How it feels to have a $300 extramarital sex romp with an A-list porn star
Well, I did it! Cross that off the bucket list. Details within.
Felt damn good. He was what I hoped for, or at least played the part convincingly: gorgeous on the outside, sexy/sweet on the inside. And yet there is that Shavian trope about one of life's great disappointments being the aftereffect of getting what you want. But commingled with the satisfaction of having indeed gotten it, and it was as good as or better than hoped for. The rentboy in question turned out to be very sensual/generous in bed... a terrific kisser, very warm and fun to be with. I came so hard it shot up across and behind my head/face, which hasn't happened in years.
I feel no desire to do it again. At least not now, hope that stays the case, I'm not poor but not rich. But it was fun, and hot, to burn $300 on an hour-plus of carnality just one time with the hottest beautiful young stud I've ever been with. Perfection to go, ordered out of a catalog. And yeah I still love my partner, it's complicated but we are still in love. What I did falls under a mutual don't-ask-don't-tell understanding.
Will you be reviewing him on daddysreviews.com?
I'll text him tomorrow and offer to, R2. He said his work/activity is "right sized" at the moment, not looking too often for new clients. He really liked me, offered a discount for future repeats. I guess that's common, from a sex worker's POV, you know, once they assess you as non-repulsive and a safe repeat. Given what they must encounter.
A-list porn star? Who was it?
Good for you, OP. I will say, though, that my partner and I usually share trade.
R4, don't wanna say. DL can turn into a shark tank when people are identified. Except to say he is NYC based and stopped doing porn fairly recently, and is still in phenomenal buff fitness-model shape as he was known for on camera. My hands couldn't stop enjoying him.
[quote]He really liked me,
[quote]offered a discount for future repeats.
He sounds nice.
[quote]once they assess you as non-repulsive
Is that how you usually describe yourself, sexually speaking?
R5, we've had group thingies a few times but my partner is in an asexual rut due to life/health stuff mostly beyond his/our control. So, this DADT understanding for a while. Hoping his rut is temporary but hard to predict. I'm definitely as horned up as when we first met; he is just not. At all.
Wow, OP, there's no place to go but downhill after what's likely to be the brightest and the most special moment of your life.
A-list? I'll be the judge of that. Which one is he?
[quote]And yet there is that Shavian trope about one of life's great disappointments being the aftereffect of getting what you want.
Why does the "Reply 3" post come after the "Reply 4" post?
OP, did you get fucked by Michael Lucas?
You've had "thingies"? Sounds hot.
R7, ha ha, no... I'm fairly good looking. But seeing it from a sex worker's POV. You charge a basic rate not knowing who/what you'll be expected to have sex with. It must be a pleasant turnout when your client is not bad at all looks-wise and has a good personality. Just my thoughts afterward, imagining his life. We really clicked, for what it was. He even gave me his nearly new bottle of lube as a souvenir because I liked the brand so much. And copious goodbye making out in the doorway. I just wasn't expecting that much expressive affection alongside the sex. Quite a treat.
[quote]my partner is in an asexual rut due to life/health stuff mostly beyond his/our control. So, this DADT understanding for a while.
Sorry to hear that, OP.
Good for you, taking the bull by the horns and enjoying yourself.
You go, girl!
R11, brush up on them there reading comprehension skills. I'm married. And yeah, I'm a big ol Mary here on Datalounge. Deal.
[quote]He even gave me his nearly new bottle of lube as a souvenir because I liked the brand so much.
What was the brand & what was it that you liked about it so much?
R16 nope... Z.A. not my type, way too musclebound and dumb. This guy is fit/buff and far sexier.
R17, nope, R.A. not my type either. This guy is very handsome both in face and body.
[quote]And yeah, I'm a big ol Mary here on Datalounge.
That's strange, because I was getting a very butch, 'straight acting' image of you in my mind's eye.
Did you bottom for him?
Ok gotta go for now. But, just saying, sometimes it can be worth just doing a thing one time when it's a thing you have fantasized about doing for years. "Done." It is a good feeling, on the whole.
Lube was Wet Platinum which somehow I never tried. Nice!
Wow, people are actually indulging the OP in this bilge? The DL is surely collapsing...
[quote]nope, R.A. not my type either
Nor, mine. I wouldn't know what the fuck to do with that much penis.
[quote]Ok gotta go for now.
You got us all excited and now you flounce off.
This thread's going straight into my watcher for future posts from, OP. God bless his cotton socks.
You got a somewhat used bottle of lube out of him? OMG, what a meaningful token of a deep connection. And to think it only cost you several hundred dollars!
Was it Arpad Miklos? Wilfried Knight? Roman Ragazzi?
You lost me at "that Shavian trope," OP. Maybe you should go read that thread about middlebrow writers.
Noodles + Marley's Ghost + an active imagination = OP!
Worth it. I'd pay $3,000 for a sex romp with a C-List actor. Anyone else?
I'm a C-list actor, r32.
If OP paid only $300, then it could not have been a porn star, much more an A-list porn star.
No, it was Josh Weston, R29.
This is how you do an Eccentric, Sensual Thread post.
Maybe R34, unlike OP, you do not qualify as "non-repulsive" so you get charged a premium.
[quote]he offered me a discount
In other words he overcharged you this time
Oh yeah it's a PROSTITUTE. If you won't name him it never happened.
Is he known for a huge cock and is the rest of him to scale? If yes, I can guess who it is.
"I'm definitely as horned up as when we first met; he is just not. At all."
What OP really meant to say is I'm desperately insecure and need constant validation. My old man isn't giving it to me, so fuck him, I'll get it on my own because I am so pathetic and weak.
You're proud of paying a prostitute?
Wow, glad your priorities are straight.
Puritans... So cute. Say "prostitute!" again some more, please. It tingles me dingles.
Definitely not an EST; come on, I'd have stacked increasing degrees of implausibility onto it if it were.
The rentboy is alive and then some. Beautiful man in his late 20s prime. Looks even better in person than his film work. He did porn scenes for at least 5-6 studios/websites a couple of years ago, then opted out.
OP at least give us the name of one of the films he has been in.
Tate Ryder is retiring really soon, and he hooks. And is really hot.
Wow, some people have no self respect or even concern for their health.
This has restored my faith in finding true love in this cold, cold world.
Honest question.... as I've been considering hiring a rentboy - are you concerned about diseases?
That's my worry - not so much hiv since rubbers will be used for anal, but I imagine oral would be condomless and syphilis, gonorrhea, and herpes can all be transmitted that way.
Any pnp involved?
r49 You pay your money, you take your chances.
R48, me too. I chose this guy because in addition to looks and personality he is more self-protective about HIV / std's. He was much sluttier on camera, very warm in person but a carefulness re: health. I think I know why. Also re: an earlier post, yeah, $300 was just for non-anal "sexy time". Top cost more, bottom even more. But I'll say he delivered; I really enjoyed being with him.
R46, site down, will look later.
Also, speaking of DADT, he was active US military when he started appearing in porn online. Had some funny stories about that.
I'd pay $300 for Paddy O'Brien, Tyler Torro, or Brandon from Sean Cody, but that's about it.
You can have the rest of them.
Years ago I hired a porn actor from the classifieds of the BAR in SF. He had been the statue in the movie Mannequin Man. I was about 31 at the time and was a little high at the time. He arrived..was perfectly muscled and cute with a Canadian accent..and I have never been so bored in my entire life. I couldn't get past the hooker angle for some reason. Maybe at 56 I could now but at the time I just couldn't get into it. So good for you OP. You seemed to have found the perfect person for your walk on the wild side.
I've never paid more than $20 for a prostitute.
[quote] Also, speaking of DADT, he was active US military when he started appearing in porn online. Had some funny stories about that.
I don't get all the nasty judgment and attitude about OP's fun night with the porn star. You'd think gay men, of all people, would be cool with it. It's OP's life, why shouldn't he do as he pleases?
Thanks R56. It's interesting to look at how other countries handle the "world's oldest profession.". Exchanging money for sex is legal in Germany, for example.
But what does this have to do with me, Kim Kardashian?
"I don't get all the nasty judgment and attitude about OP's fun night with the porn star."
It's not that he did it. It's that he's bragging about it as if he's won an Oscar.
R58 'Cause you're a whore, too, darlin.
Anyone know a sexy aggressive foot top in NYC? I want to hire one for my bf.
I feel sorry for your partner, OP. The way you're carrying on about some paid whore as if you're in love is disgusting. I hope your partner kicks your skanky ass to the curb.
R61, what is a "foot top"?
I just love the term "sex romp"
I wouldn't pay 2¢ for anyone, 'cause I can and have gotten REAL men and REAL porn stars.
Today's "A-list" porn star is tomorrows, AIDS infested corpse.
Foot Top is a guy who likes getting his feet serviced and likes to really work a guys face and cock over with his feet.
OP = the gay equivalent of Newt Gingrich.
This thread has PPSM written all over it.
I confess it R69!
[quote] Puritans... So cute.
Men who pay other men for sex: so gross!
[quote]I just love the term "sex romp"
Yes, it's good, isn't it?
OP, SO knows how to start a thread that will get a response.
He knew exactly what he was doing and could predict exactly what kind of messages he's get.
He's a professional DLer.
Another day a good old DataLounge: OP posts an
extremely believable and very happy story and a pack of venemous queens fall on it with their shrill attacks, not to mention that idiotically dreary "You're a whore, darlin'."
Meanwhile, OP, how about giving us a hint as to the identity of the loved one? Just a hint?
The OP is a TROLL, you idiots. Sometimes I think Dataloungers are the dumbest, most gullible people in the world. I mean, how can anyone with a functioning brain believe the OP's tale of the "A-list porn star (who he refuses to name; and who would classify as an "A-list porn star" anyway?)", the "hottest, beautiful young stud" who he "ordered out of a catalog?" And of course the exquisite porn star takes such a shine to the OP that he offers "a discount for future repeats" and "even gave me his nearly new bottle of lube as a souvenir because I liked the brand so much."
How can anybody believe this pathetic, obviously made-up shit?
Another day a good old DataLounge: OP posts an extremely believable and very happy story and a pack of venemous queens fall on it with their shrill attacks, not to mention that idiotically dreary "You're a whore, darlin'"
"Extremely believeable?" HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHA!
You're a retard, darlin'.
I'm in publishing, and this threat should be a book!
I've also had a few pops from a bottle of Rye.
Congrats on fulfilling your fantasy successfully, OP.
I did the same with a handsome "masseur" whom I'd met before for a legit massage and had a sexual crush on. He used a condom for topping, but we did suck each other.
He claimed to be STD-free, but now I'm more aware of herpes, and MDR syphilis and gonorrhea. I would never do it again. It was wonderful, but was also a bucket list situation. Fortunately, my doctor (who is a bit of a slut) tested me for every STD and the results were negative. It was VERY high-risk activity for non-HIV STD's.
I'm jealous of OP.
Three hundred would get you the fat dwarf in "Leprecum II."
Such an Edenic, Succulent Tale.
Prostitute? From reading DL, it has been pretty much established that ALL New York men are gorgeous, fit, and desirable. Why would anyone need a prostitute?
Four months later I just remembered this thread I started. Not sure it was worth the money, looking back. A fun/hot time, though.
[quote]He really liked me
Hunty, that's his job.
You paid for Zeb Atlas' tiny penis?
Oh, I know. But he was convincing, warm and friendly enough to make it seem like he actually enjoyed the experience.
The thing I liked about it was the ease and convenience. No chasing, no failing: just ordering up this young guy with a truly amazing gym-honed body, as easy as ordering a meal from Seamless.com.
But yeah, it's a transaction that wouldn't be happening without the money on the client's end of it.
(my reply at R87 was to R85)
And no, it was not Zeb Atlas. It was someone younger and blond who did porn online for lots of studios about 3 years ago.