On a first day, how far should you go?

Seriously. Inspired by the answer the question/ask a question thread. I am curious to know what you bitches think.

• First day of what?

• First date, sorry.

• Meth-fueled bareback sex. Anything less would be antisocial.

• LOL @R3. You should go as far as you want, realizing that unless you've known the person for a while, you probably don't have enough information to make a good decision, so a conservative approach is usually best I find. (I don't mean like batshit crazy republican conservative).

• bareback sex is okay, but not meth

• I tend to not go far. Dinner, movie, pub, whatever... I figure if he's interested, and I'm interested, then we should meet a few more times just to see if there actually is chemistry. At my age (41), I'm not all that into hookups, though I'm probably in the minority.

  Just%20an%20old-fashioned%20gay.%20

• I had sex with my boyfriend on our first date. That was 12 years ago. Go as far as what feels right.

• Simple. As far or as little as you want.

• I try to keep things light and innocent. Retain some mystery. No scat, no fisting.

• I had sex on the first night too. 13 years ago. Do it if you want to?

• If he's into fisting, as far as the elbow

• I'll fuck but that's as far as I go have to keep some of the mystery

  anon

• Oops. No ? Intended at the end.

  R10

• Don't swallow.

• after main course it's proper to present your hole

  Ms.%20Manners

• On the first day - let there be light.

  God%20Almighty

• Fiddle dee dee, I play hard to get as long as I can darlin'. Then the sex is hot and can be!

  a%20southern%20bottom

• Had sex on the first date with my partner, almost 22 years ago. But we told our friends we waited till the third date.

• "should"?

• I'll blow a guy on a first date, but I'm saving my excellent home cooking for after we start a relationship!

  Zak

• Fuck first ask questions later

• All the way out of my vagina.

  Mom

• I think you HAVE to have sex on the first date since there might not be a second date.