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How To Stop a Friendship

How do you stop being friends with someone when the person you don't want to associate with has done nothing wrong? A person entered my life a while ago and a friendship of sorts developed. I felt early on that I had to set up boundaries so that this friendship would not develop into something more. There were feelings coming my way that I did not want to receive. At the time my feelings toward this guy were not strong. Now, I believe the reverse is true. I don't believe this guy has anything other than a friendship in mind but my feelings are stronger. I don't think he is aware of how I feel towards him. I don't believe love is blind. Lust is blind, not love. I know enough about him and enough about me to know that a relationship will not work. I'm not his type and he is not mine. But I love him and it hurts to be with him when I know that nothing can become of our relationship more than just a friendship. So , how do you dump a friend when you love them?

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