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How do I stay friends with both members of a couple after they break up?

Two of my closest friends are a couple. I've known them for a little over 5 years, and they were already a couple before we met. I hang out with them together as well as separately, and think very highly of each of them. Last night I heard about some drama (apparently one of them cheated), and a breakup seems likely. Should that occur, how do I maintain a friendship with both of them? It's easier said then done not to be involved when I usually see each of them once a week. I don't want to take sides. I don't want to be caught in the middle of passing messages back and forth or reporting to one about the other's behavior. Is there a way to make this work? Any advice is appreciated.

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