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How do you manage your sex life?

This is a question primarily for middle-aged (or older) gay man who are single, or attached but in ope relationships. How do you manage your sex lives? How do you find sex partners? I'm 46, still in relatively good shape and relatively handsome. I'm mostly a top, but my penis may as well dry up and fall off for the lack of action I've been getting lately. When I was younger there was no shortage of sex partners. But now I'm lucky if I get laid once a month. I've decided this must stop and I need to have more sex. I'm a man. I have needs. How do you conduct your sex lives? Do you have regular sex buddies? Hook up online? Go to the baths? Jerk off alone? I used to have one or two sex buds but those relationships always ebb and flow. Eventually we get bored with each other and it fizzles. I have all the hook up apps on my iPhone. Grindr, Scruff, ManHunt, and Squirt. They're all kind of fun in their own way but I rarely end up actually hooking up with anyone. And when I do meet someone it's inevitably disappointing. They look nothing like their pics and aren't nearly as fun as they appear. Now, the baths. I've been to Steamworks in my city and I have to say that I have had the most luck hooking up here. There's something really practical and matter of fact about places like this. Everyone is there for the same reason and wants it at the same time. Convenient. No muss, no fuss. Now if only I can get over the ickiness factor that I feel after I leave. And for the record I'm healthy and always play safe. Frankly I'm a little surprised that sex is so hard to find these days. It used to be everywhere.

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