How old were you, the first time you...

1) Tried a cigarette 2) Got high 3) Got drunk 4) Had Oral Sex 5) Had Penetrative Sex

• 1. 18 2. 18 3. 18 4. 20 5. 20

• 1, 20 2. 16 3. 15 4. 19 5. 25!

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• Sixteen.

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• 1) Tried a cigarette - 5 2) Got high - 14 3) Got drunk - 6 4) Had Oral Sex - 6 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 18

• did you also use a dildo?

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 17 2) Got high - 17 3) Got drunk - 17 4) Had Oral Sex - 18 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 18

• R4, did you become a priest?

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 14 2) Got high - 15 3) Got drunk-14 4) Had Oral Sex -15 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 22

• 1. 17 2. 21 3. 18 4. 15 5. 28 Yep, I sucked a cock before any of the other things.. And never did anything with another guy until my first boyfriend at 28.

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 10 2) Got high - 12 3) Got drunk- 10 4) Had Oral Sex -20 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 21

• 1) Tried a cigarette - never 2) Got high - never 3) Got drunk- never 4) Had Oral Sex - 22 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 22

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 8 2) Got high - 12 3) Got drunk - 10 4) Had Oral Sex - 13 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 13

• 1) 10 2) 22 3) 19 4) 10 5) 12

  A lil' backwards, huh?

• 1) 13 2) 26 3) 19 4) 18 5) 18

• Never done any of them.

• 1)10 2)19 3)18 4)31 4)31

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 12 2) Got high - 12 3) Got drunk - 12 4) Had Oral Sex - 12 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 15 All the things that happened at age 12 were during one great summer. The problem - I still have a problem quitting smoking ciggies.

• 1. 15 2. 20 3. 21 4. 10 5. 20

• 1) Tried a cigarette 17 2) Got high 16 3) Got drunk 16 4) Had Oral Sex 16 5) Had Penetrative Sex 16

• R15 for real. No booze no weed no dick no hole ? ExPlain yourself

• 1) Tried a cigarette - Never. Smoking is disgusting. Never had the urge at all to try it. 2) Get high - Never. Drugs are illegal and they can cause too much damage. No reason to go there. 3) Got drunk - Never. I'm 20. Not old enough. Don't know if i'll even bother with it. That stuff also fucks people up. 4 and 5 - Never. Haven't met the right guy yet. Not a believer in casual sex.

• 1) still haven't 2) 21 3) 16 4) probably 10 5) 12

• R21 is fucking boring.

• 1) Tried a cigarette- 9 2) Got high- 9 3) Got drunk- 12 4) Had Oral Sex- 14 5) Had Penetrative Sex- 15

• 1. 14 2. 14 3. 14 4. 15 4. 15

• The summer I turned 12 was one hell of a summer. I did it all.

• R20, I never was a sociable person with a lot of friends - I didn't have any really, so that keeps you out of certain situations where someone might be tempted to try those things. I never was curious about drinking/smoking/drugs and I was way too insecure and inhibited to have anything to do with sex or relationships.

  R15

• 10, 15, 11, 17, 11. Got drunk and was penetrated (raped) on the same night.

• R21 is still hurt about what Rizzo said about her at Jan's sleep-over

• r27, it is never too late - how old are you?

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• It's probably not fair, but I don't know if I could ever truly be friends with someone who never went through a drinking/druggie/slutty phase.

• 1) Tried a cigarette: don't remember... 20s? 2) Got high... 21 3) Got drunk... 19 4) Had Oral Sex... 21 5) Had Penetrative Sex... 21 21 was a big year for me. I was also hospitalized for a month that year (not related to any of the above issues). As for the cigarettes... I honestly don't know. I've been allergic all my life, so I never tried it young. Some time post-college I tried one, and in my life I think I've smoked all of two or three cigarettes (and that's combining all the puffs together). I haven't even come close to smoking one in over a decade now (I'm in my 40s). Of course, it's been quite a while since I've had penetrative sex now (at least a decade), and I don't have oral sex much either (I got a blow job last December some time, don't remember the last time I gave one... maybe a year ago?)

• OP, thanks a lot for bringing back my memories of the absolute worst 10th birthday EVER!

• 1) 10 2) 18 3) 17 4) 18

• 1) Tried a cigarette-18 2) Got high-15 3) Got drunk-18 4) Had Oral Sex-18 5) Had Penetrative Sex-20

• That's fair, R31. I'm the opposite of you - I wouldn't want to be friends with anyone who went through a prolonged drinking or druggie phase.

• That's so interesting, R36. I know two or three teetotalers (not people in recovery) and I find them so incredibly dull. I'm not an alkie or druggie or even a slut, but I've overindulged a few times in my life. I find people who haven't overindulged lacking something. Again, probably says more about me than anything. That said, alcoholics or active addicts are the most tedious humans on the planet. Those in recovery tend to be fascinated to me (as long as they aren't preachy).

• 1) 18 2) never 3) 21 4) 22 5) 23

• I was very secluded and unhappy as a teenager. I tried the cigarette on my own just to see what the others were talking about. I only started living when I left for university at 20. God, I'm glad I'm not a teen anymore, those years sucked.

  r38

• 1) Tried a cigarette 12 2) Got high 14 3) Got drunk 14 4) Had Oral Sex 7? 5) Had Penetrative Sex 15

• 1. Never 2. Never 3. Never 4. 26 5. 29 I grew up in a Penetecostal Church.

• Smoke 7 high 25 drunk 13 oral 13 anal 13

• 1) Tried a cigarette - never 2) Got high - never 3) Got drunk - 25 4) Had Oral Sex - 24 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 25

• Cigarette -- 12 Marjuana -- 14 Alcohol -- 14 Oral sex -- 21 Penetrative sex -- 21

• 9 for all

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 12 2) Got high - 14 3) Got drunk-13 4) Had Oral Sex -13 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 14 Top 14 Bottom 15

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 18 2) Got high - 23 3) Got drunk - 8 4) Had Oral Sex - 21 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 24

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 16 2) Got high - 17 3) Got drunk - 17 4) Had Oral Sex - 15 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 15

• File this under the stupid, none of your business threads.

• 1 Tried a cigarette 8 (but just like Bill I did not inhale) 2) Got high 40 (dropping an E - I did pot as a teen but only got nausea, paranoia and no high) 3) 25 4) 16 5) 26

• "Again, probably says more about me than anything." Yes, it does. It's definitely an acquired taste, seeking out friends who are actively recovering from addiction and alcoholism.

• 1) 11 2) 12 3) 14 4) 19 5) 19

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 13 2) Got high - 15 3) Got drunk - 14 4) Had Oral Sex - 15 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 18

• 15 16 15 18

• Tried a cigarette at 14 Never got high (tried several times, starting at 15) Never got drunk (never tried -- have had drinks, gave it up) Had oral sex at 19 Had penetrative sex at 19 (the following week)

• 1) 13 2) 17 3) 11 4) 17 5) 17

• 1. never 2. 14; 2nd hand. pot seriously smells like shit. 3. never; tastes gross 4. 20 5. 17

• 1) Tried a cigarette -7 2) Got high - never have 3) Got drunk - 18 4) Had Oral Sex - 19 5) Had Penetrative Sex -20

• 1.) 13 2.) 16 3.) 17 4.) 17 5.) 25

• 1) haven't so far 2) haven't so far 3) haven't so far 4) 20 5) 19

• 1) tried a cigarette at 4. My dad sat us down and made us try one so we wouldn't like it. Of course I kinda loved it. 2)got high at 16, didn't care for it. Started again at 20 and haven't stopped since. 3)got drunk at 6 or 7, sipping off my dad's cold beer in the summer heat. 4) received oral from my gf at 16 or early 17, gave my first bj to a guy at around 21 or 22. 5)first butt fuck would have been at around 24. Straddled the guy who had a really big dick and came in like 5 seconds without even touching my cock. The guy fucking me laughed and said a bottom is born.

• 1) Tried a cigarette - age 16 and continued for 49 years. 2) Got high - age 30. Awful I don't know how you guys stand it. 3) Got drunk - age 15. Quit at age 40. 4) Had Oral Sex - Age 23. 5) Had Penetrative Sex - age 24. wow.

• 1. 10 2. 12 3. 5 4. 12 5. 15

• A lot of y'all got started young.

• R30, it's too late. I'm 50.

  R27

• 1) 11 older brother, hated it 2) 23 didn't care anymore 3) 18 college 4) 18 college 5) 18 college

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 15 2) Got high - 16 (nicotine was a gateway drug) 3) Got drunk - 25 4) Had Oral Sex 18 5) Had Penetrative Sex 24 (I didn't know boys could do that)

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 11, 7th grade 2) Got high -- 11, 7th grade 3) Got drunk -- 11, 7th grade 4) Had Oral Sex -- 16, high school, with a woman 5) Had Penetrative Sex -- 16, high school, with a woman

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• 1.) 13 2.) 15 3.) 14 4.) 15 5.) Not yet.

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• r65, it really is not too late. If you have an interest in any of these things, there are ways. A bonus is you probably look young for your age as these five things age people the most. Still, abstaining doesn't preclude happiness - and that's what I wish you.

  r30

• 1) Tried a cigarette - 9 2) Got high - 12 3) Got drunk - 12 4) Had Oral Sex - 23 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 32 sexually, i was a bit of a late bloomer i guess. i have since made up for it.

• ) Tried a cigarette - a whole one at 9, but puffs of my dad's when I was much younger. 2) Got high - 17 3) Got drunk - 17 4) Had Oral Sex - 17 5) Had Penetrative Sex - 17

• 1) 18 2) 20 3) 19 4) 20 5) 34

• 1. Never, not even a puff--even the smell of a pack of cigarettes is gag inducing for me. 2. 19 or 20--the guy who wanted me to try weed (grass as we also called it) had to sort of instruct me on how to take puffs of a joint. I smoked it off and on through the years once having a rather bad experience but I think there may have been other factors involved. Sometimes it was great--early 70s, darken the room, light incense and listen to Pink Floyd; would never do it now though. 3. 18--had to acquire a taste for beer and whiskey in college (stopped all the nonsense of getting drunk when in my 20s or maybe 30s--it just didn't seem like "fun" anymore, especially the sick, hung over feeling the next day). 4. 24 (never cared much for oral sex, giving or receiving--a mouth is not an ass, which is what I like on a man). 5. 24--late bloomer I guess--I'm 99% top and started out fucking men in their 40s, I will be the first to admit I had daddy issues, also liked spanking men older than I was/am.

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• 1) cig - 12 2) high - 16 3) drunk - 16 4) Oral - 15 5) Penetration - 15 Was never into cig/alc/weed, but have taken a sudden interest in weed as of a year ago (I'm 39). Now I smoke a couple times a month with my bf, sometimes for a whole weekend.

• 1) Tried a cigarette- 14 2) Got high- 15 3) Got drunk- 16 4) Had Oral Sex- 11 5) Had Penetrative Sex- 17

• Cig: never smoked High: never tried an illicit drug Drunk: 19 (sophomore year in college, at a cast party for a play I was in) BJ: 19 (sophomore year in college - by my roommate during finals.) Penetrative sex: 25 I am 52 yo.

• 1) Tried a cigarette: 12 2) Got high: 16 3) Got drunk: 18 4) Oral sex: 18 5) Penetrative sex: 18

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• R30/R70, thank you for your kind words.

  R65

• 1) Tried a cigarette, age 19, vomited, gross 2) Got high, age 16, the only vice worth 'imbibing', IMHO 3) Got drunk, age 19, ugh, alcohol is disgusting, addictive, and debilitating 4) Had Oral Sex, age 9, neighbor boys, experimenting...loved it. 5) Had Penetrative Sex, age 17, girlfriend, trying to be 'normal', what a farce

• 16, 17, 16, 17, 16

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• 14 for all except sex because I'm still 14 hahah

• 1) 20 2) 19 3) 17 4) 16 5) 18

• 1) Tried a cigarette = don't remember, probably 17 2) Got high = never did, wasn't interested 3) Got drunk = 17 4) Had Oral Sex = 19 5) Had Penetrative Sex = 19 Maybe I was a late bloomer.

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• 1. never. 2. never. 3. 18 4. 13 5. 24

• 1. 14 2. 18 3. 18 4. 8 - yes, I was 8 he was 11. 5. 17

• Great thread, OP! 1. Never 2. Never (I'm sort of boring!) 3. 20 4. 14 5. 14 (Straight chick/hag here)

• 1) Tried a cigarette 22 2) Got high 18 3) Got drunk 18 4) Had Oral Sex 16 5) Had Penetrative Sex 14

  Anonymous

• N/A, N/A, N/A, 25, 26

  Goody Tushooz

• 1) Cigarette = 12. My father kept a carton of Winstons in the glove compartment of his car. I stole a pack at the urging of my best friend. 2) Got high = 13. My best friend & I smoked a joint with a guy in the neighborhood. And then jumped on the trampoline in his back yard. Weeeeeee! 3) Got drunk = 13. My best friend's father had a fridge in his workshop, filled with Miller High Life. He never missed the four cans of beer. 4) Oral sex = 14. With the aforementioned best friend (a female). Also deserving of a "Weeeeeee!" (I should note that my best friend was a year & half older than me.....which is insignificant when you're 9-11 years old. But when you hit your teens?? I don't think I would have tried any of these things, at such a young age, had it not been for her.) 5) Penetrative sex = 18. With the first guy I dated. Didn't care for it. At all.

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• 1. 9 (got spanked by dad) 2. 17 3. 17 4. 17 (it was a very good year) 5. 18 (ran out of time in previous year)

• 1. 17 2. 24 3. 18 4. 15 5. 15