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Tom Selleck: Still gay?

I just saw him on a promo during Survivor and realize he's back on TV.

Did his outing stick? Or is he straight again?

by Anonymousreply 114April 6, 2020 2:36 AM

Still wondering...

by Anonymousreply 1April 11, 2013 12:01 PM

R1 Why? Do you think if he is gay, you've got a shot? Get a life.

by Anonymousreply 2April 11, 2013 12:22 PM

Yes, he always pinged for me too. Despite the macho exterior, there is always SOMETHING that just screams family. The rumors about him are always interesting.

by Anonymousreply 3May 10, 2013 8:37 PM

Beware, like TC, he sues.

by Anonymousreply 4May 10, 2013 8:43 PM

Just a little?

by Anonymousreply 5May 10, 2013 8:43 PM

Total str8 arrow! Always has been, always will be! Rowwwr!

The ladies love our MAGNUM, and he loves us back. Sorry, fellas!

by Anonymousreply 6May 10, 2013 8:44 PM

OP, you misinformed twonk, please don't besmearch the reputable legacy of OutWeek, you uninformed twerp.

The OutPost wheatpastings of yore were not the same as the magazine that revolutionized gay publishing.

OutWeek outed people who are/were gay and hypocrites. Selleck was "outed" by OutPost with no proof.

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by Anonymousreply 7May 10, 2013 8:46 PM

Are you in the industry, r6? Have you worked with him? Just curious.

by Anonymousreply 8May 10, 2013 9:02 PM

A number of us on DL have had sex with him. Everyone seems to have the same story: he's a bottom; he's kind and pleasant and warm; and he has no intention of ever coming out.

by Anonymousreply 9May 10, 2013 9:56 PM

"A number of us on DL have had sex with him. "

That number, outside the fiction aisle, being 0.

by Anonymousreply 10May 10, 2013 9:58 PM

Another wishful thinking troll. If they're good looking they have to be just a little gay! I heard a rumor about so it must be true!

by Anonymousreply 11May 11, 2013 6:12 AM

What was the promo for? Blue Bloods? I don't watch Survivor.

by Anonymousreply 12May 11, 2013 10:54 AM

It's been almost 20 years now, but I still remember him on his back with his hairy legs around my waist.

by Anonymousreply 13May 12, 2013 7:25 PM

The epitome of bi.

by Anonymousreply 14May 12, 2013 7:32 PM

I lived in Honolulu the whole time MPI was being filmed and not one squeek except that one thing which people thought was ridiculous. (Something about a naked tweaking twink in a jeep near Diamond Head.) Other than that, nothing. And Honolulu is a small town.

by Anonymousreply 15May 12, 2013 8:05 PM

Wasn't he married for awhile to some fairly unknown British woman? Not that that means he's straight but he kind of dropped off the radar. He was in a few movies after Magnum and I believe he's in the Jesse Stone movies if those are still going.

by Anonymousreply 16May 12, 2013 8:29 PM

but here on dl, r15, it has been said otherwise. Sigh. We'll probably never know.

by Anonymousreply 17May 15, 2013 6:26 AM

R14, this isn't the Chris Meloni thread.

by Anonymousreply 18May 15, 2013 6:31 AM

Me as a filling for a TS and CM sandwich with a helping of Sam Elliot.....sigh....

by Anonymousreply 19May 15, 2013 1:44 PM

I went to that archive and got this:

Arsenio squares off with Tom Selleck and Ted Danson. Can you say, "Three men and no baby'?

Is Ted Danson gay

by Anonymousreply 20May 15, 2013 2:21 PM

One of those people tragically stuck to a specific point and "look" in time, like Dave Barry who never shed his high school haircut, or Goldie Hawn who thinks she's still a zany Mary Quant gamine on Laugh-In, or Suzanne Somers who thinks she's still "Chrissy" and 23.

by Anonymousreply 21May 15, 2013 2:35 PM

r21, Tom's look in Blue Bloods and the Jesse Stone series is not a knock-off of Magnum. He is a big, masculine looking guy, so of course that look, or persona, will come through in his work.

by Anonymousreply 22May 15, 2013 10:13 PM

I saw a Magnum rerun last night. That show is so homo-erotic. It is all about TS running around in his short shorts, or too tight jeans. Let's face it, nobody wears their jeans that tight and that high up the waist. Maybe some gay guys did/do, however. Yeah, that show is all about him showing off his smile, and hairy chest!

by Anonymousreply 23May 17, 2013 11:15 AM

So,exactly just how did/does TS meet a guy, assuming he is family. It is not like he could walk into a bar or post an ad like MS. I am guessing they must be men he meets who share his interests, no?

by Anonymousreply 24May 21, 2013 9:16 PM

Dear R23, yes we did. We most certainly did.

by Anonymousreply 25May 21, 2013 9:33 PM

[quote]So,exactly just how did/does TS meet a guy, assuming he is family. It is not like he could walk into a bar or post an ad like MS. I am guessing they must be men he meets who share his interests, no?

They are almost always friends of friends. Friends who know his tastes and know guys who will be discreet, then he may see the same fellow several times, depending on the comfort level. He never pays for sex, so far as I know.

by Anonymousreply 26May 21, 2013 9:47 PM

It's the eye of the negro, it's the thrill of the whites rising up to the challenge of a rival and the last know survivor hunts for AIDS in the night and some words I don't know but I know, I'll survive here.

by Anonymousreply 27May 21, 2013 10:58 PM

"there is always SOMETHING that just screams family"

I dunno, but his voice is very peculiar, hardly masculine.

by Anonymousreply 28May 22, 2013 12:22 AM

He has got to be in the top 5 of the most handsome leading men on TV. The man was beyond gorgeous, and he still is. I hear he and his wife don't even live in the same house.

by Anonymousreply 29May 22, 2013 12:36 AM

He was really good in the Jesse Stone series. For some odd reason I find his closet not so offensive because he doesn't seem to do a personal PR trip. I hate the closet...and all that...but he seems....benign..

by Anonymousreply 30May 22, 2013 1:21 AM

I eat shit.

by Anonymousreply 31May 22, 2013 3:57 AM

Thank you, r26. Somehow, I can't imagine TS paying for sex of any kind. If he did that type of thing, word would surely get around.

What is his type, anyway?

by Anonymousreply 32May 22, 2013 2:22 PM

Many years ago, on the old alt.showbiz.gossip board, a regular who posted there and wasn't a troll insisted that Selleck was wanted in some Canadian province for soliciting sex from a male minor. He fled back to America but the warrant was still out on him.

by Anonymousreply 33May 22, 2013 2:38 PM

Clara,r33, I doubt it. The Jesse Stone films were shot in Canada, Nova Scotia I think. If he was wanted on some sort of warrant the authorities would be able to get him. Also, it seems hard to believe that twinks would be to his liking. Just a thought. He seems the type to like masculine, older males.

by Anonymousreply 34May 22, 2013 7:28 PM

r25,I never said I didn't like the look....heh, heh...;)

I watch the show on Cozi sometimes. My God, what did my mother think when I wanted to watch it back in the day. Talk about great shots of his butt. Mom probably liked it as much as I did. She surely knew she had a young gay on her hands!

by Anonymousreply 35May 24, 2013 4:33 AM

R23, we ALL dressed like that back in the day.

by Anonymousreply 36May 24, 2013 5:38 AM

He was SO hot in "Three Men and a Little Lady" with that penis haircut. There's a scene where a randy British woman is climbing all over him and he's trying to get away from her, and when he crawls out of a window to make his escape his ass is just sticking straight out. *Sigh*

by Anonymousreply 37May 24, 2013 5:50 AM

r37, it's all about his butt shots. Sigh.

by Anonymousreply 38May 24, 2013 5:58 PM

Can't a man be tall, dark, handsome and straight? Give it rest,girls.

by Anonymousreply 39May 25, 2013 2:54 AM

Nice try, R39. The gay rumors have been around for years. BTW, shove "girls" up your ass.

by Anonymousreply 40May 25, 2013 3:36 AM

Nah R40, it's the "girls" who promote such trash. Men don't. Trust me on that one.

by Anonymousreply 41May 25, 2013 3:42 AM

Wanna bet on that, r41?

by Anonymousreply 42June 2, 2013 4:58 AM

I've heard he's gay, closeted, and likes to sue like Tammy Cruise.

by Anonymousreply 43October 12, 2013 3:04 AM

another thread.

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by Anonymousreply 44October 12, 2013 3:19 AM

I hope Obamacare makes these AIDS infested homos take the test so we can find out the shit eaters from the norms.

by Anonymousreply 45October 12, 2013 6:58 PM

Hopefully, OP. Because even now, as a senior citizen, he could still get it.

by Anonymousreply 46October 12, 2013 7:24 PM

I "hear" r45 in the creepy monotone of Hattie Dorsett, Sybil's psycho mom.

"You tell tell and I'll fix it so you ain't got nothing to tell with."

by Anonymousreply 47October 12, 2013 7:31 PM

I'd love to bury my face in his bulge

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by Anonymousreply 48October 12, 2013 9:21 PM

I always had a thing for Tom Selleck. I remember parking my cute little butt in front of the TV every Thursday evening in the '80s to catch "Magnum, P.I."

I loved all of those Louis L'Amour TV westerns he made in the late '70s and '80s too. He was just an amazing looking man. Plus, he had that awesome Ferrari. What was not to like?

by Anonymousreply 49October 13, 2013 12:07 AM

Tom Selleck is gay and he's an annoyance. I've sometimes thought he belongs behind a bar serving drinks to bears and leather freaks occasionally swivveling his hips to old disco tunes. He's basically a has been, washed up, lying, old bitch wishing he had been even more of a slut than he was.

by Anonymousreply 50November 8, 2013 4:18 AM

used to hear about male hookers in the magnum days. now not so much. what the fuck?

by Anonymousreply 51November 8, 2013 11:03 AM

Really guys... what actual proof is there that Selleck is gay, beyond hearsay and rumors? I had a massive crush on him in the '70s when he was on The Rockford Files (as Lance White) and in the '80s on Magnum, P.I. - I would love it if he were gay. But really, what PROOF is there that he is? Has anyone on DL actually "squeezed the Charmin", so to speak?

by Anonymousreply 52November 19, 2013 3:54 AM

Oh, my god! I loved that man back in his Magnum days. I was in High School in the early '80s and would pop a boner every Thursday night when that show would come on. I dreamed of hopping into the passenger seat of that Ferrari, putting on a sweet ballad (like "Always Somewhere" by the Scorpions) and just riding up the coast highway with him. Then we would stop off at a secluded spot and just bump 'n' grind. He was sex on a fucking stick. He's still hot for his age. I'd still hit it.

by Anonymousreply 53November 19, 2013 3:59 AM

He's been happily married to a woman now for many, many years. Not all handsome men are gay.

by Anonymousreply 54November 19, 2013 4:09 AM

He married a dancer, from "CATS"!!!!!!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 55November 19, 2013 4:11 AM

R40, when you stop acting like a bunch of junior highschool girls----then we'll stop calling you girls.

by Anonymousreply 56November 19, 2013 4:13 AM

I always thought he was a sexy man. He was my ideal in my youth. Actually he still is. I met him back in the '80s (when Magnum was still on the air) and he was very cool. Nice dude. I had an even bigger mancrush on him after I met him. As sexy as he was on TV, he was sexier in person. Yum.

by Anonymousreply 57November 19, 2013 4:31 AM

Gay, or not, I would still madly suck his cock, balls and asshole!

by Anonymousreply 58November 19, 2013 4:33 AM

You guys are pathetic. You all try to remake every sexy actor or public figure in your own image. You're gay, so you assume all men (especially good looking and successful men) are homosexuals. Wrong! Travolta may or may not be gay. I have heard many stories. Maybe he is, maybe he isn't, but I would bet my life that Tom Selleck, Tom Cruise and Keanu Reeves are straight men. I don't know how you can think they are not straight.

You're just trying to remake them in your own image. Give it up. Not every man is obtainable to you. There is no concrete proof that any of them are gay - just hearsay and innuendo. There is a lot of proof to the contrary. All of them have dated hot women and all of them have been married at least once. Keanu hasn't been married, only because his fiancé and unborn child were killed in that horrible car accident. Give them a break - they're not homosexuals.

by Anonymousreply 59November 19, 2013 4:39 AM

R59, get the fuck outta here! go ahead and live in your own delusions. You have no chance with any of them, they ain't into your sex.

BTW, how much are you paid to write this drivel? I sure could use a job like that, just go to various forums and post such "tales"...

by Anonymousreply 60November 19, 2013 4:43 AM

Tom Selleck = Straight. Married to Jilly Mack. His second marriage. Dated many beautiful women and starlets prior to and between marriages. Documented and fact.

Tom Cruise = Staight. Married to Mimi Rogers, Nicole Kidman, Katie Holmes. Many children. Dated many of the world's most beautiful women prior to and between his marriages. Documented and FACT!

John Travolta = Possibly bi-sexual, but maybe straight. Married to Kelly Preston. Many Children. Dated many beautiful women prior to Kelly. Documented and FACT.

Keanu Reeves = Dated many of the worlds most beautiful women. Was engaged. She was pregnant. In auto accident that killed her and her unborn child. She was the love of his life. His was torn apart emotionally and may never fully recover from his loss. Documented and FACT.

You can have Kevin Spacey, Neil Patrick Harris, Elton John and George Michael. They are gay and admitted it. Leave the straight guys alone. Travolta may be bi-sexual or confused but I am giving him the benefit of the doudt.

by Anonymousreply 61November 19, 2013 4:56 AM

Wonderfully stated, R61. The gays desire to homo-ize every straight man in Hollywood is one of the most "ickiest" parts of DataLounge.

by Anonymousreply 62November 19, 2013 5:01 AM

I AM FUCKING SPEECHLESS!!!

by Anonymousreply 63November 19, 2013 5:04 AM

R61, LMAO!!!! Keep smoking the crack pipe :)

by Anonymousreply 64November 19, 2013 5:04 AM

As a former Hollywood caterer to the stars, I can tell R-61 some stories that would make her head spin about two of those people on her list of str8 men. I signed a confidentiality waiver but let's just say that things aren't always what they seem, Missy. Sometimes there are public wives and private husbands/lovers. You are quite delusional.

by Anonymousreply 65November 19, 2013 5:07 AM

R59 is spot on. You sad, catty, gin soaked little girls need a fucking hobby or three. Tom is straight, if by any chance he isn't, so what let him live his life as he sees fit.

by Anonymousreply 66November 19, 2013 5:08 AM

DataLounge Theorem #1: If you tell a lie often enough, it must be true.

by Anonymousreply 67November 19, 2013 5:09 AM

Great. Now even the minimum wage hired help like R65 "Caterer....to the STARS!!" is suddenly an expert.

by Anonymousreply 68November 19, 2013 5:11 AM

We won't believe he's gay until we see him in his earrings and caftan. Even then, we will be skeptical.

by Anonymousreply 69November 19, 2013 5:12 AM

R65, do you have any gossip about Keanu? you don't have to be specific, you can switch or change some details so you can't be identified.

I have met Keanu twice and he was very nice on both occasions. TRUTH.

by Anonymousreply 70November 19, 2013 5:14 AM

I think he's straight. He's been married to Jilly Mack for 30 years. No woman on Earth is going to beard for a gay man for 30 fucking years. A five-year bearding contract (like Tammy's) I can see, but a woman sticking with a gay man as his beard for 3-4 decades??? No way!

by Anonymousreply 71November 19, 2013 5:14 AM

R65 ladels out Mac and Cheese under the tent at Craft Services and suddenly he is A-List.

by Anonymousreply 72November 19, 2013 5:15 AM

River Phoenix was circumcized. I served him Sloppy Joes one day.

by Anonymousreply 73November 19, 2013 5:16 AM

"Catering To The Stars" sounds like a reality TV show ready to be pitched to someone in Hollywood.

by Anonymousreply 74November 19, 2013 5:18 AM

A friend of mine who grew up in Hawaii said it was common knowledge that Tom was gay. He lived in the gay bars. The locals didn't care and never made a fuss about it.

by Anonymousreply 75November 19, 2013 5:20 AM

It's just killing these DL guys that their sex symbols love the pussy. Too bad, boys. Guess you'll just have to make do with Nathan Lane, Paul Lynde, Charles Nelson Reilly, Quintin Crisp, Oscar Wilde, Richard Simmons, Little Richard and Truman Capote. We straight girls got all the sexy men like Cruise, Jackman, Reeves, Redford, Newman, Reynolds, Eastwood, Pitt, Ford and the likes. Sorry, truth hurts.

by Anonymousreply 76November 19, 2013 5:21 AM

Was this before or after you won the Lotto? R75

by Anonymousreply 77November 19, 2013 5:22 AM

We'll trade you Capote and Reilly for one Newman. Deal?

by Anonymousreply 78November 19, 2013 5:23 AM

Not gay at all. He is all man!

by Anonymousreply 79November 19, 2013 5:26 AM

R65 duh! please tell us something we DON'T know

by Anonymousreply 80November 19, 2013 5:28 AM

Don't know if he's gay, but he certainly likes getting fucked. Face-to-face, legs on his top's shoulders.

by Anonymousreply 81November 19, 2013 5:28 AM

I think he is hetero. He was so good looking that if he had been gay he prolly would've gotten the AIDS back in the 1981. He is still alive and most of those cute gay boys died from that terrible disease. He was so sexy all the boys would've been fucken him and he would've died if he was gay right?

by Anonymousreply 82November 19, 2013 5:29 AM

"Prolly"? "The AIDS"? "Fucken"?

Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear.

And no, he always insisted on condoms. He didn't want any venereal diseases, and that policy served him well over the years.

by Anonymousreply 83November 19, 2013 5:31 AM

Yes, idiot at R-82, all of us good looking gay men of the early '80s died from AIDS. Not one of us lived or came through it unscathed. I died in 1982 - I am a ghost --- BOO!!!!. Idiot fucking asshole. I am 56 years old. I was in my 20s when AIDS came around. I was good looking and loved sex. I never contracted HIV/AIDS and to this day I am HIV-negative - so fuck you and your generalizations right up your idiot ass.

by Anonymousreply 84November 19, 2013 5:37 AM

R83, That is a policy that has served me well all of my life. I have always insisted on condoms, even before AIDS was ever heard of. I am a top and in my early teens I contracted a couple of urinary tract infections from fucking ass bareback. The doctor who treated me told me to use condoms for buttsex and I did. I have been fucking for 36 years and have never had so much as the clap. I was pretty wild for a few years there and made it through with a clean bill of health. I have never had an STD in my life.

by Anonymousreply 85November 19, 2013 5:43 AM

R83, our very own trustworthy fly-on-the-wall delusional pervert

by Anonymousreply 86November 19, 2013 5:45 AM

It is hard for me to trust anyone who has never had an STD before in his life.

by Anonymousreply 87November 19, 2013 5:46 AM

Wow, in my teenage fantasies all those years ago, Selleck was always the top. Oh, well. If he's a bottom, I am willing to flip-flop. Damn. I could still pop that old man's coochie.

by Anonymousreply 88November 19, 2013 5:47 AM

It is hard for me to trust anyone who has never had an STD in his entire life. It ain't natural. It ain't fittin'. It just ain't fittin'.

by Anonymousreply 89November 19, 2013 5:47 AM

My '80s fantasy was to be tag-teamed on the beach by Tom Selleck from Magnum PI and Don Johnson from Miami Vice. One after the other, again and again and again. My hole would have been so sore, but oh so happy!

by Anonymousreply 90November 19, 2013 5:50 AM

R90 - My 80's fantasy was to be tied up and tag teamed by Mr. Furley and Mr. Roper on Jack Tripper's bed, while Jack masturbates into his tennis shoe as he watches. Janet, Mrs. Roper, Lana and Chrissy bring us Lattes afterward.

by Anonymousreply 91November 19, 2013 5:54 AM

Sorry to burst your bubble. The actress, Ms. Morgan Fairchild is a very close, personal friend of mine and she said Tom Selleck is all-man and the real deal. The says he fucks for hours and there's not a gay bone in his body. Straight all the way. "He loves pussy like a rat loves cheese". Morgan's exact words.

by Anonymousreply 92November 19, 2013 5:59 AM

Oh, wait dears! R92 here. I just remembered... I got my actors confused. She told me about Mark Harmon, not Tom Selleck. Carry on.

by Anonymousreply 93November 19, 2013 6:01 AM

Ok R92, who else did she give you insight on? any gossip of other actors or actresses?

by Anonymousreply 94November 19, 2013 6:02 AM

I am gay and I hope he is too. I've never had the best gaydar. Some gays say he is definitely gay - others say definitely not.

He's always gay and always a bottom in my fantasies!

by Anonymousreply 95November 20, 2013 1:34 AM

Get over it guys. He is not gay. He is not bi. He is straight. Any perceived homosexuality in Tom is wishful thinking on your part.

by Anonymousreply 96November 20, 2013 1:52 AM

Who the fuck is Tom Selleck? Must be some old timey mother fucker for elderlies.

by Anonymousreply 97November 20, 2013 2:38 AM

Oh Toms 100% Gay!

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by Anonymousreply 98February 21, 2015 3:22 AM

F&F, r98. Don't click on that link unless you like elderly gaping bloody assholes.

Sounds like a good name for a punk band, lol.

by Anonymousreply 99February 21, 2015 3:31 AM

It's been common knowledge for years that he's gay. Both he and TC had relationships with Mimi Rogers, and Cole Porter was married to Linda for years. Many gay men have happy long marriages to women - perhaps Jilly Mack, TS's wife, is gay too - ya think?

by Anonymousreply 100February 21, 2015 3:39 AM

He's a diehard Republican and NRA member. Gay? Doubtful.

by Anonymousreply 101February 22, 2015 6:59 PM

He's obviously not heterosexual.

If anyone reading this has been with him was he cut, or intact with a foreskin? Did he have sizemeat or was he average? Did he have any kinks at all? I'm guessing he's a bottom since I've heard most men are.

by Anonymousreply 102May 15, 2015 6:37 AM

Tom's a fat arsed "Nelly Queen". - Likes being in shows with (Blue Bloods) cute guys Used to (with some apprehension and a just - "checking it out" attitude) cruse the public showers at Alamoana Beach Park - HI. - That silly & stupid looking mustache.

by Anonymousreply 103June 26, 2015 6:52 AM

my family knows him, I've posted about it before. Tom is gay.

by Anonymousreply 104June 26, 2015 7:13 AM

He loved to present hole and crotch.

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by Anonymousreply 105June 26, 2015 7:24 AM

Hedoesthegay

by Anonymousreply 106October 22, 2015 8:15 PM

nice

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by Anonymousreply 107October 22, 2015 8:32 PM

Thanks r99!

by Anonymousreply 108October 22, 2015 8:40 PM

Mrs Selleck looks like she'd rather be driving a flat-bed truck to Home Depot in cargo pants than wearing that lemon get - up

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by Anonymousreply 109October 22, 2015 8:54 PM

I've heard and read that here too R9.

by Anonymousreply 110January 21, 2017 4:36 PM

R83 maybe he just did oral sex? I don't know anyone who was active during the 70s who used condoms for anal sex. But as R84 said a lot of gay and bisexual men who were out and active in the early and mid 80s did not contract HIV or die from AIDS, etc.

by Anonymousreply 111January 21, 2017 4:41 PM

Bump.

by Anonymousreply 112February 11, 2019 8:08 AM

I never thought he was attractive ever, he has aged badly, and he is a conservative somewhat unpleasant person from what Ive read here and there.

by Anonymousreply 113February 12, 2019 12:49 AM

R9 is his ass tight? In other threads people say how he is, or was a top for oral and anal sex. What does his cock look like, is he cut or not cut, thick or thin?

by Anonymousreply 114April 6, 2020 2:36 AM
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