Magic Johnson's Son Goes Public With BF, Parents So Proud
Magic Johnson's Son Goes Public With BF, Parents So Proud
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Magic Johnson's 20-year-old son hit the Sunset Strip, hand in hand with his boyfriend ... and his parents couldn't be happier for their kid.
Earvin Johnson III -- aka EJ -- is one of Magic's 3 kids. The Lakers legend tells TMZ, "Cookie and I love EJ and support him in every way." Magic goes on, "We're very proud of him."
The feeling is mutual ... 'cause EJ told us he's been "hoping and praying" for his dad's team, the Los Angeles Dodgers, ever since Magic and his business partners took over the franchise.
He's also a huge Lakers fan ... obviously.
EJ -- who's a student at NYU -- has a close relationship with his parents. Back in August, Magic tweeted, "Thx to my son EJ for hosting me at NYU. Look forward to taking him to dinner tonight in the city."
[quote] bitch is dignified and polite.
That's the first and lasting impression I got as well. Worst thing I can say is he should ditch this boyfriend and find one that doesn't smoke.
I wish EJ's father were as brave and forthcoming.
Why not r9? He seems like a very nice, polite level-headed human being. The coat can be removed, the sanity and well-being is permanent.
Magic is a homo.
EJ needs to lay off his mom's namesakes.
She is FIERCE!
Magic and his wife saw this one coming out of the womb.
I went to NYU and in a couple of years the kid will calm down. The purse and fur, oh my.
She's like a baby André Leon Talley.
Who cares. He could have turned out like Cameron Douglas or, worse, Kim Kardashian.
So it's genetic after all.
Help me out DL. Do any black gay celebrities have black boyfriends?
I haven't seen any that do. On the other hand I haven't seen any white gay celebrities with black boyfriends.
I guess being a double minority in a majority culture messes with your mind.
Black gay guys seem to be on the extreme end of the spectrum. Either they're incredibly butch or extra femme. I've always lamented that Noah's Ark wasn't more successful, since it showed black gay guys who were just regular guys, not extra queeny or extra bush. Just undetectable straight-acting guys who just happened to be gay.
"Who cares. He could have turned out like Cameron Douglas or, worse, Kim Kardashian."
Or Redmond O'Neal.
For some reason the people here love to attack other gays, even ones who haven't done anything wrong.
R23 they were uber queens...totally swishy. What show did you watch?
Self-hating snow queen all puffed up because she has a skanky river rat white guy on her arm.
Miss Otis regrets
Uhm, is that Nell Carter?
Um, R22, Anderson Cooper?
The first thing that turned me off was the bf smoking. Just, Ewwwww!
[quote]guys who were just regular guys, not extra queeny or extra bush.
[quote]Black gay guys seem to be on the extreme end of the spectrum.
Wow, yet another racist generalization about a minority subset.
I know many openly gay black guys who are neither ultra masculine nor swishy feminine. Some doctors, lawyers, Ivy League scholars, a nurse, two accountants, three human resources professionals, 3 modern dancers, 4 Broadway performers, a plumber, a few rentboy/strippers and two UPS guys come to mind.
I don't know where r23 is hanging out - probably among theatric gay bar/ghetto/parade circuit revelers (which I love but realize they're not the only gay thing in town). If he sampled all the gay men throughout all the universities and different professions of America and the world he'd realize they come in all sizes, mannerisms and colors (no pun intended).
My esteem for Magic and Cookie just went way up. That's good parenting.
Why do fucktards here keep posting this word? What about a fat man presenting himself in an embarrassing way is "fierce"?
Like father like daughter.
Irony deficiency. ^
R38 Embarrassing for who? EJ doesnt seem embarrassed. His parents dont seem embarrassed.
[quote]EJ doesnt seem embarrassed. His parents dont seem embarrassed.
Go to Walmart and look at all the fat women squeezed into spandex with bellies hanging out. They're not embarrassed either, but it doesn't mean it's not embarrassing. Magic obviously loves his son, as he should. But it doesn't change what we saw in OP's post.
R42 While the description of your visit to Walmart is is interesting*, you really didn't answer the question. Do you want to try again?
Why is it that so many black men either hit either a 1 or a 10 on the effeminmeter with so few stops around 5?
Another EJ, Elton John, isn't embarrassed about his outrageous 70's costumes. David Bowie isn't embarrassed about his androgynous get-up from the same era. Interestingly, Bowie was less masculine than Freddie Mercury, and yet, Mercury was gay, Bowie not.
Funny how that works. I guess if I were still living in the village where I was born, I'd also be a self-loathing gay person criticizing men I felt were pushing boundaries inappropriately, but I got out of there, thank God, and really don't give a shit if other men want to do whatever they want to do.
R41, it's embarrassing for r38, the perception of whose life relies so heavily on the behavior and attire of a 20-year old son of a celebrity.
You silly goose!
I can honestly say that is the first time in my life I've ever heard a flaming queen discuss team sports.
I think this is great. Magic and Cookie, like Warren Beatty are good representative of "Hollywood" liberals who do as they preach. They love and support their children.
Can we say the same of the so-called "family values" crowd?
We need more people like EJ in the world. The ones who thumb their nose at social convention.
r42 you have more issues than Vogue magazine.
The Walmart example was excellent. DL has no problem ripping people to shreds over clothing choice and appearance. But when it's a CERTAIN ridiculous clothing choice, then suddenly we're supposed to pretend it's not embarrassing and stupid.
The agenda here is transparent and pathetic.
Warren Beatty has practically disowned his "daughter." It's Annette who has been supportive.
Oh, okay, so you're overweight, R49. We get it.
Looks like we have found a successor for Andre Leon Talley!
[quote]The Walmart example was excellent.
No, it wasn't. It was an obvious attempt for the poster to avoid answering a question and backing up an earlier claim. And it failed. The only people who are embarrassed are you and R42, and you're embarrassed about yourselves.
The prissy pushers are left with nothing but resentful projection about others. Of course, smearing and trashing without basis is most of what they do. Notice that the point in r49 was carefully avoided.
[quote] I think this is great. Magic and Cookie, like Warren Beatty are good representative of "Hollywood" liberals who do as they preach.
Warren Beatty, as befits a "traditional" liberal, is not pro-choice.
Could it get any more obvious? - that the sole purpose of datalounge has become reinforcing the idea that gay males = women. Day after day, post after post, almost everything here is a reference to it.
Could someone explain where the energy and motivation comes from?
r55 people of the same political persuasion aren't carbon copies of each other. We all differ on certain issues. There are plenty of Democrats in office who are anti-choice, but that is their personal value and many of them don't push it as a political agenda, unlike our Republican colleagues.
Beatty has his personal beliefs and quite frankly, they are no more than that as he has no political power to enact laws, nor is he a vocal anti-choicer who protest outside the Supreme Court with images of dead babies.
Is this what happens when you name-drop another celebrity in your post? A potential derailing of a thread?
R56 I wish I could explain it. I think I know why, but Im not going to come right out and say it. Besides, I think many of us know why. The good news is this: If the sole purpose of datalounge has become reinforcing the idea that gay males = women, that mission is failing. Look at the push back on this thread, the push back on the gaybro thread. The antiquated idea that gay males=women is dying off and being replaced with a younger and less dogmatic way of thinking. I for one am pleased.
No one has ever said that gay men = women. It's about inclusion. It's about accepting all stripes within the same minority group.
I don't understand the hatred for drag queens or men who lean more towards the Andre Talley and EJ spectrum. These men are definitely more colorful, and I think that it's fantastic. They put the color in a very pale world.
I hope you're right r58, but posts like r41, r46, r47, r51, r53 turn every thread rancid.
I know they're probably the same 2 people, but it's relentless and annoying.
R5, the poor skinny white kid won't be poor for long if he keeps dating magic's son.
[quote]These men are definitely more colorful, and I think that it's fantastic. They put the color in a very pale world.
"colorful" lol. So are the fat women in Walmart, I guess.
Although different does not equal bad, only a brainwashed zealot thinks different for its own sake automatically equals good.
Nobody would give that big fat femme guy a moment if it wasn't for who his dad was. He needs to loose weight and get his act together. It looks like his parents let him indulge in too many fudge cupcakes. I wonder if he's diabetic already. Sad.
I truly cannot believe the first picture of this guy coming out has him dressed like a hooker from New Orleans. Horrible.
Thank You R58 I feel the same way.
And I agree with you as well R59. It seems a little like self hatred to be ashamed of our [childish epithet posted by a bigoted tool] brothers. They absolutely color our lives and I as an elderg*y celebrate and support them. They are my earliest memory of what it means to be flamboyant and alive. Here, Here Magic Johnson and wife. He is a wonderful boy.
R62 I've never had any problems with fat people. I don't care if they're fat. It doesn't offend me as it seems to offend you. I don't like judging people. The thing with weight is that you can lose it.
Pipe down, bigots. The story is whether he's fat, flaming, carrying a purse or wearing fur. It's that he is polite and respectful in a town where most celebrity children aren't. And that his sports athlete father who just happens to be HIV positive clearly loves and respects him for who he is.
Can't you just be decent for a change?
R67 - how do we know he is polite and respectful. He looks like the type of temper tantrum throwing queen that goes postal if their soup isn't served at precisely the right temperature.
r65, what's up with the 2nd sentence in your second paragraph?
Amazing how Justin Bieber, a fairly hot young guy, gets trashed mercilessly here, but let some fat guy dress up as a woman and he's defended fiercely. You people are simply weird.
The thread "Have you ever been on the wrong side of history?" I think posters like r62 and other like-minded individuals will come to realize they are on the wrong side of history.
Gay rights (and that includes the right to be a flaming queen) is marching on and society is becoming more and more tolerant. There will always be pockets of bigotry (even from within the same minority group) but those voices will be drowned out.
Wow R68. You ignore how he actually is behaving and instead judge him base solely on how he looks? What are you? 12?
R72 - I've been around the block a time or two and I'm sure you have as well. You know i'm right.
r71, you're an example of what was mentioned earlier about DLers trying to portray gay males as women. Gay = males who are attracted to males, not males who want to dress as women. You can argue that they should be able to do whatever they want, and I'd agree, but it has nothing to do with homosexuality.
[quote]I've been around the block a time or two
TRANSLATION: I am old and bitter.
I'm 40, but far from bitter. Real, not bitter.
r74 I will say the same to you as I would say to any 20th Century bigots who are still alive: change can never happen so long as dinosaurs are still around. Society will be a lot better when old kooks like you are gone. You are keeping the US from progressing.
You and your bigotry will not be missed. It's like missing Strom Thurmond.
Sure R76. Keep telling yourself that.
R70, most of us here are not weird, we're gay. Most of us will reflexively defend Our Kind, just as Bieber will be defended by heterosexual girls and closeted bisexual men.
He obviously is so in love with white skin that hillbilly white trash looks attractive to him.
R74 Sorry pal, you just went off the rails. R71's post contains nothing of what you claim. In fact, they say almost the opposite of it.
I bet he's a fun guy and is polite to everyone's mama. I hope he stays sweet and doesn't let all of the meanies in Hollywood get to him and change him.
But then again, he could buy and sell them, so what does he care!
Warren Beatty was right to cut off that tranny child of his. That girl has major issues.
Gay men (I'm a gay guy myself) who act, dress and live overtly feminine, including drag queens and those like this young man, are indeed presenting a form of self loathing. That may or may not be due in part to the fact they grow up seeing so few male role models.
A gay teen or adult man who worships traditional female clothing, mannerisms, speech may be expressing himself freely, but that expression is based on a self hate, a hate for being male and a lack of respect and pride in the truth that he IS a man.
So yes, he's self loathing, but I don't necessarily think it's something to fault him for. It could be a side effect of the environment he grew up in or society at large.
Men, be proud of YOU, embrace manhood and your masculinity. Masculinity isn't about being 'butch' or a cowboy or building shit. Stop mimicking women and be yourselves. Females are not worthy of idolizing. You're equal, not sub-human.
Cookie: "I call Magic and I says, "Your son is a woman. He is wearing female clothes. He has breastses... He just started crying, he cried like a baby. He were so deverstated. Then we prayed".
R84 says what I have always felt. There is nothing more self loathing than a drag queen.
R84/R86 - sing it louder! I cannot stand when THAT image is the one thrust forward about what it means to be gay. It sets us all back years.
so r84 what should be do with the likes of EJ and young drag queens? Obviously they are a great embarrassment to you as a gay man and that just will not stand.
Should they be sent to a flaming queen conversion camp or therapy? Should we support Exodus International and request that they start a program to man-up these girlie boys?
What can we do to save the gay community from being wronged by Andre Talley and Magic's son?
R88 We shouldn't 'do' anything with them.
Just hope they learn to love themselves enough to accept themselves as men.
r89 So we should just continue to mock, ridicule and despise them, right? Because I heard that mocking, ridiculing, and even bullying them will solve the problem. Actually, the problem solves itself because with enough bullying, some of them will give up and just jump off the bridge.
Problem solved, right?
R89, just one problem - cross-dressing or behavior which diverges from gender norms is observed in not only most human cultures, but also in most species of animal.
Maybe the problem here is you really do hate women? Is that maybe the real issue for you, and when you see men adopting female norms of dress and behavior, it scares you?
[quote][R89] So we should just continue to mock, ridicule and despise them, right? Because I heard that mocking, ridiculing, and even bullying them will solve the problem. Actually, the problem solves itself because with enough bullying, some of them will give up and just jump off the bridge.
I say do nothing and hope they learn to love themselves and you turn it into the above.
You are one sick, twisted motherfucker.
I don't mock, ridicule or despise, I wish 'em the best.
The fur coat...Mary.
The purse with the loaded gunbelt handle...MARY!
r92 you and others have been bullying these poor boys. Read your comments. You talk about them as if they're animals who can't behave themselves in a decent manner.
Some of the comments here are so similar to how homophobes talk. You have absolutely no self-awareness. You and the other haters in this thread.
Imagine someone like EJ or a young kid reading this board and comes upon the comments in this thread.
R94 you are a sicko.
I know what I have said and clearly you do not.
I would be afraid of anyone young on this board reading you and your histrionic sick projections of others.
I do believe that drag and ultra fem behavior is a form of self-loathing and difficulty in self acceptance.
I do not believe that any form of hate or derision is a solution to anything. Those are your projections, not my assertions.
I hope the world evolves to the point where men do not think they have to act or project as women or fem in order to be gay.
Who wants to bet that r95 (etc.) is a flaming girly-man who's pathetically overcompensating out of his own self-loathing? Get over it, there are all kinds of ways of being a man (including ones that don't involve despising women).
...and another one projecting his issues onto others.
You have no sense of self-awareness r95. You talk about them as if they're freaks and you have no qualms about it. Yet you're calling someone else a sicko for trying to explain to you how your words are so similar to homophobes. These are bullying words. These are words that sting to a young kid who read it.
I an almost bet that your opinion isn't just limited to DL. You probably say the same thing to a friend when you see a slightly feminine man walk past you.
You and others are so hateful and so judgmental. Why can't you allow people be who they are if that's what makes them happy and they're not harming anyone?
R95 You can not say you do not believe you have any form of derision while at the same time labeling someone as being self loathing. Its like saying, "I'm not a racist, but black people are just so lazy."
It is pretty clear to everyone who here is filled with self loathing. Its that poor, sad person you see staring back at you every morning in your bathroom mirror.
R91 - THAT EXPLAINS IT ALL! I came home 2 hours ago to find my female dog standing there with a Harley Davidson collar on, a thick leather belt around her waist with a bone attached via a chain. I never knew it was common for animals to cross-dress and was very worried.
r84, isn't this the same thing as straights making blanket statements about us?
I'm not saying you're 100% wrong, but the hatred of e-ffeminate men on this site isn't just because they're viewed as self-loathing.
I think a lot of gay men are trying to be accepted in mainstream straight society, and trans, e-ffeminates and drag queens just make it harder for them, so they blame these groups.
Now THIS is real family values! If you really decipher that phrase that is so often used to divide then you will see that the true meaning is valuing your family, not condemning them or browbeating them into your narrow view of what's "normal".
My opinion of Magic just shot up 100% because of this. He is a real man and a real father, something that is exceedingly rare to see these days.
r102, too bad he didn't come out during his playing days and take that beyond the family.
A lot of DL young men could have been helped.
I'm not saying he had too, but it would've been nice.
Send a postcard from your Perfect World, R103.
I'm incredibly disappointed with the bigotry in this thread. Your concept of what a man or woman should act like is like something out of the 1950s.
Homophobes are going to hate you regardless of whether you're wearing Levi jeans or a backwards baseball cap. You are just as much a queen in their eyes as this kid. But the difference is this kid doesn't seem to be consumed with hatred and judgement like you seem to be so he is naturally winning over you.
How are we ever going to be able to stand a united front against the oppressive straight white male when we are all so divided still?
"against the oppressive straight white male"
Good grief what dated politics you have.
r106, no I think it's pretty apropos of the moment. If you think about most of the true evil that is done in this world, it is still imposed by straight, white men who have absolutely no concept of what it means to be an "other".
Some things never change.
Girlfriend is going to inherit over $150 million.
r106, They are dated, but still relevant.
I agree with everything you said except for the oppressive straight white male part.
Look at Dr. Ben Carson. He's a brilliant doctor but so homophobic and so offensive on a variety of issues. He's a like a brainier Allen West. I wonder if his bigotry will eclipse all of the accomplishments. No one can deny his contribution to the medical world.
r84/86/87 = Republicans
[quote]so [R84] what should be do with the likes of EJ and young drag queens? Obviously they are a great embarrassment to you as a gay man and that just will not stand. Should they be sent to a flaming queen conversion camp or therapy? Should we support Exodus International and request that they start a program to man-up these girlie boys? What can we do to save the gay community from being wronged by Andre Talley and Magic's son?
Just be honest about it and let them know there's nothing cool about the act they're putting on. It's like a child having a temper tantrum. You don't indulge it/=.
r113 Shouldn't you be blowing your bestie, John McCain, right now?
There is an obvious troll creature haunting this thread and instead of feeding the monster under the bridge, perhaps we should just ignore it till it withers and dies from lack of attention?
[quote]I'm not saying you're 100% wrong, but the hatred of e-ffeminate men on this site isn't just because they're viewed as self-loathing. I think a lot of gay men are trying to be accepted in mainstream straight society, and trans, e-ffeminates and drag queens just make it harder for them, so they blame these groups.
So how do the trans, e-ffeminates and drag queens feel about TLPG people who used to march in parades with them?
R112 - is that the best you could do?
I'm with r67. Contrast Magic's sons reaction to the paparazzi with Sean Penn's 'nigger' rant at a photographer last week. Magic's son was polite and well spoken. He was obviously raised well.
r118, the idea that Johnson would be a better parent than Penn isn't exactly a shocker.
Good for Magic and his family. Our kids need all the support they can get.
Andre Talley Jr. .....Oh Lord
Gurlll, how he doin'??
BTW, am I being cynical, or is it possible that he felt he had no choice but to make that statement because his son was so flamboyant and out?
If he came out as a gay jock, maybe a baller, would the reaction be the same?
Maybe he made the statement because it's exactly how he feels....he loves his son and fuck what anyone else has to say about it.
r125, that's what I'd like to think, but given his history, I'm inclined towards cynicism.
Yes, you're a cunt, R125/R126.
R126, what's his history? I would hope at this stage in Magic's life there is no need for games. He does have fuck you money and fame.
Yes they do.
I take it, that he's not one of those gaybros that we hear so much about?
He has more than 3 kids. I was a huge BB fan and I definitely remember there being at least 4. Good for their family, though. It's good to be supported.
I immediately thought he seemed like a nice kid too. Very polite to the paparazzi guy, who also treated him respectfully.
I've seen much worse from the kids of famouse parents.
He's 20 and seems mature
I know this guy and he is the most intolerable, spoiled, stuck up queen. Great his parents still love him, honestly must be harder when your son is such a flamer. But they also spoil him beyond belief. Whatever, good for all of them
[quote]He's 20 and seems mature
And you'd know cause you saw his photo.
The reason r56 is that this board is made up predominantly of old [childish epithet posted by a bigoted tool] gay men who thankfully will die of disease or suicide soon and let the new generation craft new rules for our community.
See, I'm among the last of a dying breed. Once the ERA and gay civil rights bills have been passed, me and mine will be swept under the carpets like the blacks done to Amos, Andy, and Aunt Jemima....and that, chillun', is called power. Be it gay, black, or flowered, it always comes down to the survival of the majority.
It's scary that there is so much hate for this boy. Any gay boy with that level of security and confidence at 20 should be encouraged. It just shows how vitally important the love of family is to our well-being. Unfortunately many of us don't have that. Especially all the gurlz who are intimidated or envious of or repulsed by EJ.
I have been reading here for ages, and I have seldom seen such a disturbing thread as this.
I would expect to read such smack talk on Media Take Out or Sandra Rose...perhaps even a conservative white site.
Many of you have shown a pretty dark side of the state of supporting your community in these post-homo hate days.
With friends like you.....
It's great that Johnson's son is out there and struttin' proud on Sunset with his parents support.
Meanwhile, two blocks south on Santa Monica Blvd, all the other heavyset, purse carrying black 20 something's are being ignored at Rage, Micky's, Revolver, and Here.
r84 Some men are naturally femme. It has nothing to do with "self-loathing". Just like some lesbians are naturally tom-boyish. Plus make-up and dresses are NOT inherently female. Men in the past(and till this day outside of the west) wore heels, make-up, and wigs. Look at Europe in the 1700's and back.
Your issue seems to be with women and femininity in general. If you are comfortable with your OWN masculinity you don't need to tear down femininity or the opposite sex.
Oh my, he's disgusting.
Hmmm, who's more embarrassing.... EJ or Chaz?
I love Magic, he's always seemed like a really down to earth guy. This warms my heart.
The dude has a lot of power in the sports world. His words will go a long way to helping the first gay athlete come out before retirement.
[quote]Magic announced he was HIV+ 21 years ago. Does this mean 20 year old EJ is HIV+?
One of the very first things he made clear with his announcement was that his then new wife and unborn child had tested negative.
[quote]Some men are naturally femme.
I don't know ANY women no matter how fe.minine who act like that.
People like that go out of their way to act that queer.
oh my...I feel so much better about Mamie!
[quote]I don't know ANY women no matter how fe.minine who act like that.
Wow, you need to get out more
LMAO! I can't help it. That boy looks a complete mess in whatever that is he is wearing. The purse is nice but the rest...
Cool son and a very cool dad. Now that's what real "family values" look like.
"We're all born naked;the rest is drag."
The level of self loathing and psychosis in this thread would keep every psychiatrist in the country employed forever. Seek help people. It is okay that you're gay. Really it is.
That. Girl.. Is on FIAH!!!!!!
R84 should be voted the new moral spokesman of the gay community, or at least the gay male community. So, so true!
I'm glad this kid is out and proud and that he's confident enough to be so outlandish. But yes, the over the top drag is clearly a sign of self hate.
Also, consider this: he's an obese young man and there just aren't any 'fashionable' clothes for big men. But there are for women. That being the case, he finds it easy and comfortable to buy and wear women's clothing because he can find it loose and flowing and with some style, so therein lies the attraction.
The necklaces and purses are just accessories and of course make him feel like a 'classy' lady.
PLEASE - how can acting freely the way you want to act, despite the consequences, be self-loathing?! He's celebrating his personality and is not ashamed or afraid of people thinking he's gay. And he's certainly not self-loathing of his homosexuality. Those of you that have come up with that new spin - self-loathing his "manhood" - have such a distorted view of the term.
He may disagree with YOUR definition of manhood but I don't see a man who hates the way he is or acts in any size, shape, or form.
R162, ITA. I was going to post about the very same thing. This phrase "self-loathing" is being used to frequently and freely. People are complex and can't be put into boxes. This young man is a prime example. Embracing your feminine side should not be seen as anything other than that.
Ah but when man act masculine and don't worship queens you get all bitchy and scream they are self-loathing....
R162 = Drag queen and she is PISSED you bitches won't talk about how "fierce" and "adorable" Ms. Johnson Jr. is.
R163 is self loathing and thinks all gay men should mimic women and prance about. Those of us who don't just aren't "being free".
The "act" is what matters. What are you trying to prove?
It used to be the stereotypical non-masculine gay dudes who misused the word "self-loathing."
Do you think he will get a sex change, like Chaz bono? His family can afford it.
R165, assume and jump to conclusions much? Or is your post an attempt at humor? Or maybe you're just projecting your bs on others.
Why is this news? It's not like the son is famous.wake me when Magic comes out.
r128, you know there are numerous entertainers (I include athletes) who have both and insist they are straight to the point of homophobia, right?
This is particularly true in the African American community.
The closet has destroyed a lot of rich, talented people.
Kudos to him for unqualified support for his son, though. I'm too much of a cunt to shake my cynicism fully, but I'm glad Magic was open about his support.
Like father like son.
R162 R163 Thank you! I have been thinking the same thing also. In fact, I will go one further. The term self loathing has been tossed around so much, it has no meaning any more. EJ is supposed to be "self loathing" because he acts like a woman. And yet how many times have we seen gay men who are naturally masculine also are called "self loathing" because they must be putting on a front? (not straight acting, that's something different, the key word being acting). Go over and check out the Gaybros thread. Ive been called self loathing because even though I am a gay man, I don't really care for disco or the old fashion musicals. If you're 100% top and never even considered getting fucked, you're self loathing. If you're all sub and can only cum with a big dick up your ass, you're self loathing. If your Saturday night is appearing in a drag show, clearly you must be self loathing, otherwise whats with the disguise and fake persona and name? If instead, you're shooting pool with your friends at a sports bar, then you must be self loathing, because what kind of gay man would do that? I wouldn't be surprised if someone had claimed the way one wipes their ass is grounds to call them self loathing.
Besides, we all know who is REALLY the ones that are self loathing.
Wait, Magic is a mo?
Nice story but I kind of agree, like father like son. It doesn't matter to me, at least the kid feels loved.
Did I already post that that is a $4400 Chanel BOY bag in red he is carrying? It's named after one of Coco's lovers, Boy Capel.
Anyone see EJ on Fashion Police last night? His personality seems fine. Obviously he's spoiled but he doesn't seem too annoying...I will probably change my mind this coming winter though, as EJ is one of the cast members on the upcoming reality show "Rich Kids of Beverly Hills". Yes, he's going to be a reality star.