It's happening again

I am getting the hornies once again. Now that is not bad but I am in a VERY long term relationship and that urge to have sex with someone other than my partner is upon me again. I have never cheated but when I get like this it's hard not too. Sadly there are no threesomes allowed or open relationship. Sadly I have to weather the storm once again. This happens to me around 3 times a year and every time it gets worse. Drats!

• Whore. People have died so you can have a legitimate, recognized relationship. And you just want to go back to cruising rest stops, where the fundies think you belong. Mind over matter! There is more to life than sex!

• that is for your life R1, don't put your stinkin views on everyone.

• Not everyone is in the same place mentally as you R1. Your lack of compassion... SUCKS!

• If sexual freedom is important to you as much as or more than a relationship then perhaps you need to evaluate the relationship you are in as it isn't an open relationship and perhaps not suitable for you, or your partner. If that isn't the case, then think about how if you had sex with someone else would it just satisfy an itch or would it actually make a difference in an important way. It's a matter of which outweighs the other.

• I could've written OP's post. I'm dyin' here...

• I count three whores on this thread so far...

• whores rule.

• You only live once. If you can find a way to DO it without hurting anyone, then why would you deny yourself that? Then, again, how in hell would you be able to do it WITHOUT hurting your partner?

• Well if he never finds out and I keep my mouth shut he won't get hurt.

• You want to have your cake and eat it too, OP. I know the feeling. Most of us do. Let's go over your alternatives. 1. Flirt and fantasize, but hold off on actually cheating. 2. Cheat, and hope you don't get caught. If you've really got a good thing going, I'd recommend 1.

• I feel very bad for your partner. Poor guy ended up with a self-centered whore like you, OP.

• You're right, OP/R9, he'll never find out.

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• R5 - Meet OP. OP meet R5. Seriously, I'd go with #1. I'm in a 20 year plus relationship and we've been all over the map during our relationship. Open, semi-open, 3-ways. They all have their drawbacks but truly cheating - cheating - you really need to think about. Before you fuck, assuming that you truly love your significant other, please imagine the look on his face, the pain in his heart when he finds out what you did. If you keep something from him and if you share it with other people but not him. You better be able to bear that because I will tell you that no fuck (at least to me) is worth having to see that pain in someone's eyes and know that you are fully responsible for it. Cheating is very personal.

• Why are you hating on him for being horny? He admitted that he will just ride it out and won't cheat, so why is it so terrible for him to admit to the craving? How can he be a whore if he isnt having sex. Jesus, some of you bitches remind me of Piper Laurie in Carrie

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• Thanks R14 No I have never cheated. Always scared if the right person hit on me and I was really horny... That's what scares me. I could always cheated with a bi married man. LOL!

• [quote]Well if he never finds out and I keep my mouth shut he won't get hurt. If that's your attitude to your long term relationship, you're basing it on lies. Whether you get found out or not is a nasty, selfish way of dealing with it. By all means have an open relationship if you both want it. If you want to have a free sex life that isn't with just one person then do it and enjoy it. Just don't deceive someone by deluding yourself that it's so he doesn't get hurt.

• I wasn't hating on him. Just warning because I've been there.

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• The mo speaks the truth. Homosexuals want all the rights but none of the responsibilities that come along with it. Good think Obama won, he's the king of "no personal responsibility for anyone.: Of course seeing his father ran off and let his white mother and white granny raise him, he has an excuse for that logic

• So what you are all saying is that you are perfect and never thought about cheating let alone do it? Some of you must have cheated, maybe not planned.

• [quote]Why are you hating on him for being horny? He admitted that he will just ride it out and won't cheat, so why is it so terrible for him to admit to the craving? Yeah, people get cravings, but it seems more than admitting that. [quote]Well if he never finds out and I keep my mouth shut he won't get hurt. As for R18, do you really think that cheating is only something gays do?

• If you do choose to cheat sooner or later your partner will find out. Hopefully it's not from an STD. Even if you think you're safe wearing a condom during fucking, herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis can still be transmitted by unprotected oral sex.

• Eldergay Sex Thread.

• Steve was weak and loosed the raven on the world! And the raven was called sin! Say it! The raven was called sin!!

• One of these days you'll give in (sounds like it's coming soon). After you cheat you'll be overcome with guilt and you'll spill the beans to your bf. He will dump you. You'll meet someone new and eventually do the same thing to him.

• So just fuck somebody, OP. r21 Grow up.

• R25, my partner is +ve though his partner doing as you suggest. Live in the real world rather than some pretence of sexual liberation based on heterosexual male behavior.

• R18? I'm not a homosexual.

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• R25 = twat

• Wow. None of you fags have straight guy friends, clearly. If you think this is strictly a gay thing then you're all complete fucking idiots. Straight married guys fantasize, flirt and jerk to porn too. They also cheat. I sympathize with you OP. Hang in there.

• I'm so sick of this "straights do it too" false equivalence. Just because straight married guys cheat doesn't mean they should be emulated. And it is much harder to contract HIV through heterosexual sex.

• Frankly, I'd rather the OP bitch about it here than go out and do it. So bitch away, OP, we're listening.

• If you do it or not is one thing but don't you just want to suck every hot guys cock you see. But I guess everyones desire if different. I am a slut at heart and there is nothing wrong with that!