Traits/statuses about a man that you find unappealing or a turn-off?
For me, it's the married man. BLECH.
Homosexuality! I will not have sex with a gay man!
Are you joking R1? I can't tell.
New Year's Day public intoxication. Deal breaker.
Rudeness and cheapness.
Tiny nipples is my shallow turn-off.
Other turn-offs are Republicanism, greed, selfishness, and poor communication skills.
Flat nipples and/or completely smooth upper torso.
Obsession with anal sex is a turn off.
Bad grammar, spelling, punctuation, and word usage, OP.
Guys who don't listen and are not good listeners
Guys with worked out upper bodies and a flat ass
I cannot abide poverty.
I'm trying to get over my issue with gayvoice. If he has a non-masculine voice, it wilts my dick and there's no hope of turning it around.
If he expesses contempt for the poor and unfortunate of the world.
If a man hasn't known something resembling hard times, we will never understand each other.
Femme behavior and/or voice. I'm sorry, I am just not sexually attracted to a man who is not masculine. And I am far from self-loathing.
Cigarette smoking. Excessive drinking. Drug use of any kind, with the exception of occasional (emphasis on 'occasional') pot smoking.
Stale poppers. Have some respect for yourself, people.
Poverty, bad teeth, and stone washed denims.
I like R16. Sounds like a chapter heading.
I watch to see how the guy treats people, esp. service people. I always thought it says a lot about a person.
So I guess any guy who treats a waiter badly.
Shallow? Um, I don't mind femme guys, I like all different body types and coloring, so I guess I'd say bad grooming. Like noticeably bad, like two-inch toenails and stuff like that.
R9, did you say something?
nasty voices - no deal, it's the single most important physical trait for me. I can't go on dating sites because I HEAR them. it's pointless. I need to hear the voice speak.
Also, married jerks, not time for them.
Yes, R14, you are far from self-loathing. You're shallow as fuck, but not self-loathing!
Long hair on the back of the upper arms is a turn-off to me. Hobbit-patches gross me out too.
R9, what about guys with muscular upper body and chopstick like legs?
The real turn off?
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Greed, self-absorption, rudeness, conservatism, incuriosity, emotional stinginess, big butts, flaming mannerisms, and long hair.
11th Avenue Pete
Guys with more than a couple tattoos, or large tattoos.
Piercings beyond ears, or plugs in the ear.
Shaved genitals: manscaping.
Christians or fundamentalists of any kind (except I have a thing for Orthodox Jews).
Hair dyers. (Comb-overs go without saying.)
Anyone in the closet.
Any guy with a dick smaller than 8.5 inches. Sorry, but guys with dicks smaller than that have no confidence and cannot fuck worth a shit. If a guy whips out anything smaller, he is shown the door immediately and will never have the privelege of seeing me again.
R27 You type like a whore. I'll wager that you could drive a semi truck through your anus without hitting the sides, butt slut.
The slim or wide shape of a guy's fingernails and toenails. Elongated nail shape (especially toe nails) are a deal breaker. Good width is mandatory.
Unmanicured nail beds.
Combovers, gray or graying hair that is thinning yet is long enough, especially in the back, to pull back tightly into a dorky pony tail thus making him look like somebody's old Aunt Mabel.
Big Dick, Bigger Wallet.
Beauty fades, a nice cock and bank account are forever.
Oops, I meant those are my turn-ons.
Turn offs: Obese, little dick, poor.