His other good quote there is "In drag, I look like a horse!!"
The husband wears a kilt, no?
I adore Alan.
What does it mean?
Most monogamous couples don't even know what Grindr even is. This is not good.
I'm pretty sure every gay on earth knows what Grindr is.
but what is a non grinder clause?
Is it like a non santa clause?
[quote]Most monogamous couples don't even know what Grindr even is
LOL. Most monogamous couples are not.
Alan's husband probably needs to keep him on a leash for his own protection. I have heard that Alan is notorious for his really big dick. You know what a draw a really big dick is. Like swatting flies I say.
Totally believe it. Alan, if anything, would scruff!
Oh jesus people. Is it hard to believe that gay men can settle down if they so please.
It can be done.
One of the photos here is a photo of Cumming and his husband:
This thread is useless without a picture of Alan's big willy.
Obviously
Seriously FUG
When you have to have a non-Grindr clause in your relationship at least one of the partners is already feeling trapped or will feel trapped pretty soon and that non-Grindr clause turns into a 'baby, it is not you, it is me / let us stay friends!' exit.
The willing cocks and holes are always bigger and more insatiable over there than here where I am now. That's just my luck that I am stuck in here, damn!
The%20grass%20is%20always%20greener%20...
Yeah. Ick.
{quote]but what is a non grinder clause?
Use your imagination, toots.
Is it odd that I think it's sweet to hear a public gay figure say that they're exclusive / no hook ups?
For those still wondering.... it probably means the couple is open but as long as they're not constantly on grindr (and other apps) hunting cock. More of an "if the opportunity arises, sure!" clause.
the quote from the article: ""Do you have an old-fashioned commitment? I.e., you're not on Grindr?" I wondered, sheepishly. Cumming laughed and said: "We're very, very old fashioned. We have a no-Grindr clause!"
Well, I guess old-fashioned could mean they do their extra-marital dirt the old-fashioned pre-Internet way: they go to bars and pick tricks up? Just sayin...
Anonymous
I was trying to find a pic of Alan Cummings bulge. I have seen them but can't find any free ones at the moment. A link led to this page. You scroll down through many fine bulges of celebs. By time I got to the bottom I didn't care. There is a link for more but I was too stimulated to continue. Hoping to gets some action today.
I didn't know what Grindr was until I read about it on DL. Never used it, it kinda freaks me out.
What about Scruff? Can the bf use that?
It's hard imagining anyone wanting to pick up Alan Cumming on Grindr at his age.
The beginning of the end
I'm thinking what he means is he's not actively looking because his next sentence was that they had a true partnership. I imagine that if he or his partner hooks up with anyone else, it's more organic like they just happened to meet or work with someone they're attracted to. They don't do something so calculating and crass as to advertise their wares. After all, he did use the words very twice, i.e. they're very, very old fashioned.
I'm pretty sure I've heard Alan Cumming say he's not monogamous a few times.
R21, I think that is what he's saying...
Does Alan Cummings still look like he doesn't wash?
Grindr is like fast food or take-out while hooking up in bars, bathhouses, and sex clubs are the restaurants.
Kinda OT a friend saw Alan Cumming's new film 'Any Day Now' and didnt stop raving about it
