"I Want to Destroy a Family"

to quote the housewives of New Jersey. I spent three years working for a lawyer who never met a dick he didn't suck. I arranged half of them. Now that I finally got a new job...I want to destroy him. I have letters, emails, photos, everything. Shoould I send them just to his wife or his teenage and adult children also?

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• "Mother, May I Sleep With Danger...Ous Baby Shampoo"

• Why do you want to do that, OP? If you do anything, leave the kids out of it.

• OP, life isn't like "Revenge," and you aren't Emily Thorne. Quit it with the melodrama already.

• You want to destroy him because you arranged his sexual encounters? Is that it? Or is there more you're not telling? If not, you are one seriously fucked up douche bag, OP.

• no.....I want to destroy him (and his wife) for the hell they put his employees through and still do. plus it would be so easy....did I mention they are West Side Los Angeles Persians (see other thread)

  op

• Just walk away and get on with your life. It's no longer your concern. Your bitterness is so apparent. It's already eating away at your soul.

• Better idea: hold on to everything for one year. See how you feel then. You can always use this info later if you really need to. It's better to really think through the possible consequences, for a long time, than to rashly do this (even though he might deserve it). You will always have the possibility, but you can't undo it if you rush in without careful planning. Just give it time and keep your files. Pre-meditation, not impulse.

• Holding onto everything for one year will also make it harder for him to find out who's behind the campaign of destruction. This is very important, as Mr. Bad Lawyer sounds like he can afford a hit man.

• OP, send it to his parents.

• Post links to the pictures here on DL, OP, and then we can better advise you.

• A resentment is like peeing your pants: everyone can see it, but only you feel it. Let it go.

  Jimmcf

• I agree - post a sample here for us to consider. If not photos them a writing sample will suffice.

• So, what happened?

• Do it!~!!

• OP, obviously you need your own life. Then you won't feel the need to fuck with the lives of others.

• Evidence may not be as air-tight in this era of photoshop. You may get in over your head if he can explain away the "proof", and then you'll be on the defensive.

  Victoria%20Grayson%27s%20unmovable%20brow

• Are you sure his wife doesn't already know about his extracurricular activities? And may be fine with it? Rich wives in long marriages are sometimes bored with their husbands & prefer to be left alone so they can just enjoy the material & social benefits of their positions without being bothered by the men.

• My wonderfully crazy great aunt always said, "Sure I'll bury the hatchet.....in your head." Words to live by, I say. But, my whole family is crazy, so don't listen to me.

• Blackmail is a good way to become wealthy!!!

  Lana%20Kane

• No r10, send it to HER parents.

• I have an ex-friend who screwed me over, 20 years ago. I still have fantasies about getting back at him - but that's where I keep it .....as a fantasy. It's when you let the obsession take over you , and you contemplate doing something for real, that you're in trouble. It is fascinating that Karma usually has a way of working out , and those who do damage, have it returned upon them.

  Maryanne%20Williamson

• Send them to the opposing counsel.