Why do people make a big deal out of penis size?

Sucking a small cock is not fun.

OP=Princess Tinymeat

face and body are more important for me. Plus he can have a big dick & still be bad in bed.

I like the small ones and throw the big ones back.

What are you, a eunich? If you have to ask, you cannot begin to know or understand.

A big one feels SO INCREDIBLY good. A small one does not feel the same.

Guys with big dicks usually are just that: big dicks.

I thought just like you OP, until I had size-meat for the first time a few months ago.

Once you go big, you become a pig.

I hate huge ones (they kill my jaws and ass). I hate tiny ones too (not enough). Between five and seven inches is PERFECTION.

Small cocks on small guys are nice, you sort of expect it. Smallies on big guys are rather depressing.

R10 I love to fuck a big guy with a tiny cock.

If you are gay when it comes to cock size, it's safe to say that 5 is the new 7.

Anyone under 8-and-a-half-inches is wasting my fucking time. Smaller than eight and a half is laughably ugly and childish looking. Anyone who says bigger isn't better is lying.

R13 - agree. My minimum is 7.5x5. big head required.

I have never understood the obsession with dick size. I am a top so I could care less. When I meet a guy, I am far more interested in how he treats myself and others. I care more about what kind a man he is, not what's swinging between his legs. If he's a great guy and only has a five-incher, I'm cool with that. If he has a ten-incher, fine, but he's not using it on me. Note: I am pretty well-endowed (around 9") and I hate the way people want me only for my dick. It's like having a lot of money and people want to use you only for that and then toss you away. Having a huge dick isn't always a great thing.

Well, most of the whores who like big dicks do so out of neccessity at this point. I'm sure you've heard of the saying, "Throwing a hot dog down the Holland Tunnel?"

R15: call me?

r13, you have limited your sexual pool to about 3% of the population. If 10% are gay, of all the men around, only .003% would be truly compatible. Now, someone as discriminating as you might have other asinine preferences that eliminate even more potential sexual partners making your percentage of compatible mates even more ridiculously less than the .003%...

I guess what I'm saying is that either you are not getting laid. Or if by chance you are, you're not enjoying it per your preferences.

Calculations were made using this graph and the (rather high) estimate that 10% of men are actively seeking gay sex.

R13 is obviously just trying to get a rise out of people. In spite of what the internet would have you to believe these 8"+ monster cocks are actually pretty rare. Most people fail at estimating penis size.

Anyway, I never got what was so great about a big dick. They look cool but really they are no fan, who wants a sore jaw and to be choking?

Jimmy: One of us believes that size matters.

Jon: And four of them are LYING.

My preference: Six inches and circumcized. Yummy! Yummy! Yummy! Just thinking about it makes my mouth water...

I think women prefer larger penises over gay men. Women have more vaginal orgasms with bigger ones.

Of course gay men are crazy for big dicks, but we dont anatomically need it as much to be sexually satiated.

Size does matter asshole! That's a no-brainier.

Big dicks are nice to look at and fantasize about. But in reality, I can't take anything bigger than, say.. four or five inches. And five is pushing it.

I have a small mouth and I'm pretty tight, so a big dick just doesn't work in my mouth (as someone stated, your mouth gets tired and starts to hurt), and getting fucked by a big one isn't great either.

I have an aversion to pain, so smaller works better for me. It's a personal preference. I prefer to enjoy sex, not suffer from it.

WE care!

Girth is much more important than length. I need a thick cock inside me in order to have an orgasm.

R23, Not all women think the same. The men I know who are very large and/or thick realize that they're sexual options are limited vs smaller sized men.

I am so with [9]. Too big and too tiny is a disaster. I can work with 5-6' as long as it's girthy.

I think most ladies feel that way although they will not say it to their men.

[quote]Women have more vaginal orgasms with bigger ones.

No, they don't, you dope.

I prefer average myself.

The bigger the dick, the larger the asshole swinging it.

R19 Who's penises are measured? East Asians average 4 inches.

r30

Hey, r22, I'm six inches and circumcised! Wanna come over?

Who cares what straight women like?

Putting dick size over someone's overall attractiveness and personality is shallow and stupid. It's part of the reason why they hate us. Promiscuousness is not a good gay trait.

I like to pet and kiss the big ones like they're some kind of pet. Ever notice though, getting a big one rigid hard is very difficult? They get boned, but not steel hard. I love a steel hard pole where I can feel the veins and all.

r36 I hate YOU because you're a self - righteous judgmental prude.

I prefer medium to medium plus. The really big ones are unsexy to me as are the really small ones.

The most important thing is who it's attached to.

Straight men make the most out of other guys penis size. Everywhere I've been they've never not made a big deal out of it and gossiped about the size of it. In High School I was the fire hose. In the Army I was the snake.

OP, because that is quintessential in gay men's culture. Without penis, there goes half of gay culture, without vagina, goes the other half.

r41 makes a good point. All men are obsessed with penis.

[quote]It's not like it will feel better just because someone's penis is larger.

I take it you are not a bottom?

What are you talking about?

Question for really hung guys- When did you first realize your cock was bigger than other guys' and did you feel all proud and special with a manly secret?

Don't worry, OP. You'll meet a guy who's into small dicks. Just be patient.

A big cock is worth nothing if It can't get rock-hard.

It has been my experience that guys with bigger cocks are better people overall. They tend to be more confident, better looking and more intelligent. They are really the only people worth a shit. Any man with less than 9 inches is not worthy of being called a man. Anyone with less than 9 inches should just give up and never attempt to have sexual relations with anyone. Only huge ones can give someone pleasure. My hole has been worn out by thousands of fists and needs the biggest cock it can take. Small cocks are for losers.

Big dicks and erectile dysfunction go hand in hand. They don't get really hard and they have difficult time staying hard.

[quote]I like to pet and kiss the big ones like they're some kind of pet. Ever notice though, getting a big one rigid hard is very difficult? They get boned, but not steel hard.[/quote]

I too love to kiss, pet, and cradle a nice fat cock with a mushroom head, but I agree that the longer they are the harder it is for it to get hard. A lot of the time they just flop around and curve down. I prefer banana dicks that curve upward. If a man is between 6"-8" erect then I'm content.

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I guess that's why you're all bottoms! You're all obsessed with gargantuan cocks, but you only have small-average sized weenies, so you have no choice but to bend over and bite the pillow. You HAVE to be a bottom. Buffoons!

I like all sizes, but have found the guys with really big ones don't know what to do with them and are duds in bed, they think because they have a big cock they can lay there like a lump and you do all the work.

Speak for yourself, R30. There is such a thing as too big for me, but ones of a certain dimension (above average) can get me off almost right away.

In my youth I was kind of a slut. I had them of all sizes and shapes. The best lover I ever had was a man I spent 30 years with. He was the love of my life (he died three years ago) and gave me sensations like no other. He had about five inches at full-staff. It's not all about size. His took me to the moon and back many, many times. I wouldn't have traded it for any other. On the other hand, I had several massive ones back in the day. Those men tended to just lie there and make me do all the work for a half-hard salami. No thanks.

I hate huge ones. Most of them are ugly. I prefer cocks to be preportionate to the man they are attached to. I think average ones are much more attractive. I am always disappointed when a man unzips and out comes some oversized monster. It does nothing for me at all.

r33, the G-spot is four inches in. I don't care what ghetto-Scottish study has recently concockted. Facts are facts.

I'm with r46

I'm just above average and happy with my dick. But I have always wondered what's it was like to realize that one's cock is bigger than most other guy's.

8+ guys can you tell abouit your expeierneces finding out your cock was huge compared to others?

I thought 8+ inches was average. On Craigslist and Grindr ALL of the guys are 8+ inches. Who knew?

SHOW ME THE THICKNESS!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Science proves women like men with bigger penises."

We make such a big deal out of it, honey, because there are only four things that matter in a gay man's mind.

1. How big is his monstacock?

2. How hot looking is he?

3. How rich is he?

4. How big is his monstacock?

Sorry, boys. Put away your tiny toys, it's big dick all the way for this diva, Sugar!

R62 Your fucking shithole is probably the size of the fucking Holland tunnel. You have no choice but to go for a monstacock or a fucking fist. Your turds probably fall out of your ass. Your asshole is so huge that you probably shit Hummers, Jeeps and Cadillacs.

I actually refer guys with smaller dicks. I just find them sexy for some reason. I'm a top though, so...

R63 - what are Hummers, Jeeps and Cadillacs? Is that some sort of public transport?

“Our results support the hypothesis that female mate choice could have driven the evolution of larger penises in humans.”

Aw R55, that's sweet. Sorry your partner passed away.

I slept around a lot when I was young and preferred big dicks because I was all stretched out. Now that I'm older, monogamous, and not fucking every night, I too agree that average is just right. I like to give head. I like to do a good job at giving head. Average penises are more maneuverable and enjoyable to suck. Also, now that my life is not driven by sex (as much), an average penis fills me up quite nicely.

I agree the man matters more than the penis, but I really need to stay in the range of average. I met a guy I couldn't get my hand around. His was so small I could only get two fingers around. I knew it just wouldn't work and felt bad for small luck.

You COULD care less R15 ? or COULDN'T?

This thread is longer than the other "penis size" thread.

R69 (how appropriate)=thread size queen

The bigger the stretch, the brighter the stars.

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Pigs as in, good in bed, or pigs as in untidy slobs?

[quote]Anyone under 8-and-a-half-inches is wasting my fucking time.

[quote]My minimum is 7.5x5. big head required.

You must both never get laid then, given that only [italic][bold]2.5 percent[/bold][/italic] of the world's male population even has a penis size over [italic]6.9[/italic] inches erect.

There is such a thing as too small. Anthing less than four or five inches is not going to generate much pleasure.

I'm 7.75 and thick, and I'm not aware that I am anywhere near the top 2.5 percent in size. That charting is fucked, at least according to my "personal" research. Unless most gay men average larger.I'm average in my eyes.

Hmmmm... which is more likely to be fucked: an actual sourced article, or r77's "'personal' research"/anecdotal evidence?

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Huge cocks are great to look at, but painful to fuck.

I think straight guys worry about it way more than straight women care.

Why is it that many guys with tiny dicks are also overweight. Just asking

R76 is wrong. The prostate is near the opening of the rectum not way inside.

Vulgarity

This is not a proper discussion for a family board like DL. You should all be ashamed of yourselves.

R17 Best response lol

I think people are lying when they say bigger is better.

[quote]My minimum is 7.5x5

Who are you, the Queen of Sheba? Do they parade in front of you while you select the penis of your choice?

Big penis looks beautiful, when in muscular or sporty body, lovely to give a head, but not anus.

I prefer big cocks. I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

A huge cock is like a trophy wife for straights. It is just so sexy to look at and dream about, and to touch too. But actually living with it day to day, and having actual sex with it, is really not so fantastic.

Why ask why? Just dig in.

The biggest insult is finding a total top with a dick smaller than mine who expects me to be a total bottom for him. I'm a top, my dick is 8x5.5", and NO, it's not happening, asshole.

The whole "total" concept is so fucking boring, anyway, R92. Who would want to be with either one?

My priorities when I meet a guy:

1) facial handsomeness

2) body type

3) voice

4) coloring

5)ability to carry on a conversation.

Penis comes in somewhere below ability to kiss and how well he treats his inferiors.

Gerth.

If the penis works, I'm all for it, it's more about the guy

This thread is the reason straight people hate us. The criteria upon which we judge other men is pathetic. What's a big dick if a complete jackass, or someone with whom you have nothing in common, is attached to it? My partner has been keeping me satisfied with his 6 inch dick for years, but my love for him is a big part of it. Priorities ladies.

I expect it to be able to poke my prostate, that's it. So that's what - 14, 15 cm at minimum? Honestly, getting (and staying!) rock hard is more important to me. Who needs inches upon inches of semi-limp cock that can't hit the target? Girth is nice as well but more of an added bonus.

Just my preference.

"I think women prefer larger penises over gay men. "

Haven't been out much, eh?