Gay men who are only friends with straight women and lesbians.
To me, it's a red flag. Seek the nearest exit.
I feel just the opposite, OP. To me, a gay man with only gay male friends has probably slept with all of them. A gay man with all straight male friends has low self-esteem, and is trying too hard.
R1, they just don't like you because you have too many rules and generalize way, way too much.
A red flag for what, OP?
OP's description fits the "Ross Mathews" variety of gay man to a T, and if nothing else, that's a turn-OFF.
r1 I agree completely
Is there any doubt that r1 is effeminite?
I'm friends with straights and gays (not lesbos). Straight women are fine unless they try and cling to me. When that happens I'm done.
Boring rejoinder, R2/R6. Nobody likes hearing the truth when they're on the wrong end of it.
r1, you certainly were nailed with the truth in r6. Your r8 whine is proof of it.
Oh, yes, R1, so worldly wise, so deluded! You're still single, though.
Repeat after me..."Faghags". Never heard the term "Hagfags". Whats your problem with them? They probably bailed your ass out more than once.
Wasn't there another thread recently about the people known as "faghags" turning into conservatives? That was my personal experience. Some are not to be trusted.
R9 and R10 sound like fiftysomething 'g0y' cunts. I actually agree with R1 and R5... There's something ridiculous about a person who is only friends with other gay men (gay ghetto) or straight men (wishful thinking).
The problem with the fag/hag relationship (a lot of the times) is that the "hag" is typically friends with only the most stereotypical, nelly, neutered minstrel of a gay "man" and the friendship relies on how much attention her prissy pet lavishes on her.
I knew there was a name for me.
I do have guys as friends and I love them.Majority are girls
Why not I get the best if both worlds.Intelligent conversation and wit with the girls and great sex with a guy.
I like my straight women friends, I find women in general very entertaining. Especially women who are cool and eschew the conventional. They are best.
Nothing strange at all R13. That covers most territory. I said I was friends with gay men and straight men. Those are my relationships. I will have friendships with straight women as long as they don't get all dependent and emotional on me. Lebos are the only ones I won't bother with.
That isn't to say that normal gay men and women can't have healthy, valuable friendships. It's just the stereotypical, symbiotic ones (on both ends) who are gross.
I used to be this way, now in my middle years I hang out with more and more straight guys, some gays, but more and more just guys
What's wrong with lesbos?
They probably laugh at his lipstick and high heels, r20.
We prefer the term Cover Girl, now. It is 2013; give the girls who went to prom with you a little credit!
I'm an equal opportunity employer on the matter. When it comes to friends, I don't care if someone is male or female, or gay or straight. I just want some who's company is enjoyable.
I can understand be wearing of gay men with only straight women friends(many are homophobic)-- but what is wrong with having lesbian friends??
Gay men have less in common with lesbians than they do with straight women. At least Gay men/straight chicks love dick.
Because personality and interests are completely dictated by which kind of genitals you're into, right?
[quote]I can understand be wearing of gay men