I'm not sure if you could call it sex, but I have paid for cheap but cute hustlers I met in the park to spank them behind the bushes a few times, maybe around 10 or 15 times in my life. Good to jack off to later on and thereby avoid disease. One hustler, after I whacked his nice tightly jeansed ass about 25 times told me he had to go home and sit in some ice water.
You always end up paying for some way or another.
R2 how did you meet him? he's very cute
That's a high percentage for the 'Yes' vote (e*dergays!) so far.
Gay dating website, r10. (His profile didn't make clear that he was a hustler.)
Just wait r11, if live you that long (which we doubt.)
Is the Moroccan kid even of age?
Yes, he showed me his passport the first time we met up.
I've had lots of guys offer me money on Grindr, but the kind of guys who need to pay for sex I wouldn't have sex with if they PAID me!
I've been offered money on grindr also. Freaked me out.
Doesn't everybody pay for sex, when you think about it? If it's not a $20 bill on the dresser, then it's helping with their car payment, sharing the rent, etc.
No one is going to be with someone if they can't put some money in the kitty.
I once paid for a massage for a super-hot guy. I figured it was just massage. I ended up having oral sex with him. He said he didn't really do that a lot but he liked my cock. I'm inclined to believe he did it all the time but who knows?
I was in a bathhouse about a hundred years ago. I started chatting with this old guy. He asked me to his room but I politely declined. He said he just wanted to cuddle for a while. So what the hell, I went and we did. After a while I said I needed to go and he really enjoyed it and handed me $60 (this was back in '82). I said no but he kept insisting so I took it.
I have had plenty of opportunities to pay for sex, but could never get the nerve up. However one time in Cambodia of all places, I went for a legit massage. My shoulders and back were aching from carrying my backpack around from days of site seeing so I signed up at my hotel for one of their massage deals.
I didn't get a happy ending, I got a surprise ending. All of a sudden he grabbed my junk and went for it.
[quote]I've had lots of guys offer me money on Grindr, but the kind of guys who need to pay for sex I wouldn't have sex with if they PAID me!
You should think about it. Sounds like you could use the money for composition classes.
Yes. And I'll probably do it again.
It's not a huge deal.
Only once was it bad (and I wish I was more confrontational and sent him away since his pics were obviously not recent... and since his pics, he'd started "pumping" making his dick completely useless). The other times it was not only fine, but pretty hot.
It's stupid that it's illegal.
Composition classes? Okay, gramps.
R23, why do you pay? There are plenty of horny guys out there, why not just find a hot horny guy and have sex for free? Just get on Grindr, it'll take 20 minutes as long as you're not really old, ugly or fat.
I've gotten a couple massages, planned as legit massages, with well, very friendly gents, let's put it that way.
not a habit, it just worked out that way.
You're the only one to say it, R13, so don't pull the 'we' thing. Also, don't be insecure - you make the other elgargays look bad.
You don't pay them to have sex with you.
You pay them to leave.
[quote]You pay them to leave.
Huh? Grindr is free, and the dudes know protocol. When pure done you go. If they act lie they want to stick around, you pretend you have something o do and tell them to leave.
Plus they don't have your phone number which is a plus.
Paying for sex only make sense if you have to pay for it.
R31, it's not meant to be literal.
You're paying for something to be done and over quickly with no strings.
Even with grindr there can be back and forth and attachments and yada yada yada....
I tried to once. I went into my purse to get my money out and the guy fled.
Does buying him one or two drinks count as pay?
R34, some would say no, some would say yes.
It's like women getting married for security.
People say it's not the same thing, but there are many parallels.
R34 makes a good point. I once had sex with a guy for cab fare.
R22, Asian massage school training always includes "happy endings." It is not considered to be sexual but sensual.
My partner and I went through a phase about 10 years ago of bringing home hot puerto rican hustle boi from in front of the Port Authority. They'd cost about $75 and we'd have great three-ways. Oddly enough, they were usually really sweet. And incredibly hot. And NO, bitches, we did not end up with stds.
First time was with two hot dancers from the Gaiety. Yum!
r20, you paid for a masseur who ended up wanting to have sex with you. That happens a lot. And not just with masseurs, but with lawyers, accountants, delivery guys, doctors, politicians, army generals, priests, plumbers, and waiters, among many other professions.