I realize I'm in a (sort of, I guess) relationship with a guy I honestly love. But I'm the one who has to do all the work. I know that if I wasn't so invested in this he wouldn't be in my life. He never says anything affectionate. I have to ask him if he LIKES me. He says yes. When I ask him if he really wants to be with me he says yes, but.... I don't know. I think I'm to him the "thing" you be with when you don't have anything better in sight. And such a stupid fuck for putting up with this, I know. But I don't want to lose him. I already know you're going to crucify me for being stupid but I'll ask anyway. What am supposed to do? Do you think he's just the kind of person to whom it's difficult to be affectionate. Or do you think that he doesn't really care for me? I'm feeling sad.
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