Im 55 yo and HIV- but...

my CL trick just emailed me and said he went in for a test and they told him they wanted him to come in to talk... what if he is poz, and now im poz after all these years. wouldnt that suck to convert this late in life? i never even got herpes.

• RIP OP.

• Whore.

• At least you got some good bangs.

• CL is the bottom of the barrel, what did you expect??

• So OP is old enough to know better, but still has unprotected sex with a random hookup he met online. The moral of the story is that young whores eventually become old whores with AIDS.

• [quote]wouldnt that suck to convert this late in life? I probably sucks more to be so old and yet still so unwise.

• im sorry, what is the "top" of the barrell, R4, where alley cats like you go to only have high class whoring experiences and all the whores are "clean"?

• I bet it's syphilis. Not something you exactly want, but fortunately it's a reasonably straightforward cure.

• Damn, Damn, Damn!

  Florida%20Evans

• The big question, OP, is why have you been having unprotected sex the hole time? That's suicide to play raw with anyone, especially a low-life CL trick.

• R7, Manhunt has a higher quality selection of guys, and the trash is largely weeded out since MH is primarily a pay site.

• You exchange email addys with a CL trick? You certainly aren't very smart. I wouldn't worry about HIV though. At your advanced age, a stroke or hypertension will most certainly get you first.

• OP never said he had unprotected sex, but if he did, he's old enough to know better (and fully aware that actions have consequences).

• I guess you didn't use condoms? If you are now HIV positive, well, at least you had a good run. Now some new life changes are upon you that make your life quite different. Not that many people are up to that challenge, but I am sure you will.

• Don't they only give HIV test results in person so he'd have to go in anyway?

• Look on the bright side: At least you didn't break a hip.

• Since it may be a very recent exposure you can get on medicine ASAP and it probably won't shorten your life at all. I know someone who was born with it and is now in their early 20's.

• You better watch your step, OP. The eldergay police on DL is holocaust-trained. These vicious dweeb queens are said to possess a microwave that seats 40. If they find out who and where you are, you'll be toast.

• Yes, OP, that's what it would do, suck. After all these years, it turns out that you have hidden shallows. The only way you can describe the consequences of your monumental stupidity is to say that it would suck? One wonders how you have survived to 55, having unprotected sex with strangers. The world has known about the etiology of AIDS for at least 25 years. And you're still doing that?

• Safe sex is your responsibility you fucking idiot

• OP, you sound fat. Look on the bright side. At least you'll lose all that weight you'd been hoping for shed for the past 40 years.

• Why are all you harpies insisting OP had unprotected sex?

• OP - When were you last tested?

• [quote]You exchange email addys with a CL trick? No, Rose, they communicate telepathically.

• R21, you sound like a moron. At least op can go on a diet.

• Wow, you guys are brutal. What would your mothers say?

  Mom

• um, r22, why else would he be worried about having been infected? Obviously these were raw encounters. Sadly so many guys bareback nowadays, it's really tough to find the sympathy for them when they seroconvert.

• No one asked the most important question (after "Did you use protection?) Did you bottom for him? My guess is yes, but if you didn't, I really wouldn't worry too much.

• WHO CARES. Whether or not you're HIV+ has already been decided, you knowing or not knowing isn't changing anything. Fortunately Obama has made a whole new system where now instead of contributing to society, you can go on SS and Food Stamps and Obamacare and sit at home all day, go on Grindr and spread a disease which is 100% preventable.

• Of course OP's a bottom, r28. How many tops do you know who start sentences with lower-case letters?

• Damn r29, that sounds great! Imma go get me some AIDS. OP, send me your trick's e-mail addy.

• You are really twisted r29. I'm not saying I don't know some people who do that, but most of the HIV+ people I know work for a living. I didn't catch that r30. Would his "i's" be dotted with little hearts if he had hand-written his post?

  r28

• Who EMAILS anymore?!

  Gayling%20

• Is OP dead yet?

• R15, when I got tested I got the results over the phone. R29 must be one of those freeper trolls that's been shitting all over the site lately.

• r29 has posted the same crap in other threads, notably the political ones. She's a master at the cut-and-paste. Pay her no heed.

• r29 is a freeper troll. He's also r7 in the Brenda Fricker thread.

  http://www.datalounge.com/cgi-bin/iowa/ajax.html%23page:showThread%2C12054515%2C1

• That's such an ugly thing to say R29. Shame on you. If you played safe OP, you have nothing to worry about. You're 55, you've seen the HIV information every gay man should know, and I assume you are mature and smart enough to practice safe sex.

• I'm tired of these stupid Amerikunts acting like Obama fucking invented the welfare system. Are you out of your fucking mind? You cannot possibly REALLY be that stupid, can you?

• OP's post doesn't cover the most important issue. THE TOWEL SITUATION. What about the towel? Were you allowed to use one of his? Did you have one for him? Were they soft or like sandpaper? Did they smell? Were they fresh? I mean really OP, so many unanswered questions.

• Was this the trick that takes too long in the shower? Maybe he was spreading his bugs on the toilet seat, where OP encountered them?

  No Fool Like....

• um, I believe the punctuation mark you are grappling forat the end of your second sentence, 41 is the period, not the question mark. I love it when an illiterate calls someone else a fool. BWWW AAA hahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahahhahahahaha hahahaahah hahahahah hahahah

• What's "CL?"

• Craig's List. It's an advertising site where the desperate go in order to get laid by strangers.

• [quote]The big question, OP, is why have you been having unprotected sex the hole time? Is that a pun or are you asking us to here you out?

• r42 Really? "um" "forat" "grappling for" BWWW AAA Pot, meet kettle. Feel better now?

  No Fool Like...

• um, dropping a space bar tap is hardly the same as thinking a delcarative sentence merits a question mark... just saying

• The Hole Time was my favorite gay bar in the 70's

• Reading the responses on this thread, it's truly a wonder that the rest of society gives a fuck what happens to gay people. You are probably all the same ones who scream that Romney is a sociopath. Well, look no further. This thread is full of Romneys. You are all entirely devoid of empathy. You are horrible human beings.

• Damn op. you should have known better but I do hope you are negative.

• Did you get your test resluts?

• it's called perspective. at 55 i would have thought you would have acquired it. i guess not. seroconverting would suck? well what about being diagnosed with cancer or any other potentially terminal illness. in this thing called life, you take its punches and dig your heels in mary. where's your fucking grit?

• You almost surely have caught AIDS, Mary OP, so the logical next step is to just kill yourself now!

  Mrs%20Patrick%20Campbell

• double what [49] said. I'll never meet any of you hateful trolls because I don't hang out under bridges or shop at Kaftan Kabana and the only shut-ins I visit are through charity organizations, which you are too good for.

• newsflash to the self-righteous: we're all human. congratulations on never making any but the smartest, healthiest, rightest choices every second of every day. your livers, lungs, cavity-free teeth, lack of spare tire, 20/20 eyesight, original face and most of all, the words you use speak volumes.

• so much for the so-called housing crunch, so many glass houses on this thread.

• OP, just make the most of whatever the outcome is, and know you're going to fine. you're living in a time with much better treatment and support for HIV than ever before. I've been positive since '92, and came very close to death twelve years later mainly because of fear and self loathing. now I'm in the best shape of my life, thanks to better meds, a better headspace, and YES, government assistance, which I've been paying into all of my working life.

• Silly,OP. Haven't you seen those AIDS ads with the guys throwing their arms into the air as they smile joyfully into the sun? It's a new day. There are so many medications or there that can help toy live a carefree and AIDS full life.