children, grandchildren, etc.
Huh, OP? I was thinking about my own problems just then. Could you repeat what you said?
R10 has a great point.
When a gay man is so self-centered, they tend to treat others so shitty.
Probably, OP, for the same reasons some straight people are self-centered.
R10 wants to head back to all the b.s. floating around in the "why are gay men self-absorbed" and "why are so many gay men single" threads. The bullshit meter exploded on those threads and R10 is a homophobe who wants to go back there because he enjoys wallowing in shit.