Like swimming in a warm sea surrounded by affectionate dolphins.
They grey rain curtain of this world rolls back and all turns to silver glass. And then you see it: white shores and beyond. A far, green country under a swift sunrise.
It's weird that they don't seem to be that interested in talking about sex. Not too long ago I asked how common it is in the lesbian community to have exclusive "tops" and "bottoms" and iirc there were no takers.
Like eating the Best bread pudding, ever - for free!
maybe that should have clued you in, r4, that there are not all that many lesbians who assign top or bottom labels to their sexual exploits.
I see boundary statements being made as a substitute for foreplay.
Am I right, ladies?
R6, I tried to be as nice as possible in my thread because I know sometimes lesbians think they're getting made fun of. The reason I brought it up was because some lesbians in a Jodie Foster thread were saying they were sure Jodie was a bottom and I found that curious.
Is it quite common among lesbians to "strap on" during sex and do you take turns with that strap on?
It can be just as uncomfortable and boring as straight sex. Get somebody who is sensitive, caring, funny (important) is all that makes the difference. Wouldn't want to have sex with a female or male Rambo. You can find them in both sexes.
It feels wonderful. Ain't nothing like pussy.
Yes there are sometimes top and bottoms. My last girlfriend was a complete bottom.
Nothing. Women have a weha and men have a yahoo.
Two wehas and two yahoos still add up to nothing. You need a weha and a yahoo for sex.
Recently there was a guy on the radio talking about doing sexual research. He had data from straights and gay men but he found out that lesbians wouldn't talk to him about sex.
I'm a lesbian and I've found the same to be mostly true....gay women aren't likely to share that info with people other than lovers.
`Something like bumping cars`.
Where the woman go up in the woman?
"Is it quite common among lesbians to "strap on" during sex and do you take turns with that strap on?"
LOL,I guess if you're interested in imitating straight sex. Straight men love the concept because it makes them think the penis is indispensable. Since the clitoris is the female version of the penis, do the math. Lesbian sex for me is tons of foreplay and oral on clit. Repeat.
Is a bottom considered less lesbian than a top? I'm a complete bottom and don't enjoy women's bodies etc. I just like it when women do things to me. I'm a giver by nature but when it comes to sex I feel really uncomfortable being anything but a total bottom. Am I less gay or maybe not even gay, comes to mind, sometimes. Any insight appreciated.
Why can't some lesbian sit down here and tell us—in graphic or even clinical terms if need be—what the hell is going on there when two women "have sex"? I don't understand it either and have always been curious. This is an anonymous board. Your copulation is not some kind of hidden, mystical secret only granted to gold-letter lesbians. Maybe we'd like to understand you a little better. What does a bottom do? What does a top do? Why the secrecy? It makes you look more like some kind of coven.
Your secret pussy
Sex for me has not much to do with the way porn or TV shows/movies show it. It's not "softly stroking each others hair" and it's IMO more urgent and harder than what people think it is.
What do we do? There's a lot of grinding, pulling, kissing, nibbling, caressing the whole body. This includes mouth (or face), neck, chest, breast (especially breasts), stomach, thighs and of course the all mighty pussy.
Sometimes it goes on for a long time, sometimes you just want to get fucked. Most of the time I use my finger or my tongue to fuck my girlfriend and I stop not when she comes but when she tells me to stop or my neck or arm hurt from thrusting. We alternate the fucking, sometimes it's enough to grind your pussy on her leg to come. There's a lot of sweat going on, neither one lies there and just thinks of England (apart R19 it seems who I wouldn't date). It gets loud and in the heat of the moment blood from a slight internal injury can happen. As one can see, I'm not really into the tender love making at the moment.
Does that answer your question maybe?
You can always go to xhamster and search for lesbian amateurs and look at some of the videos - for research purposes of course.
there's lots of pussy
holy crap, swiss chick!
I would like to hear more. I think there are definitely tops and bottoms, but a lot of times with lesbians these roles can switch, or at least it feels like there is a lot of flexibility there. I'm very feminine but I like to be the more aggressive one sometimes. I think it's fun to bend the rules and it's sexy.
R13 is an idiot.
Is "How does it feel like" meant to be a signal that this is a troll posting?
Certainy the question is moronic, but the grammar has to be meant to tip us of that it's not serious.
No, R23, there are NOT "definitely" tops and bottoms in my world. I think that's another man-made fantasy.
The fact that lesbain sex mutual is one of the great things about it. Be more agressive sometimes, sure, but really, it's flexible.
Foreplay is sex, everything is sex to a female: touching, kissing on mouth and everywhere else, boob sucking, licking. Not in a hurray or rush -- women like long periods of arousal. THEN, oral to orgasm. This is pretty standard. You can stop and start the whole process over very quickly and cum multiple times. Unlike most males, females are MORE turned on after orgasm, they don't shut down and fall asleep.
The arousal thing is fantastic. I can make myself cum in 30 seconds with clitoral stimulation, I want so much more with a partner.
[quote]It gets loud and in the heat of the moment blood from a slight internal injury can happen.
R16 is wrong. It where a woman go down on the woman
Probably a lot like eating air.
Thanks for the info ladies. This is very educational. In the movies they all scissor or use strap-Ons.
Do you ladies have a problem with period sex?
this thread is making me HORNY!
" In the movies they all scissor or use strap-Ons."
In all fairness, hetero sex in the movies and hetero sex in real life are also two different things.
My cousin (a lesbian) says there's nothing like clit-grinding (or female frottage). She says she's able to have multiple orgasms doing it.
Call me, R26.
[r36]: what's your damage?
Exhilirating! My first sexual experience was with a guy (I was trying to will away my same-sex attraction), and I wondered, "What's all the fuss about?". Tried it again a few times, and was still left wondering why it was so popular. When I had sex with a woman for the first time, I knew. I never looked back.
Just co-signing r20. Good answer.
any more responses about it? This board doesn't seem too popular with the ladies.
Lesbo sex,I heard, is more pleasurable and intimate that the grunting you fags do in the back alley.
Lolz R42! Cute...
I'd be very unhappy with a woman who was a top or a bottom and I've run away from women who have used those terms to define themselves (it's rare but it happens).
I love rolling around in bed lol. Sometimes I'm more in the mood to give and other times to receive but sex between two women is usually about both giving and taking.
I pity the butch/femme ones stuck in gender roles and imitating straight sex. God, that would be hell for me.
What do I love about sex with women? First of all, I love sex with a woman I love. I don't have much interest in casual sex. The love between two women makes it so much more passionate.
I love deep kissing, I love breasts, touching them, sucking them, I love having another woman's breasts against mine.
I love giving and receiving oral sex, love frottage when we're both very aroused, and I've had and given mind blowing orgasms through fingering and G-spot stimulation.
I like strap-ons once in a while as long as they don't look like penises. They can be fun.
I love making love with another woman much more than just having sex. It's about the body, mind and soul and not just the pussy.
I agree that top / bottom varies depending on the mood. Or in my case, my hormonal cycle. I'm a slave to my hormones. I don't want to do the same things or have the same things done to me every week of the month.
Any other lesbian like me?
Beginning of the cycle to ovulation I'm usually the agressor, I want to fuck and have control because I get off madly from making my partner orgasm. Like a very primal need to express my love for her inside of her body.
Ovulation period: Crazy urge for penetration, I want to get fucked. Preferably with a dildo because it's big and thus intense physically, I can grab my pratner's butt, adjust the direction to the right spot, kiss her all at the same time. I think it's my body *demanding* reproduction but not being into men at all sexually + not being interested in children, it will stay like that forever I'm afraid.
Rest of the cycle I'm mellow. Into sweet, mutual sex. Who does what varies.
Someone asked about sex during periods: it's not the "blood" (it isn't, btw) that is problematic to me, it's the pysical pain that goes with it that completely kills the very idea of sex during that time. Fortunately my periods last only for 3 days.
Some women have no pain at all during their periods. Lucky ones.
Anyway, sex for us is oral, tribbing and penetration with strapons.
Top/Bottom = I think most lesbians have to be both, because how the hell would you have a sex life? You go home with a woman, she tells you what she feels like doing sexually at that moment and you just say no, I don't do that, I'm stricly top/bottom? Doesn't happen.
Omg, ladies, you are very graphic. You whores!
It's not primarily the mind that you are thinking of when you fuck somebody else, though, be true you wild egotistical amazons!
You like tits and anything else that stimulate your G-spot. No more excuses! Soul, mind, that's all a fantasy you have, you crazy bitches!
R46 What is "tribbing"?
Ditto R46. Except i generally like to get something sexual when on the rag, and i like to give when the girl is on it. Not into casual sex like another poster said.
It feels like multiple orgasms daily. No tops, no bottoms, no penises or penis-like things necessary.
Tribbing is female frottage...rubbing clits/clit hoods
clit hoods, damn dat sound ghetto
Take a pill, r54.
Just watch "Blue Is The Warmest Color" on Netflix and it will show you exactly what lesbian sex is like.