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"She looks like a man"

I'm a woman and all through my life since high school, people have remarked that I looked androgynous and in a very hurtful way. I remember back in high school, no one has ever asked me out on a date or complimented me on my looks. Not once. I recall one incident very clearly. Walking down the hallway, a group of guys remarked rather loudly "Is he a guy or girl, I can't tell. From the front, it looks like a guy. From the back, it looks like a woman". I remember also, back in college, when I'd walk past people and they'd stare at me or the one time when this guy said to his friend as they passed me, "oh my god, did you see that girl". And in the computer lab one time, another guy remarked rather loudly, "is that a guy or girl?" How would you deal with this? Sometimes I think that I will never be able to find a mate. No one finds me attractive. And it hurts me a lot when people make fun of my appearances. I sometimes wish I was a guy. Looks don't matter to guys that much. Looks mean a heluva lot to a woman.

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