What to do?

If you're dating a guy you really like but suspect he's still hung up on a previous ex. Punch and delete? Tell him to work his issues out and then get back? He's made a few comments alluding to their great sex life and I guess I'm feeling like I can't measure up.

• Hindsight isn't always 20/20...it is blinded with rose colored glasses.

• Is HE so great in bed?

• He's better at some things than others R2. He's not the best I've had either but it's getting better.

• Just use him for sex and nothing else and drop him. Clearly thats all he's doing, getting off with you imagining you are the previous boyfriend.

• If he starts talking about OBF, stick your fingers in your ears and sing the internationally understood symbol for STFU, "Lalalalalalalalala." He'll get the message.

• He prizes sexual prowess above all things. He's just a shallow ho: delete. I've met these guys before. They had one magical night/relationship with Dreamlover, and then the dude moves on to another starstruck fan (when reality sets in, these studs are outta there). People left in their wake can never replicate the ecstasy. Like drug addicts with their first high. But they try, oh how they try. You'll never measure up, OP. Leave him to his memories.

• You're dating, it will come to nothing.

• Stop worrying where you're going, Mooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove, ooooooooooooon!

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