"You don't fucking wanna know"
DYING with laughter. So young though. I wonder if it is learned in some respects? I.e. is it a lack of originality about how to 'project' gayness?
"Bitches who are cocky as shit, you can go fucking mop my floors."
Ann Romney, if she could curse.
our EFRF has evolved past our hetero brothers and freed us from their bondate (Estrogen Fermone Resistance Factor).
Lord & Taylor.
Holy shit. I thought that was a lesbian.
He has over 150k twitter followers
To be honest I think he has a gender confusion disorder.I wouldn't call it gay as much as I would confused. Not about being gay but about being a male.
How old is this kid, 12? Also, R5, why on *earth* did you think this was a lesbian? How many lesbians do you know who literally worship Britney Spears?!
He's really an appalling little boy. He's clearly learned how to speak like that from representations of gay men and sassy teen stars in the media, and thinks he's being sophisticated and clever.
He must be from a well-to-do family--that's a nice leather headboard behind him.
He is too young to receive the treatment that would cure some of his more irritating mannerisms. Certainly the part of it that would prevent that obnoxious voice from continuing.
So, in the meantime, at least he feels empowered.
Kill it, kill it now.
Where is this kid's blog?
[quote]He's really an appalling little boy. He's clearly learned how to speak like that from representations of gay men and sassy teen stars in the media, and thinks he's being sophisticated and clever.
In other words, the producers of "The New Normal" and "Partners" are fighting over who gets to sign him to a long-term contract.
The next Chris Crocker. He'll be doing bareback porn with old men by his 18th birthday.
I think he's tremendous
Isn't this what we've been working for? The ability for this kid to be himself and not apologize for it? Yeah, he's snotty, but who isn't at that age.
"I look so good from this angle. I look like Jesus."
Sorry, but that made me laugh.
When I watch him, as much as it pains me to admit, I see aspects of myself in his personality. For instance his mind is very highly excitable. He'll make an outlandish, extravagant, theatrical event out of nothing. I do that too quite often and can't figure out why. I usually feel like I have ton of energy building up inside me that I need to get out or else I'll explode. Seriously though--are gay brains more excitable than non-gay brains?
He also seems to jump from one demeanor (or almost one personality) to another from one minute to the next. It's like he doesn't know who *he* is so he takes on this hodgepodge of charactertures he's picked up from pop culture over the years. Is this a personality disorder? Borderline perhaps? Or just normal for a young kid like that? I really want to know.
If none of this makes any sense, I blame Ambien.
Personality comes from both genes and nurturing.
But you knew that.
"We" weren't necessarily born with that.
But you knew that.
No, actually I did not. But you knew that.
[quote]This is a relatively recent phenom. In my day (50 years ago,) no one was ever this gay at that age. It was simply not safe. Nowadays .. look for some real flaming from the new ranks.
Recent? There was always at least one person like him in my school (70s) and he could put this little girl to shame, believe me!
This kid is going to have a very difficult teen years. How many Mitt Romneys in high school are going to set him straight?
Where are his parents? A 13y/o boy shouldn't be over-exposing himself on YouTube and other social media this young. Of the 150K Twitter followers in r6's post, how many do you think are pedophiles? How many pedophiles would you say are watching his videos?
very typical gay pre-teen.
[quote]He also seems to jump from one demeanor (or almost one personality) to another from one minute to the next. It's like he doesn't know who *he* is so he takes on this hodgepodge of charactertures he's picked up from pop culture over the years. Is this a personality disorder?
More likely an after effect of generations that have grown up learning their social skills from internet video clips, youtube, blogs, message boards and chat rooms. It's been responsible for a huge increase in ADHD among other things.
I'm more concerned by the pedophiles than his demeanor or mannerisms. r32, I don't think it's very typical gay pre-teen at all.
I want to slap him, hard. Hopefully, he's on meds because he's got more ticks than a mangy mutt.
r25 is priceless!
We had a thread about femme gays a while back and a lot of people agreed with this theory: the gay brain might be more similar to female than male or equal parts of both, and then the testosterone is still the same as any male, so you get this super exaggerated and aggressive version of feminine behavior. Many straight boys his age use sports to channel the testosterone, but he uses this.
Whoever posted "Pre-emptive Strike" is right.
Aside from the plausible biology, r36, how much in your face flaming is actually defense by offense?
It's the result of deeply wounded boys who've taken too much for too long from too many, especially those closest, who should be nurturing, not hating.
I think he's pretty quick witted for a little guy. LOL @ R25.
He swears in front of his mom, who appears to be unfazed.
[quote]He's clearly learned how to speak like that from representations of gay men and sassy teen stars in the media, and thinks he's being sophisticated and clever.
That's what I figured, too. When I was a young gayling, shows like Roseanne, "The Golden Girls," and Fran Fine helped shape my humor and attitude. And now that there is even more gay representation in the media (albeit bitchy femme portrayals), I think a lot of femme-inclined gaylings look to these for inspiration. No different from straight boys emulating WWE wrestlers or their favorite sports stars.
People that identify or associate with a group adapt the speech and mannerisms of the group.
In the US, men seldom cross their legs at the knee, it isn't seen as manly. Yes, I know, Matt Lauer does. Matt isn't a steel worker he is a dandy. Most men cross put one ankle on the other knees if they do cross.
In Europe of course it is common to see a group oe men sitting all crossed legged at the knee.
[quote]Most men cross put one ankle on the other knees
Where do you hang out, the local moose lodge?
I never understood the leg crossing thing...it's WAY more comfortable doing the "European-style" leg cross than the heterosexual male leg cross. And that's saying a lot coming from a guy with a huge penis!
So then...how much of our personalities is actually US? And how much is what we've simply picked up from elsewhere and mimicked? Sad.
I'm sorry but there is nothing more than a boner killer than gay men who act like women. I'm gay,masculine (hate that term straight acting it makes no sense and I'm more masculine than most straight guys I know), and attractive (used to model in my late teens/early twenties), and I'm constantly being hit on by annoying feminine guys especially when they find out that I am gay, there is this one dude I work with who's always flirting with me and asking me to hang out with him at the gay bars, I also told him that I'm in a relationship but he doesn't care and told me it wouldn't last. It has gotten to the point where my best buddy and gym partnet (whose straight and hot but engaged) is on lookout for me at work everytime he sees him coming and I hide from him cause his flaming ass is that annoying. Funny thing is all these flamers bitch and moan when masculine gay guys and straight guys don't give them the time of day.
Gurrrrl, you are gonna be gettin' some replies for that one R63!!
Masculine dudes are nothing to trip over, they too squeal like bitches when they get that ass spread open!
r63 = BASIC BITCH
R65 I'm a top for the record. And this is EXACTLY the attitude that I'm talking about, O can barely tolerate cattiness and bitchiness in women let alone men. That is why I'm gay because I love MASCULINITY in myself and others, gay men should be masculine by definition alone because there's nothing more manly than 2 dudes having sex it's testosterone overdrive. Unfortunately most younger gays think they have to act like women, it's all wrong.
Speak for yourself, R66. I'm a top too and happen to like somewhat feminine guys. Oh well, more bottoms for me I guess!! And seeing as how gay men have feminized brains, it's really no surprise that many of us exhibit feminine behavior. I guarantee if we checked your iPod you wouldn't appear nearly as masculine as you're proclaiming to be.
I like my bottoms to be on the fem side as well. Masculine gays can be very sexy. But when it comes down to sex, fem guys generally are less rigid and really let themselves get off on the dick.
[quote]Oh well, more bottoms for me I guess!!
I'm looking forward to the day when one of R67's "fem bottoms" flips him over and TEARS. HIS. ASS. UP.
That's never even come close to happening, R69. And if I ever were going to bottom, I'd prefer a masculine top. Being a top, however, I agree with R68. He knows what he's talking about.
[quote]there is this one dude I work with who's always flirting with me and asking me to hang out with him at the gay bars, I also told him that I'm in a relationship but he doesn't care and told me it wouldn't last.
r63 you are THREATENED by feminine guys. Let me tell you, fem gays pick up on that shit like blood hounds. If you werent so insecure about being around fem guys then your coworker would not even pester you like that. He is harassing you because he knows you will squirm and act like you are now (like a douchebag) when he talks to you. Stop being such a cunt and he wont bother you.
R71 you don't know what you're talking about? When he started aty company everyone knew he was gay because it was obvious, so I went out of my way to introduce myself to him and make him feel welcomed I also told him I was gay l, he was surprised and asked me if I qas out at work I said yeah and told him I had a boyfriend. Since then he's been repeatedly sexually harassing me and even checking my schedule to see when I'm working, he's met my boyfriend and told me I should dump him. I've been nothing but nice and cool with this dude, but now it's starting to really get out of hand, to the point where I avoid him at my own job. I've always been a stand up guy but enough is enough, he needs to show some respect to me and leave me the fuck alone. Some of the shit he said if he said it outside of work I would have been throwing punches, especially when he KNOWS that I have a boyfriend.
Oh R72 aren't you the regular Sally Struthers, showing pity on the poor queen at work by introducing him like a big gay ambassador.
R72 who the hell is Sally Struthers? The point I'm trying to make is that a lot of queeny gay guys throw themselves at guys who aren't interested in them, whether their straight or gay but into masculine guys, and when you politely turn them down they get real pissy and start talking shit behind your back like little girls, and even saying real fucked up sexual shit to you. Then when you confront them on it they play the victim card and act like their being bullied. People like that annoying dude at work are the number 1 reason why gay men won't be accepted by people. Now I know how attractive straight men feel when delusional queens sexually harasd them, it makes you just wanna handle it like a man and beat the crap out of them.
[quote]When he started aty company everyone knew he was gay because it was obvious, so I went out of my way to introduce myself to him and make him feel welcomed I also told him I was gay
Even though you were nice to him, he could probably read through your bullshit, just like Im reading you now. He could tell at hello that you didnt really like him for who he is and he turned that shit on you.
As always, the quality of the reactions to males of any age who do not conform to imposed standards of masculinity shock me. A kid who is outre silly, irritating, funny, smart, naive, spoiled and rather brilliant does not deserve the kind of homophobic-from-gay-mouths crap we hear.
I wouldn't want to spend five seconds in the same room as this child. But I think it is fine for him that he is what he is.
R11 calling for a "cure" based on societal repression - at best - is among the more disgusting glimpses into exactly what kind of spirit infests these posts. i want the boy to mature on his own based on positive experience, helpful social models, social support and generous instincts. That's what I want for all children.
OP, my question to you is, "It's a combination of nature and nurture, like everything else."
To his mother, though, my question is, "With all celebration for your child being who he is, do you think it is responsible parenting to permit this level of self-publicity, and what does that tell the world about you?"
About him I know enough.
- No More Tears! ALL CAPS makes it look to me like you're compensating for a shortcoming by shouting.
why not allow everyone their own preferences within their orientation, who are we to judge other people's preferences? it your co-worker is being rude, isn't that the offense?
some people do get off knowing they are annoying someone when they realize it's going to get a reaction. quit hiding from him and stop freaking out and maybe he'll get bored of trying to goad you.
tell him if he doesn't quit interrupting your work duties that you'll start documenting his rudeness and take it to a higher up.
re lohanthony... nature, nurture- people always point at the parents, but we're all subject to our environment.
some of us try to hide parts of ourselves by blending in (self censoring straight acting) and some of us rebel by going overboard.
how much of this kid's persona is his authentic self is not the point- that he chooses to express himself the way he does is his choice and not ours to judge. as he goes through life he may make changes to how he presents himself for whatever reason.
we're all responsible for our own behavior, we can't change others' behavior, no matter how 'right' we want to be
Why haven't you reported him for sexual harassment then R72? Like the attention more than you want to admit?
That video at r54 when he is simulating a blow job while in drag is just....too...much.
I am in awe of you, r63. You are so masculine, you're practically a lesbian!
r80 sounds just like the asshole r63 is describing.
Maybe he's born with it. Maybe it's Maybelline.
Do you guys think his humor will mature when he does? Will he then be clever and ironic?
Sperm/semen being ejaculated into ur anus and beyond...that's actually something I wonder about, does the sperm actually make it into the lower large intestine? Are the sperm cells confused when they don't see any eggs there (except maybe digested remains of scrambled eggs for breakfast?) but only the digested food matter readying itself for expulsion?(aaaaaaaah, out we go again into the toilet--we only just got here--Large Intestine we hardly knew ye).......
Sure, he's obnoxious and potentially just another nasty queen in the future.... but I must say youtube and the like really has provided a forum for folks who are different (across the board) and, yeah as someone else said, empowerment. There was a time he'd been a shy beat up outcast at that awkward age and he looks ready to take on all comers, if not in a fistfight than with attitude and brains. In a weird way, it's progress that he's so free that young (and that there are lots like him on the net).
New video just dropped, bitches! And just when you thought he couldn't get any gayer...
Oh, yeah. I think most of us knew a kid like him at that age. High risk of becoming a straight-up douchebag and little else. I guess time will tell.
So he's old enough to drive? Or are they in Europe where the mom is driving on the right side?
He must have his camera recording a "mirror image" R88. There's no way he can drive, and he's clearly not from Europe based on how he and his friends talk. But you're right...he's always on the "wrong" side of the car lol.
I always assumed he was sitting in the back.
Anthony lives in New England, you basic bitches need to keep up!
His tumblr is shockingly...kind of subdued and tasteful. Not very many pics of guys.
How is this child not bashed everyday at school? If I had put a video like that up on the Internet when I was 13, I wouldn't have made it to 14.
He's said in a couple of his vids that he changed schools r100. Seems like he sticks with his clique of girlfriends.
Its cool that he is so comfortable being himself for the world to see. He also is making a nice amount from all his vids getting so many hits, he probably will have a substantial college fund if he keeps it up!
He's a little cunt. He should've been Casey-Anthony'd.
I think this kid is annoying and obnoxious! He is just reenforcing a stereotype what society has always believed gay males act. Some posters on this thread express how this kid is great because he is self expressing himself and society is changing and accepting,which is bull! There will always be kids like him being picked on. Also, what is so positive for a kid to have a toilet for a mouth? Is this the image that you like to project? So this is progress? A little clown blossoming into a caricature?
Males like this are the butt of jokes in society. When straight people make fun of gay men and teens they generalize all gay males into this stereotypical mold, which this little flamer is, then don't complain they are being homophobic and hateful.
r25, trashy child and terrible parenting. If this were my kid, I'd set him right spewing this foul-mouthed nonsense... and actually encouraging him to broadcast it? Is that supposed to be cute? I don't understand. I can imagine him getting sassy with his own parents.
And it's more disturbing that other kids (mostly girls) moon over him via the comments, meaning this is what's "in" with kids now. smh.
R104 exactly he's putting on an act, there are gay men who are naturally feminine but it's pretty obvious that he's playing to the cameras.
I wish more gay men would realize hoe awesome it is to be a man and masculinity is everything.
And yes you can still be masculine and gay, in fact there's nothinh more masculine than two dudes having sex. The testosterone level alone.
I wish I was as cute as that kid.
R107 he may be a nice looking kid, but him being a flamer is gonna squatch most future romantic oppurtunities.
Nobody wants a flamer, not even the hypocritical flaming gays who claim to be all about gay pride and talk shit on masculine gays.
I worry for him.
He's adorable though, and of the genetic variant that makes many gay men feminine by nature.
No surprise that he threatens oh-so-masculine R108.
Chris Crocker did this in 2007. Get a new schtick kiddo.
R109 dude I'm not threatened by any body I'm just pointing out facts.
In profiles you never hear flamers so no masculine guys.
Then the flamers get all butt hurt when you reject then.
I'm a dude I think like a guy and act like a guy, I like other guys just like me.
I finally found it over a year ago with my boyfriend. I'm happier now than I've ever bern, I didn't think life could get better.
You doth protest a bit, mascu-gay.
R108 the big black dude in R102's linke (top commenter twister126) wrote: "When he turns 21, I want to tear that ass up." So there are people out there who are attracted to cute, flamboyant, ef-fen-i-nate men.
BTW: How old is he? He looks 14 at the oldest. :-/
Mine came from The Pointer Sisters circa 1985. I'm just doing Doing the Neutron Dance....
"He'll make an outlandish, extravagant, theatrical event out of nothing. I do that too quite often and can't figure out why."
Narcissistic Personality Disorder, with a touch of the manic depression?
What r15 said.
I don't know where the attitude comes from, but I hate it. There's nothing I hate more than some little queen acting like he's a 500 lb. pissed off black woman. Especially when they do their fucking two-snaps up after making their point. That's so 1991.
Maybe he's born with it. Maybe it's Gay-belline.
I agree 119. It is the same attitude of a fat black woman, yes. What it really is. I've noticed a correlation between the queeny fags, fat black women and dramatic goths.The common denominator is they all grew up poor.You'll never find a gay man from the upper echelons flaming out.The poor people were never taught how to conduct themselves because their parents were so trashy. It is actually a class issue.
I used to work with a little queen that had the fat black woman attitude. He was bitching and raving and getting on my nerves one day, so I asked him why he acted like that. He said, "Because, Sugar, I'm a diva." I said, "Listen, dude, you're not a fucking diva. You have a cock and balls. You're a man. You're not a fucking woman. No matter how much you put your hands on your hips and shake your head back and forth, you are still a fucking man. So, shut the fuck up!" Needless to say, we never spoke again. LOL.
I'm not the most masculine guy in the world, but I am sure as hell no diva. I have a cock and balls, therefore I am a man.
I don't really care if someone tries to masc or fem. The problem with this guy is he thinks being mean has some value. It never does.
I actually feel sorry and am pissed at this kid at the same time. For those of us who ave seen gays constantly put down/made fun of to where we are close to having marriage equality, I am pissed that he thinks it is cute to be so fem while everybody but his faghags are no doubt laughing at him while he is adding to the stereotype that we are all prissy and halfway bitchy feMALES. I feel sorry for him because outside of those similar to him, he likely will never fit in. If he does ever grow up and quit the attitude, he will also be terribly embarrassed at posting all these videos.
Do you think he's a bottom?
Either he's totally cool with himself or he's acting out because of a lot of pain. Don't know which but I can tell you, he would work my last nerve if I had to deal with that on a daily basis.
[quote]I am pissed that he thinks it is cute to be so fem while everybody but his faghags are no doubt laughing at him while he is adding to the stereotype that we are all prissy and halfway bitchy feMALES.
Meh, he's too young to hold that against him. Now, if he carries on like that in the real world as a grown up, you've got a point.
I hope he becomes a U.S senator
Holy Shit. He can actually put his ankles behind his ears.
he's a girl.
From glitter. It's pretty when it's tossed, but it's a bitch when it gets in your eye.
Nothing is less masculine than hysteria and whining. And this kid isn't poor, nor is flaming correlated with poverty; poor men are generally more conventionally masculine than men of the upper classes. At this point you're just flailing about for insults ("He's like a bitch! He's like a nigger!") hoping something will stick. He seems like an entitled little asshole, but he IS fascinatingly threatening to some of you, especially those of you who hate the idea that there are indeed gay men who are feminine, and apparently desperately wish that assertion were nothing more than a homophobic trope. It's not.
I try to be tolerant of others, but I cannot stand a screaming drama queen (of ANY orientation). I am just as gay as they are, but I choose not to act like a raving lunatic.
This makes me laugh! And it kind of explains where he picked up parts of his personality from...
Sorry, but a young gay male can sass most "fat black women" under the table. Why do people completely miss the white Valley Girl component of this persona? This is a combination effect that is uniquely gay.
R134 He calls himself "pansexual". Interesting.
"Nothing is less masculine than hysteria and whining."
Then why are most men hysterical and whiny?