Traits/statuses about a man that you find unappealing or a turn-off?
For me, it's the married man. BLECH.
- Homosexuality! I will not have sex with a gay man!
- Are you joking R1? I can't tell.
OP
- New Year's Day public intoxication. Deal breaker.
Diane%20Lane
- Rudeness and cheapness.
- Tiny nipples is my shallow turn-off.
Other turn-offs are Republicanism, greed, selfishness, and poor communication skills.
- Smelly feet.
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- Flat nipples and/or completely smooth upper torso.
Obsession with anal sex is a turn off.
- Bad grammar, spelling, punctuation, and word usage, OP.
- Guys who don't listen and are not good listeners
Guys with worked out upper bodies and a flat ass
- Children.
- I cannot abide poverty.
- I'm trying to get over my issue with gayvoice. If he has a non-masculine voice, it wilts my dick and there's no hope of turning it around.
- If he expesses contempt for the poor and unfortunate of the world.
If a man hasn't known something resembling hard times, we will never understand each other.
- Femme behavior and/or voice. I'm sorry, I am just not sexually attracted to a man who is not masculine. And I am far from self-loathing.
Cigarette smoking. Excessive drinking. Drug use of any kind, with the exception of occasional (emphasis on 'occasional') pot smoking.
- Stale poppers. Have some respect for yourself, people.
- Poverty, bad teeth, and stone washed denims.
- I like R16. Sounds like a chapter heading.
I watch to see how the guy treats people, esp. service people. I always thought it says a lot about a person.
So I guess any guy who treats a waiter badly.
Shallow? Um, I don't mind femme guys, I like all different body types and coloring, so I guess I'd say bad grooming. Like noticeably bad, like two-inch toenails and stuff like that.
- R9, did you say something?
- nasty voices - no deal, it's the single most important physical trait for me. I can't go on dating sites because I HEAR them. it's pointless. I need to hear the voice speak.
Also, married jerks, not time for them.
- Yes, R14, you are far from self-loathing. You're shallow as fuck, but not self-loathing!
- Long hair on the back of the upper arms is a turn-off to me. Hobbit-patches gross me out too.
- R9, what about guys with muscular upper body and chopstick like legs?
The real turn off?
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facial wasting
- What's "Hobbit-patches", precious? What's "Hobbit-patches"?
- Greed, self-absorption, rudeness, conservatism, incuriosity, emotional stinginess, big butts, flaming mannerisms, and long hair.
11th Avenue Pete
- Penises.
- Guys with more than a couple tattoos, or large tattoos.
Piercings beyond ears, or plugs in the ear.
Shaved genitals: manscaping.
Christians or fundamentalists of any kind (except I have a thing for Orthodox Jews).
"Anarchists."
Hair dyers. (Comb-overs go without saying.)
Conservatives.
Anyone in the closet.
- Any guy with a dick smaller than 8.5 inches. Sorry, but guys with dicks smaller than that have no confidence and cannot fuck worth a shit. If a guy whips out anything smaller, he is shown the door immediately and will never have the privelege of seeing me again.
- R27 You type like a whore. I'll wager that you could drive a semi truck through your anus without hitting the sides, butt slut.
- The slim or wide shape of a guy's fingernails and toenails. Elongated nail shape (especially toe nails) are a deal breaker. Good width is mandatory.
- Unmanicured nail beds.
- Combovers, gray or graying hair that is thinning yet is long enough, especially in the back, to pull back tightly into a dorky pony tail thus making him look like somebody's old Aunt Mabel.
Anonymous
- Big Dick, Bigger Wallet.
Beauty fades, a nice cock and bank account are forever.
- Oops, I meant those are my turn-ons.
Turn offs: Obese, little dick, poor.
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