Me: someone who doesn't have any money and/or friends.
Someone is intellectually incurious.
Somebody who judges other people based on the number of friends they may or may not have or how much money they may or may not have.
Someone who cares about who losers are
People who call others losers. Grow up, you sound like you're 12 years old.
"Mitt, honey, I am completing a datacenter online questionnaire about you."
A person who will constantly whine about something yet will not take a position or stand on it when given the chance to do so.
What R1 and R4 said.
Calling someone a "loser" is the dumbest, most juvenile thing I've heard today. The moment you call anyone a loser YOU become the "loser".
Sounds like life hasn't kicked you around too much, OP. Once it does, that kind of attitude of 'winners' and 'losers' doesn't seem to fit anymore.
In my 20's I was very 'hierarchical' in my thinking and obsessed with where I ranked in the food chain. I threw the word "loser" around in my mind far too often in my younger days.
Life certainly humbled me as the years went on, but it was only by struggling myself that I was able to learn to have compassion for others who struggled.
Be open to others who have struggles that you don't. Their life may be your worst nightmare but it's their journey and every bit as valid.
If anything, it may take a hell of a lot more inner strength for them keep going and most of us wouldn't be able to endure it.
Listen to r9, OP. He's wise and compassionate. Two traits you obviously lack. You can lose money and friends in a heartbeat but real character can see you through the toughest of times. You need to start working on something other than your bank account and status.
R5 is a winner. Ha!
A loser is anyone that won't have sex with me, a big fucking loser. Know what? The world is full of fucking losers.