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Sex in Long Term Relationships

I read this article about mismatched libidos between straight couples and there's a bunch of comments from readers revealing their horrible sex lives. In almost all cases, the men are being starved of sex from their female partners, but are not admitting to cheating. Many have to 'schedule' sex sessions. Blech. Some comments: "Havent had sex in over three years. Two children, 6 and 10. They the most important things in my life and I want to be there while they grow up. Trapped is was the feeling. Now it is more a realisation that I have chosen to stay. For me and the children. Still sucks tho." "We still find each other attractive but the desire for sex is not the same as it was when we first got together. We probably have sex 2-3 times a month, she finds that adequate, for me it is not enough." When I was in a relationship (3 years), it was sex pretty much every day or every other day. Does this hold true for guys when you reach 5, 10 or 15 years? Or do I have a barren sex life to look forward to post 40? Guys seem to want regular sex well after their female partners turn off once they have kids.


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