This is going to sound crude, but...
Sex for me is getting my hole slammed in by a total uber top who calls me names, chokes me, pulls my hair, spits in my mouth then cums in my ass or on my face. Gets up with his cock still dripping, puts on his jeans, his shirt and then leaves. Then I don't hear from again until 3 am the next night or 3 am a month later with a simple text that reads 'douche your hole, I'm coming over'.
[quote]'douche your hole, I'm coming over'
A little sweet talking goes a long, long way.
To me, sex is a method of transmitting terminal disease.
It's interesting that no one (at least no one on DL) ever says their ultimate fantasy is to be the top in R11's little scenario. Subs are a dime a dozen.
R11, your fantasy sounds hot but you've missed a few points.
An alpha top won't bother to take off his clothes to use your hole. And fter he gushes a load in your ass, he'll pull out and piss all over you.
Same as #1. A slow, hot, wet, intense, sloppy 69.
r11 and r16, the question was about reality, not fantasy.
I want to see someone's face- not their taint. One of us has to have pair of ankles resting on the other's shoulders, with the other pumping.
Me, my partner, his ass.
My preferences are very much like the referenced porn. If a session doesn't end in somebody getting fucked, it can be still be very hot and enjoyable, but somewhere deep inside me, I'm mildly disappointed.
I agree with r24 (except he's getting fucked, not me). Actually I wonder how many people actually disagree.
Some of you all have a conflicting agenda, like you think it's heteronormative to have anal as the end goal. Or else you're squeamish about ass like you're still 14 years old.
But for people who don't have some hang-up like that about anal, I suspect that most or nearly all see it as the final destination when getting it on.
I prefer Oral because you can tell what's happening. Anal you don't know if he's enjoying it or faking it.