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Question about cheating

I cheat and while I could stop, I don't want to. Is anybody else like this? I feel like shit, except when I'm getting laid, and I'm getting pressure from my two best friends to straighten up or smarten up or something because they like my partner. When I was younger I loved the sexual freedom of being gay. I still do. My partner and I have been together three years and we have different sexual needs. He's not into anything except us and I see it as we're still pretty hot and only mid thirties...we've got tons of time to be dead eldergays holding hands and watching TV. We're totally compatible in every way except sexually. He doesn't want to do three ways and he sure won't go open. He says I need to grow up. But I love the sex too much. I'm get really pissed off when I get pressure to change. We have an excellent relationship except for the different sexual needs. Fuck, we're not dead, we're men. Is anybody else cheating because they don't have an alternative other than walking away, which would be stupid when 90% of the relationship is awesome?

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