Are you not allowed to say self-loather on here?

The thread about self-loathing was deleted, so I started a thread asking why that thread was deleted, and now my thread was deleted as well. So much censorship considering it's a gay site where gay issues are discussed.

• Insanity is doing the same thing over and over while expecting different results. Loon.

• R1, you mean like you constantly being a bitch?

• let;s see if we can go 3 for 3

• Being a bitch works. Creating always-deleted threads, apparently, does not.

• It does work if it annoys the webmaster every time he has to delete it. And how has being a bitch worked out for you romantically? How about with friends? Yep, being a bitch gets you no love except on anonymous boards. How sad for you.

• Web master does not want to upset the flyover idiots who now make up the majority of posters on DL.

• i was wondering the exact same thing. must a touchy topic for those that wear that kind of lace.

• Yeah I was upset it was deleted. What was wrong it? I thought it was a decent argument that was going on. Are we not allowed to talk about how yes self-loathing very much exists in a lot of gay guys and to some of us we think it is evident on this board?

• You may loathe yourself, but you may not speak of it. You may recognize it in others, but may not accuse.

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• Most of those hurling self-loathing accusations are morons who use the accusation on anyone who doesn't agree with their views.

• "Privacy Policy / Terms and Conditions as a person who identifies as a member of the greater LGBT communities or as a person who may have same-sex encounters without identifying with any community, you may have a strong interest in keeping your personal orientations or behaviors private." this forum endorses the closet.

• Self loathing is just pejorative used by my way or the highway types. I admired the realism - and kindness - in this sentence from the link on the Jodie thread: Any step a gay person takes to hide their identity that they wouldn't take to hide the fact that they're, say, Irish, vegetarian or left-handed is probably not a neutral quest for privacy but reflects their own doubt about just how OK it is to be gay. It's a complicated, individual process for all of us. We'd do well to remember that even if almost all of us know out is best in the end.