...do lesbians have top/bottom sexual distinctions? In my (maybe naive) mind I would've figured a more versatile type situation between two women.
Inspired by one of the Jodie threads in which people are speculating she's the dreaded bossy bottom.
Not a stupid question. (That's "What do lesbians do, anyway?")
Some do, most don't. Older women, butch women sometimes peddle the tiresome "I'm a this, you're a that" strictness. Younger women, hardly ever.
Some really femme women flirt as if they're bottoms and then become really aggressive tops.
95% of the times, it's one big cartwheel.
Wow,r1, impressive reply!!!!
OP, all humanity aside, two voracious button-holes find a way to be twiddled and with all the kissing in the world it's always a guess as to who's in charge. Except, as noted, with role players, although the ageism R1 spouts is the sort of thing one expects from a non-committed, maybe-I'll-marry-a-man-eventually-because-I'm-so-cool asswipe.
Notice how it's the butches and oldies who are tiresome, but the apparent femmes are okay even when they switch into the top role.
Lose the bigotry, Sister.