So many of them are hot, nice, and down to earth. They look like they'd make great bfs. They take their jobs (and thankfully their workout routines) seriously, but aren't bullies with a badge, which essentially characterizes cops. How can I meet a gay fireman tod date? Where do they hang out in New York City?
OP, date a butcher. They bring home the beef every night!
Anyone know the term used by FDNY guys to describe gays who are hot for them? At NYPD we're known as Cop Suckers.
As the son of a NYC Fireman - and with many childhood friends in the department - let me give you a little insight:
Any and all gay firemen in the NYC area are for the most part totally closeted, because most firemen - contrary to all of that "hero" shit - are complete assholes. And viciously bigoted.
My dad used to complain about the guys he had to work with for years: what pigs they were. Drunks. Racists. The list goes on.
I'm not saying they are all like that. But that is the prevailing culture. Always has been. They're worse than cops these days. (yes, I just said and meant that).
I could assail you with links, but the one below is a perfect example.
There was also the gay couple in jersey whose house was next to a fire station. The firemen there harassed and threatened them incessantly until they had to leave and sue the department.
There was also the brawl on new year's eve in a Staten Island firehouse with firemen beating the shit out of each other in a drunken haze (thank god no houses went up in flames that night!).
Get yourself a nice jewish doctor instead.
[quote]Where do they hang out in New York City?
Let me take a wild guess -- firehouses?
r5, was this the house where a FF was severly injured after being bashed in the head with a chair because they suspected he was gay?
R10 No, the gay (or not) fireman was Mike Silletti, played by Mike Lombardi.
Can't someone start a thread about Sean Eldridge. Do I have to do everything?
In NYC, Ty's bar in the West Village has a firefighters night the first Tuesday of every month.
He was a fireman, R17?
I have heard that volunteer firemen (and many of them are still not bad as far as looks go) in smaller towns have initiation ceremonies for new members that isn't too far different from fraternity initiations complete with paddling/spanking. I have noticed that many firemen have nice shapely rear ends that probably need not only a good spanking but a wild fuck too. Is there anyone who knows more about initiations into volunteer fire departments? Found r5 to be very informative BTW.
She was only the fireman's daughter, but oh how they loved her hot box.
Bal des Pompiers, every July 13-14 in Paris. Yes, the DJs are firemen.
I have had two fire fighters. One was an auburn haired guy who was married. Not gay, stopped for a BJ about once a week for several years. Didn't see him for awhile and then he starting making visits again.
I currently have a married FF who is a very handsome man. He will do anything I ask him to do, very submissive. We get together every few months. About 6'1", 180, black hair, very fair skinned, hairless except crotch. Beautiful full rounded man ass
I have a married fuck buddy who is a volunteer fireman. He he's mid 40s, nice body, killer ass (like a soccer player's), average cut dick. We only get together a couple times a year b/c his wife keeps him on a tight leash. He is fun in bed, likes to make out, likes 69.
I want to ride my bicycle.
I used to have a female friend who was a bit of a fireman groupie. She was a sucker for the image even though they invariably treated her like crap. They'd lie about being married or having girlfriends to sleep with her. Arrogant bullies with God complexes. I guess I'd choose a fireman over a cop but it would be a losing proposition either way.
Light your house on fire. They'll come running.
A lot of precincts have monthly cook-offs when the firemen have a pot luck and charge $15 a plate. They're open to the public and you can meet firefighters that way.
Also most houses work with a particular charity. Volunteer to work on that particular charity drive and they'll be very appreciative.
Former volunteer firefighter
R3, you're a holster sniffer.
So am I.
I've only known two gay firemen - a couple. They were both mellow and climbably tall.
I have grown up with firemen as neighbors - I'm on my third fire fighter neighbor right now. Each has lots of toys; snow mobiles, speed boats, skidoos, motorcycles, etc.
OP, take up a thrill seeker sport and you'll find firemen.
r22, do you ever spank him? How is it throwing a wild fuck up his ass?
Just present your hole at your local firehouse,OP.
I want a hot fireman too. A nice hairy one with a bubble butt that wants to be ploughed hard and deep. The kind that moans like a seal being beaten to death while he rides manmeat. He must keep his hat on while I'm riding his hot fireman mancunt.
My first boyfriend was a fireman. We were together (on and off) for years. Love of my life, wonderful man. His station was in a suburb of LA. He was exactly what you'd fantasize about: Insanely masculine, tall and beefy, a bit of a savior type, a very dominate top (I met him when I was 19, he was 32), the type of guy who'd just build me a book shelf or refinish the deck.
When he came out, he basically was forced to retire (this was right when I met him). It was very difficult for him. Being a firefighter wasn't just his job, it was his identity.
R33 "Dominate" is a verb. "Dominant" is the adjective you want to use in front of the word "top."
More people get this wrong than any word except "looser" when they mean "loser."
It was a typo, R34. I am ever so sorry.
[quote]More people get this wrong than any word except "looser" when they mean "loser."
Not common at all. I've never seen it.
R36, check out collarme.com.
Guys who look to fuck cops are known as "badge bangers" in nyc.
Private detectives tend to be more well-hung, in my experience. There's a reason they call them "private dicks."
OP/whore, please try really hard to suck a hose this weekend and be sure to tell us all the deets.
Post CL ads looking for one.
Who was the NYC area FF who posed for a calendar, then was in an amateur video made by a girl trick that featured his enormous dick? Sculpted eyebrows, I believe.
R5 is completely right about the FDNY. It is a throwback to another time. It is still overwhelmingly white and male. And the ranks are filled with many of Irish descent, who got their jobs through family connections. Just recently a judge ruled that the Department had to change its entrance exams to ensure diversity in the department.
Yes, R42, Michael Biserta. Thanks!
(Maybe not enormous, but it is quite large.)
I don't think they like it if you ask about the size of their hoses.
There's always this guy (bodybuilder/stripper/porn star Rodney St. Cloud) who got canned from FDNY for illegal steroids.
I imagine the occasional gay could be found at Anderson's fire house.
r39, only a member of a police agency can call themselves "detective." "Private Investigator" legally describes the well-hung men you've been with.
R48, how about "Private Dick"?
r43 said "the Department had to change its entrance exams to ensure diversity in the department."
We all know it means lowering the physical and test-taking standards to give jobs to those who shouldn't be hired. People will die thanks to this judge's decision.
I'd like to make a longer and even more inciteful post, but I have to get going to the Saturday slave auction being held down at the town square. I hear you can get some really good deals on Negro farm hands today.
That Michael Biserta guy sounds like an intolerable cunt.
I love firemen. I saw a fireman at a firehouse yesterday walking around lifting weights. He was built buff and tight. So hot. I have had firemen respond to my personal ads before, but what do ya know, they happened to be unattractive to me, not the buff masculine stud type.
masculinity is hot
You want to date fireman?
I marry rich Russian.
Spend days at perfume counter Bloomingdale.
Why to date poor persons?
And I wish I was dating a hot midget. We've all got a sob story, sister.
easy- cut open and count rings
It looks like DL's favorite porn star was a DL regular, before he got drunk and invaded a fire station in Louisville.
My friend's ex-husband is a firefighter. There were some really nice ones but many were absolutely evil. Homophobic, racist, weird issues with women and they will rob your ass while your house burns down. He had drawers full of jewelry that he would sell at those cash for gold places. I considered him one of the "good ones" too. Last I heard he had a "back injury" and is retired with full benefits at the age of 37.
OP, how and when did you first develop a passion for taking care of verbally/physically/emotionally abusive alcoholics? Your type is so specific that it's not every day I come across people who harbor the same deathwish as you.
I've fucked around with a fireman out at the beach. He was just a guy I wanted, turned out to be a fireman, his job. He could've been a clerk in a store. Local married guy, children. We never talked about firefighting. He was just a gay guy to me, a married one in a closet not wanting anyone to know about him, thinking they never would. He'd cruise about, people would follow him, get it on. He doesn't seem to be doing it much lately. Never heard him discussed as gay. I'd see him in town talking with guys a lot & get a twinge of jealousy, I wanted him to be with me. He thought of it as working the troops. He wanted to be fire captain. He got there. He was the appeal, not the job.
I don't think many of you know that many actual fire fighters in real life.
Most of the guys are too stupid to do anything else, including police work. Maybe one out of 20 or 30 has a truly fit body. Most are very average dumbshits.
[italic]Ash holes[/italic], R3?
R65, of course they are.
But the ones we want are the hotties on TV shows like Chicago Fire and in the calendars.
You know -- the ones with the massive, hairless pectorals, the kind you can rest your head on and say, 'Hey, Jake...my head's not too heavy on your chest is it?'
He'd let out a little laugh with a whispered 'shad up, buddy.'
And then he'd kiss my forehead.
[quote]But the ones we want are the hotties on TV shows like Chicago Fire
Those are actors.
R68, I'll compromise.
Join the Fire Island Pines volunteer fire department.
I'm currently fucking a volunteer FF. Monster cock. So big the damn thing can't even stand erect when it's hard.
One of the best fucks I ever had was a cop, tho. Damn.
real (not modeling) pics, please
Any firefighters on Craigslist? Find them, bros!
find some on Craigslist
[quote]I want to date fireman.
Me want explore indefinite articles.
Well I want to date a hair dresser. Skinny, flaming and wears women's clothes.
Firemen, hot, bro
Why not just buy a dalmation and walk it back and forth in front of a fire station? Wearing rubber boots wouldn't hurt. Just rubber boots.
Do firemen still get Dalmations? I think that is old school
It's a combination of hero, masculinity and fantasy.
I dated a fireman in Seattle when I came out. He was a tall, beautiful, muscular, blonde Viking. Wonderful in every way. I went out with him a bunch of times - he always wanted to do me with excuses for why it was only one-way sex. He was religious so I thought that was a reason.
Well - to cut to the chase - he had a very small dick - seriously small - sort of a button. He was hugely embarrassed by it. Things didn't work out between us and I am sure he thought his small dick was the reason and I suppose it was.
i agree with the poster who said many of them are racists, homophobes etc. I have a few on my fb list and they always post right-winged shit.
I have seen firemen in my local drug store and supermarket. They are not hot at all, the ones I see anyways, the older ones always have facial hair, not my thing.
What [R83] said.
Considering the rigorous physical requirements at the academy, lots of FDNY guys with six packs turn into kegs. Bet they can't run up a flight of stairs to save someone's life.
I wish I could find a buff bisexual fireman in DC. The ones who have stepped to me have been unattractive, not the stereotypically hunky muscled firefighter.
I have dated several fire fighters. One was beautiful, he lived with a woman he was not married to and had a child. He called her the bitch. When he came over he was such a fucking sissy queen, begging for me to feed hims some dick and fuck him. It was actually a turn off. Instead of kicking him out I abused him, which isn't really my thing.
They usually have pick up trucks, eat white bread, use Axe body spray and have slightly smoky butt cracks...
What you really need to do OP is grow up.
OP sounds like a 14 yr old girl in 1990 who saw "Backdraft" too many times on HBO.
85, a few years ago a Fire Commish wanted the guys get back in shape. FDNY union said the guys would have to be given paid time off to join gyms. The idea was abandoned.
There are a few firemen in my family. My dad was one. As some have mentioned above, fireman are now just as sleazy, angry and arrogant as cops.
I can honestly say the fireman of my father's generation were probably the last to be honorable and heroic.
There is a squad (?) of firemen that do the 4th St. Santa Monica stairs on a regular basis. Maybe one of them is attractive. The others are all weather beaten to hell.
My ex wanted to be a fireman so badly, he moved from Berkeley to Seattle because he was a tiny (5'6") but burly white guy. He eventually made it in. And yes, he had a great ass.
I am a fire fighter...Oh wait, you want a male fire fighter....Fair enough.....
Female firefighters are hot too
Firemen are ok but I'm more attracted to makeup artists.
A hot All American type guy in my neighborhood is a fireman. Not married, maybe 30 years old. Tall, blonde, blue eyes, almost a country guy type. Very friendly and chatty and will stay and talk your ear off if you run into him. He also goes to the church I rarely go to. It's Catholic. Once he came around trying to get nonactive members to be more active. He stayed a long time, sat with legs spread wide (wearing shorts), lots of staring and looks at me, friendly. He had a boner. I was too stupid and too scared to respond to him. I had given him iced tea and we sat for a long time talking, turns out I had gone to hs with his younger brother. Now I feel really dumb for passing up an opportunity, wondering how I can start something. Some of my friends say they have "heard" he is do-able.