Like swimming in a warm sea surrounded by affectionate dolphins.
They grey rain curtain of this world rolls back and all turns to silver glass. And then you see it: white shores and beyond. A far, green country under a swift sunrise.
It's weird that they don't seem to be that interested in talking about sex. Not too long ago I asked how common it is in the lesbian community to have exclusive "tops" and "bottoms" and iirc there were no takers.
Like eating the Best bread pudding, ever - for free!
maybe that should have clued you in, r4, that there are not all that many lesbians who assign top or bottom labels to their sexual exploits.
I see boundary statements being made as a substitute for foreplay.
Am I right, ladies?
Gay man
R6, I tried to be as nice as possible in my thread because I know sometimes lesbians think they're getting made fun of. The reason I brought it up was because some lesbians in a Jodie Foster thread were saying they were sure Jodie was a bottom and I found that curious.
R4
Is it quite common among lesbians to "strap on" during sex and do you take turns with that strap on?
I'm curious
It can be just as uncomfortable and boring as straight sex. Get somebody who is sensitive, caring, funny (important) is all that makes the difference. Wouldn't want to have sex with a female or male Rambo. You can find them in both sexes.
Anonymous
It feels wonderful. Ain't nothing like pussy.
Yes there are sometimes top and bottoms. My last girlfriend was a complete bottom.
Nothing. Women have a weha and men have a yahoo.
Two wehas and two yahoos still add up to nothing. You need a weha and a yahoo for sex.
Recently there was a guy on the radio talking about doing sexual research. He had data from straights and gay men but he found out that lesbians wouldn't talk to him about sex.
I'm a lesbian and I've found the same to be mostly true....gay women aren't likely to share that info with people other than lovers.
Sorry OP.
`Something like bumping cars`.
Will%20to%20Jack
Where the woman go up in the woman?
"Is it quite common among lesbians to "strap on" during sex and do you take turns with that strap on?"
LOL,I guess if you're interested in imitating straight sex. Straight men love the concept because it makes them think the penis is indispensable. Since the clitoris is the female version of the penis, do the math. Lesbian sex for me is tons of foreplay and oral on clit. Repeat.
Is a bottom considered less lesbian than a top? I'm a complete bottom and don't enjoy women's bodies etc. I just like it when women do things to me. I'm a giver by nature but when it comes to sex I feel really uncomfortable being anything but a total bottom. Am I less gay or maybe not even gay, comes to mind, sometimes. Any insight appreciated.
not%20so%20straight%20sally
Why can't some lesbian sit down here and tell us—in graphic or even clinical terms if need be—what the hell is going on there when two women "have sex"? I don't understand it either and have always been curious. This is an anonymous board. Your copulation is not some kind of hidden, mystical secret only granted to gold-letter lesbians. Maybe we'd like to understand you a little better. What does a bottom do? What does a top do? Why the secrecy? It makes you look more like some kind of coven.
Your secret pussy
Sex for me has not much to do with the way porn or TV shows/movies show it. It's not "softly stroking each others hair" and it's IMO more urgent and harder than what people think it is.
What do we do? There's a lot of grinding, pulling, kissing, nibbling, caressing the whole body. This includes mouth (or face), neck, chest, breast (especially breasts), stomach, thighs and of course the all mighty pussy.
Sometimes it goes on for a long time, sometimes you just want to get fucked. Most of the time I use my finger or my tongue to fuck my girlfriend and I stop not when she comes but when she tells me to stop or my neck or arm hurt from thrusting. We alternate the fucking, sometimes it's enough to grind your pussy on her leg to come. There's a lot of sweat going on, neither one lies there and just thinks of England (apart R19 it seems who I wouldn't date). It gets loud and in the heat of the moment blood from a slight internal injury can happen. As one can see, I'm not really into the tender love making at the moment.
Does that answer your question maybe?
You can always go to xhamster and search for lesbian amateurs and look at some of the videos - for research purposes of course.
swiss%20chick
there's lots of pussy
holy crap, swiss chick!
I would like to hear more. I think there are definitely tops and bottoms, but a lot of times with lesbians these roles can switch, or at least it feels like there is a lot of flexibility there. I'm very feminine but I like to be the more aggressive one sometimes. I think it's fun to bend the rules and it's sexy.
R13 is an idiot.
Is "How does it feel like" meant to be a signal that this is a troll posting?
Certainy the question is moronic, but the grammar has to be meant to tip us of that it's not serious.
No, R23, there are NOT "definitely" tops and bottoms in my world. I think that's another man-made fantasy.
The fact that lesbain sex mutual is one of the great things about it. Be more agressive sometimes, sure, but really, it's flexible.
Foreplay is sex, everything is sex to a female: touching, kissing on mouth and everywhere else, boob sucking, licking. Not in a hurray or rush -- women like long periods of arousal. THEN, oral to orgasm. This is pretty standard. You can stop and start the whole process over very quickly and cum multiple times. Unlike most males, females are MORE turned on after orgasm, they don't shut down and fall asleep.
The arousal thing is fantastic. I can make myself cum in 30 seconds with clitoral stimulation, I want so much more with a partner.
[quote]It gets loud and in the heat of the moment blood from a slight internal injury can happen.
Ouch!
Wang-a-lang...sweet poontang.
Theodora%20Nugent
R16 is wrong. It where a woman go down on the woman
Probably a lot like eating air.
Thanks for the info ladies. This is very educational. In the movies they all scissor or use strap-Ons.
Do you ladies have a problem with period sex?
this thread is making me HORNY!
" In the movies they all scissor or use strap-Ons."
In all fairness, hetero sex in the movies and hetero sex in real life are also two different things.
My cousin (a lesbian) says there's nothing like clit-grinding (or female frottage). She says she's able to have multiple orgasms doing it.
Call me, R26.
[r36]: what's your damage?
Fishy.
Exhilirating! My first sexual experience was with a guy (I was trying to will away my same-sex attraction), and I wondered, "What's all the fuss about?". Tried it again a few times, and was still left wondering why it was so popular. When I had sex with a woman for the first time, I knew. I never looked back.
Confirmed Lesbian
Just co-signing r20. Good answer.
any more responses about it? This board doesn't seem too popular with the ladies.