Did anyone see Our America with Lisa Ling last night?
It was the new season premier. It was about the BDSM scene. Frankly, it looks exhausting and not fun at all. Different strokes and all but still it just looks uncomfortable. I like my sex with a bit of comfort involved. The people were all unattractive too.
The worst was the rerun shown before with a segment on swinging in the Bible Belt. Holy shit, the women were all fat cows wearing inappropriately tight clothing. Had to be seen to be believed.
It's rather lost on me why some people need pain in order to feel pleasure, or the need to hurt someone in order to become arroused.
You couldn't tell it by the show but there are some good looking people into BDSM. My sister is into BDSM, and some of the guys she sees are pretty hot. Googel Edward Sonderling (53, looking at least two decades younger and not surgically enhanced)
Interesting R2. He is very youthful looking. Is BDSM just a subset of swinging because they seem to have multiple partners too or is it its own thing?
BDSM can be great -- but you need a very cerebral person to describe why.
It would be nice if they could find people to interview who didn't act as if they suffered from some form of Asperger's or were just socially weird and awkward in some way.
They all came across as just vaguely "strange".
It always seems that older people are into stuff like BDSM. Do people just get kinkier as they age? More comfortable with their bodies and sexuality in general?