The ratio of tops to bottoms is about 1 to 5. Bunch of silly bottoms running around looking for someone to fuck them.
The disdain and disrespect for bottoms equals the same disdain straights have for women they fuck. It's a shame many gay men still ape the attitudes of straight men.
They're both a minority. Most gay men are versatile.
In my town everyone seems to be a bottom which is fine as I am a top but they are all so persnickety about it that it becomes difficult to get a piece of ass :
No one over 30
Must be generou$
have nine inches or more
no one from the west side
no one on the dl
must be straight
hotel visitors only
no one with dogs (i have allergies)
R5 that's about it!
I'm not single but when I was, being here in Chicago sucked ass. Literally, bitches couldn't be bothered to go more than three or four blocks from where they lived to meet someone.
Chicago's a big city and I could understand if it was two extremes, but I lived a five minute cab ride from some of these guys and they were like, oh no, I can't date anyone TEN blocks away.
Where do you live R5?
Move to LA, its a Tops paradise. Ratio is like 10 to 1 here. Bottoms are not picky, and very slutty. It's got to be the city with the most bottoms per capita. Not exaggerating.
More stories about persnickety bottoms, please!
EVERYWHERE is a top's paradise.
There are at minimum 10 bottoms for every top. In smaller towns it's more like 20 to 1.
Add to that the drama of doing the hookup dance with a guy you think is a top, only for his heels to hit the sprinklers the minute you get into the bedroom.
R10 I find Las Vegas is not...
It seems there are more bottoms than tops... Anywhere.
But why? Any explanation?
Because most straight and/or DL men are tops.
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