Confidence = SEXY .
It's only the "pc" thing to say that what's most attractive is a guy who doesn't know it. That's actually bull shit
No, it isn't, R10.
Deformed, R9. I couldn't bear to watch. He probably was hot once.
Memo to flaunters: Not working.
Definitely the hot guys who don't know they're hot.
I was out with a hot friend Friday night (he's straight and married), we were eating dinner at the bar and a woman across the bar bought him a drink. He tried to think of where he knew her from; she didn't look familiar. Then he's thinking I must know her, and the drink was intended for me. I told him she's probably interested in him, but he says "Nah, I'm old and married." (He's 40.) I tell him most women don't care that he's married, only that he's gorgeous. "Nah, shut up," he says, blushing, suddenly uncomfortable.
Honestly has no idea how many heads he turns. Not the brightest guy around, but funny, magnetic personality, big heart, and handsome. He's just very into his family, and completely unaware of his hotness.
R4 I think steroids.
You forgot the most prevalent type among gay men:
Average looking guys who think they're too hot for other average looking guys.
(Why most of you will end up dying alone.)
Of interest to me are those guys that think they are hot but aren't.
Go to any gay bar in a moderate to large sized city.
It accounts for about 75% of the clientele.
PPSM is the absolute authority on what is NOT hot. And she is the absolute authority on douchebaggery.
That's great, R14. See, there ARE guys who don't know they're hot when they clearly are. I'll bet your friend is a real catch (too bad he's married). Can you describe what he looks like? Just curious.
Sorry R16--This is only about men who actually are hot.
I tend to like guys who are potentially hot - a solid jaw line, nice eyes, a cute smile, but have a bad hair cut, maybe a little thick, quirky.
Modesty is hot.