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Worried about possibly Cheating on Boyfriend

I love, LOVE my boyfriend of 16mos. He's wonderful and perfect in all ways but one. He's a complete bottom. I'm versatile. We have said we'd work on it; We've tried Viagra, cognitive therapy, how-to books... he says it's a mental thing and gets very nervous when he attempts it. He deflated even with Viagra. We've talked about my fears and how I think about sex with other guys, but we are completely monogamous. It hurts me to even think about ending our relationship over this, but I am very afraid that I will stray which is something I do not think is acceptable. What do I do?

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