For those who have been in the military, what is it like? Can one pay for gay prostitutes in the military? What is it like for gays in the military?
OP, I'm gay and in the military, but your question is so broad and silly, I can't really answer it.
As far as prostitutes are concerned, we're prohibited from supporting prostitution and human trafficking.
Maybe the OP meant "millinery".
Which is funny, R1, considering all the military stories of buddies all visiting the whorehouses.
R1, What happened to "R&R?" All military men I know talk about group visits to special "houses" and "circle jerks." Only the very religious, who were constantly harassed as a result, stayed celibate. It was assumed that a gay male would choose a masculine looking female, and pay her to brag about his performance in front of his buds. Those in Viet Nam often supported "temporary wives."