What are your secret techniques for delivering a good blowjob?
Number 1 - you have to fucking love cock.
Cradle da balls!
Take out your dentures.
Ask Nancy Reagan.
First: remember that "blow" does not mean what it usually does.
Any advice how to lose my gag reflex? I really wanna deep throat a cock.
Practice practice practice
I can't come when someone blows me, but I've gotten off every guy I have ever blown. Not to toot my own horn. Well I guess if I could do that, I wouldn't need anyone to get me off!
It really depends on the person receiving. Generally, start with a mixture of sucking dick and licking it/ rubbing your lips over the head etc. As he gets more aroused, focus more on the sucking and take it as deep as you can. Tugging at his nuts helps too. When I'm receiving, some pulling at my nuts at the same rhythm of the blowjob can make me spurt in seconds.
Thanks R9 =), I'm going to try that.
r6, Sex therapist, Dr. Ruth Westheimer told a caller to practice with a two scoop ice cream cone to prevent the gag reflex.
No prob OP. Remember to take clues from how he responds. Some guys like just the head sucked, some like deep throat, some like getting jerked while the head is sucked and licked, most like a mixture.
r1 is right. If you fucking love cock, crave it, the gag reflex takes care of itself.
Despite what you heard, you should use your teeth more, Not biting, but just scrape a little bit.
no r13, it does not. Amazing what idiocy people spew.
R12 gives the best advice. Pay attention to what he likes. When he responds to what you're doing, keep doing that. Mix it up now and then but pay attention to what he likes.
That's bullshit, r14. NO TEETH!
...my preference is getting the whole of my dick sucked, fucking his face, then have him focus on the head. What makes me cum is jerking off and seeing his mouth/ lips/ tongue working the tip. My cum on his mouth gets me so hot, especially if he kisses me with my own cum on his lips/ tongue.
Three words, OP: pierce your tongue.
Take out your teeth.
Lots and lots of spit helps too. And hot sauce. Kidding.
But yes, you have to love it and love doing it. Nothing worse than a perfunctory blow job with half-hearted attempts at sucking. Be attentive of his reaction and verbal cues. If he's moaning and saying "that's it," or "don't stop," DON'T STOP. Don't change up the technique midway through if you want him to cum quickly.
Pay special attention to the head, I like to tease it with my tongue, wrap my lips around it, blow warm breath on the dick as I suck it. Also, lick the frenulum between the head and shaft. Some guys like when you jack it off and suck at the same time (I know I do), others just like the mouth. Again, pay attention to verbal cues, what makes his legs squirm, etc.
The balls/testicles are not to be ignored. Don't be afraid to put one in your mouth as you jack him off. Learn to massage the taint as you suck too. I've got a lot of guys off with that technique. It takes a long time for me to cum with a blowjob alone, so a guy that knows how to get me off with just their mouth is a truly gifted person.
Lot of info, but its not nicknamed a blow "job" for nothing.
One good rule of thumb I've found seems to work over and over is to tilt my head horizontally as I'm sucking; not sure what it is that makes that work but everyone seems to climax very quickly after I do that. Maybe that makes it easier or softer when penetrating the upper throat??
Use your finger(s) on his hole.
To eliminate gag reflex: you have to relax the back of your tongue. Visualize it lowering itself against your throat to allow more dick in.
Also, look up any video from Hoovermouth on Xtube.com. Best amateur dick-sucker I've ever watched.
Towards the end, if you really want to make him cum, you pump the dick with your hand as you blow him.
pump and blow.
underside. of. cock.
THAT IS ALL.
Use an Altoid. It helps stimulate saliva, and from time to time actually use your lips to, yes...BLOW on the area. I'm not kidding. Works like a charm.
Get the jewelry up front.
Anyone get one of those guys who just silently lays there as you're sucking him?
Usually guys will squirm or grab your head or moan or something but my last trick just laid there all quiet and still until I was done.
Then he said, "that was great!"
Make it clear up front whether you're a 'spits' or a 'swallows'.
More blowjob tips please?
Hire Bradley Cooper.
Work the head of his dick with your tongue while fingering his ass.